why after marriage ur love pasion ( making love ) to ur wife gradually getting less?

Answer 1

Here's why two people should NOT have sex before marriage. The problem is that as long as you are with each other WITH OUT having sex, you're getting to KNOW each other. You're able to think with your MIND and NOT be driven by sexual desire. You can learn to LIKE each other first, come to know if you are 'good' for each other, if you share interests, what things you agree on, etc.

As long as you DON'T have sex during dating and then courtship, you can learn about each other and THEN if you find yourself in love with each other, you'll naturally want to get married. You'll want to COMMIT to each other, and having married you will grow closer together in an even deeper, more meaningful way (through sex).

When you have sex before marriage, at that point really getting to know each other pretty much STOPS. Then it becomes ALL about the sex. And anyone who's been married for any length of time realizes that a marriage built upon sex probably WON'T last. People change and so will the sex.

So you should get to know each other first and take PLENTY of time in doing so!

Answer 2

Because you can do it whenever you want to now, and you don't always have to be soooo horny anymore waiting for her, because you know that she is always there when you need some. All those people who say all those other things, are fuking disqusting. You get tire of an old car? Thats just stupid, and mean, if you marry her only for the sex, then you have serious problems. And there aint no such thing as Too loose, maybe if you don't do it every dam day it wouldn't be so loose.

Answer 3

It's just like eating at your favorite resturant all the time and ordering your favorite food every time. Unless it's done in moderation, you will grow tired of it very quickly. You might try going without for a while and then start up anew, since a healthy jumpstart helps sometimes. Try some different things and be creative.

Answer 4

because it's old hat been there seen it done it. iv'e been married 42 yr. sex is only there to get you hooked and have kids then if you don't try something new it just goes away but love is having a person who knows all your faults and still loves you and the same for her send her off some place maybe a bar or then you show up and try to pick her up .act like it the first time you have meet. good luck bud

Answer 5

definite it truly is sin. Sin risky to the different lady, your marriage, your spouse, your spouse and children and your self. what is going incorrect with you or your marriage that you even entertain those options. the position is the temptation coming from. Do all you may to refresh and renew what you've at abode. Or I question in case your love is the reality or a lie. The harm lasts an complete life might want to numerous peoples lifetimes.

Answer 6

It's simple.... you LET the passion leave your relationship! You get caught up in life, the mundane, you go to bed thinking about what happened that day and what will happen the next.... instead go to bed thinking about the passionate sexy woman lying in bed beside you. The bedroom is NOT the place to think or discuss life. MAKE time for each other, KEEP the fire burning, DON'T forget what attracted you in the first place! :-)

Answer 7

She's probably getting bored with you. You've got to work for it like you're trying to get it for the first time. Try to impress her, make her feel special, make her want it from you. Give it some energy and put the work in and things will improve. Don't treat it like "we're married now so we're supposed to have sex together, so let's go to bed now and do it". The passion will stay alive if you feed it, water it, and take it for walks. Neglect it and it will die.

Answer 8

I am the wife to a man 8 years older then me. We have 2 kids...If your sex life gets less its your own fault...

Mine has only gotten better and I have been married for 9 years!!!!!

Answer 9

because it gets boring.

SERIOUSLY, only people with boring sex lives in their marriage would be asking this question. Not saying thats a bad thing, but usually you stop having so much sex, because its the same old thing... nothing new..

its the couples who try new things all the time, and really enjoy themselves, who have very healthy sexual relationship, and overall relationships.

Answer 10

Most people have this situation you as a couple get into a routine living together and you see the good and bad. This lulls you into sense of passivity. thus decreased libbido. People who want to avoid this need to try romancing their partner not just saying lets do it. reaper out.......