Marriage & Divorce - 13 August 2006

My wife feels that it is important for her to stay in touch with her ex's and mine. And when our past sexual behaviors come up she gets upset. But she only has her ex's email addresses and work numbers. I know she isn't cheating on me (yet) but why keep in touch if you are happy at home?

2006-08-13 11:30:32 · 14 answers · asked by Kevin P 1

2006-08-13 11:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by john_0502000 3

How would you do it? I don't want to have a total in church style....outdoors maybe? We plan on doing it in a sort of....goth/vintage style

2006-08-13 11:09:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

not in love with you anymore ?after decades of being married,there's not much going on in the bedroom,tried all the romantic and role playing stuff,didn't work.there is no compliments or desires anymore.i'm deeply in love with him ,but my heart is breaking cause i don't know what to do.he will never talk about it either.i do not suspect him of having another woman,cause he's always home and not a phone person. i cannot see or understand a reason for this except maybe he's bored with me.i do consider myself to be adventurous and a bit of a risk taker.i'm a true romantic at heart.i just can't seem to get his attention.

2006-08-13 11:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by stormy 6

My mom and her boyfriend are in a great relationship. But his ex girlfriend is trying to split them apart. What should they say to her or do?

2006-08-13 11:01:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are unable, physically and emotional, to engage in sex. Why should we remain married?

(exhausting details follow shortly)

2006-08-13 10:49:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-13 10:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Nate 1

Scenario: She lives in middle Tennessee [Nashville Metro area] within an hour of Rivergate Mall. She's married, a mother, and life is all pretty good. Even the marriage is good - except the passion is gone. Occasional sex, but nothing mind-blowing. She misses the lust, the ache, the afterglow. She misses being the object of a man's hungry desires. She does not want to leave nor destroy her marriage - she just needs what is missing. She thinks she must have someone with as much to lose as her, so she begins looking for a married man with whom to discreetly create a sexual playground. How does she find him? Where does she look for him? How does she approach him? How does she let him know she is approachable?

2006-08-13 10:41:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband works and comes home. That's it. He has friends. He ducks them to hang out at home with me and our daughter. Or we'll go out as a family. It might sound like a dream to some women, but I think he needs to be more well rounded. We are both in our early 30's, and I think that's too young for him to not go out. I am not saying every night. Maybe twice a month. I think he needs to have fun with the guys sometimes and I don't understand why he doesn't. The second part of that, is that he'll try to guilt trip me if I want to meet up with the girls. My girl excursions are always pretty tame. We might go on a shopping trip and out to dinner. I just sometimes like to do the things I used to do before I became a mommy and wife. We've been married for 4 years, together for 8 years, and are very happy. I just don't think secluding himself from 'the boys' is healthy. Any suggestions?

2006-08-13 10:40:27 · 11 answers · asked by GreenEyedSista 4

My husband doesn't know that I am friends with both of my exes. I only have two. My husband and I have been together for over 8 years and married for 4 years, and these exes are no threat to my marriage, nor have they ever disrespected my marriage. Some of my friends say it's wrong, but I don't see why I cannot still be friends with people I've known before my husband. He doesn't speak to his exes. He only has one in the city we are from. Since she tried to disrespect our relationship (this was before we were married), he does not speak to her. I don't see my exes. I went to the funeral when one ex's grandmother passed, but that's it. Is it wrong to maintain these relationships, given that there is no face to face contact with them? I have no ties to them, no children with them. One is recently married and the other in a long term relationship. Our conversations are once every month or two and a 'how have you been' type of thing.

2006-08-13 10:31:12 · 18 answers · asked by GreenEyedSista 4

2006-08-13 10:30:40 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys - do u like pussy without any hair? Or u prefer some hair-cuts there, like a heart or symbol of playboy??? Or maybe u like to help girl to do that?

2006-08-13 10:29:59 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Poison 2

2006-08-13 10:20:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the most polite way to word a wedding invitation where any gifts that are given, are given in the form of money?

2006-08-13 10:14:25 · 6 answers · asked by scuba_steve 3

my husband and i have been married for 18 years now. And for past five years, my husband has been very stubborn about his feet and toes. For example, he refuses to take my advice and trim his toenails every so often (not to say they are super long or whatnot), but still. I mean my husband and I enjoy having me rub and play around with my hubby's feet and toes during our intimate evenings..I do find his feet a bit rugged and manly, but his toenails are getting a bit long for me to enjoy our "intimate times". how must we solve this on-going dilemma of ours?

2006-08-13 10:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by krystle_rae6 1

How long did you have to wait? What circumstances were keeping you apart? Did you ever think about giving up and what made you hang on?

