was it your dream when you grew up to get married have 2.4 kids and a mortgage? did your dreams come true?
2006-08-13 19:49:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No my dreams didn't come true, I have three kids that yes, I wanted(all boys) but now I'm getting divorced, never wanted that and I wanted to live on a farm surrounded by horses, goats and dogs. Didn't get that either.
2006-08-14 02:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it still is my dream to get married and have kids. It hasn't come true yet cuz I'm only 21 maybe in the next 5 yrs. And what is 2.4 kids anyway? You can't have .4 of a child!! That has always bothered me!!
2006-08-14 02:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by elr212006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dream was and still is to be an independent women, who can support herself. I have 1 child with my fiance (we get married t his saturday)... and we honestly dont want anymore... so no 2 to 4 kids for me... and i could care less about the mortage. The most important thing for me is that im