2006-08-13 10:09:52 · 16 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

Hey been with my hubby for over 2 years now but only living together since last winter. When we were dating it was long distance so it was a couple weeks most of the time between visits. During those visits he was all over me and very into sex. Now that we have lived together for a bit its slacked off, way off.

I mean he will come around most of the time if I hit on him and when we do its great but I miss that passion we had. I have talked to him about this issue, in tears a few times. He feels bad about it and says he will work on starting things more often. He says nothing has changed with him and I am as sexy to him as always have been.

I have done the rose petals on the bed thing and that was great but can't do that everynight. I have bought toys to spice it up, lingere all the things I could think of. It always works for that night but then it goes back to quick, same position before bed in the dark again. It almost feels like if I didn't come on to him, we wouldn't at all.

2006-08-13 10:01:33 · 12 answers · asked by kimnwi 3

he swears his marriage is and has been over for a long time, but yet no divorce yet.

2006-08-13 09:51:00 · 18 answers · asked by streaker77777 2

me and my bf having been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now, we love each other every much, lately i have been feeling like he is distancing hisself towards me, when we use to talk on the phone it use to be so amazing and now its so diferent, my boyfriend is a hard working and i understand that he works hard. right now he is out to see and well be coming to see me during this month. Why do i feel like at times he doest wanna take to me or that he is drifting away from me. Weve always been long distance and its hard but we deal with it cause we love each other. Recently he asked me to marry him, so he wants to ask my mother for my hand in marriage when he comes. He said he has had alot of him mind while he has been out to sea, thinking about getting closer to god, and starting a life with me. Im so hapy that he wants to do that, but is it normal to be scared. Im a virgin is it okay to give myself to him, cause i want to have a strong memory of him when he goes back home?

2006-08-13 09:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by Airees D 1

My ex-wife is hiding our son from me after a court order was issued in our divorce decree which expressingly states my rights to be able to have visitation.

2006-08-13 09:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by danmaneverlastingthesoulstealer 1

45 yr old mom with a full life but can make a little time to email.

2006-08-13 09:42:34 · 14 answers · asked by nowisthetime 2

If you've found yours, how did you know?

2006-08-13 09:35:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so how to stop and are u still with that person?

2006-08-13 09:35:09 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

I constantly think about my old boyfriend even though I haven't seen him in 13 years. I have been married for 10 years and it certainly has not been great. Anyway he is in town and I would really like to meet up with him. To either close that door finally or find out if he was the one. Am I crazy?

2006-08-13 09:26:22 · 16 answers · asked by MB W 1

2006-08-13 09:22:21 · 10 answers · asked by kenny h 3

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and we have been living together for 1. I have a friend that tells me her boyfriend will never propose because why should he? she is already living with him and doing everything for him. What do you think are signs a man will never propose??

2006-08-13 09:06:37 · 21 answers · asked by wondering 1

money is no object
preferably newer model but used is ok

2006-08-13 09:02:02 · 6 answers · asked by hadji from des moines 3

I was married 14 byears, I thought all was good. I was 38 she was 27 when she asked to have my baby. I knew I didn't want anymore children. But I gave in. Now we have a beautiful 10yr old daughter. Well my wife hd an affair. They are not together. but she says she is happy and gotten on with life. While I am stuck wondering why did she do it. I will never understand why she wanted she thought she needed an affair. I thought that a marriage was forever and you woulfd work any issues in a marrage out that would benefit the family as a unit. If she wasn't happy. then why didn't she make it clear. I am struggling with all this. Has anyone else been through anything like this?. I think the root was her co-dependency on her MOMMY. Who crries allot of guilt because my ex was sexually abused by her grandfather. What ever my ex asked them for , she always got. GRRRRRRRRR

2006-08-13 09:00:12 · 4 answers · asked by bigblock_475_hp d 2

I am 43 yrs old,my husband and I have been married 25 years. I seem to have a hard time getting him to notice and want me sexually. I will admit that I am not the same size that I was when we married, but I don't think I am a real loser now either. I am 5'9, 150lbs, and fill out a 36D nicely. I realize that is not a model figure, but I don't think that it should be considered a major turn off either. I have been open to any sexually suggestions, but when I ask he just tells me that it likes things just the way they are. I may not be that young any more, but I am sure not ready for my sex life to be over. I love my husband, and we get along great in other areas, just not sexually. Please help me out with some suggestions.

2006-08-13 08:55:46 · 33 answers · asked by oldmarriedlady 1

2006-08-13 08:46:04 · 27 answers · asked by andy j 1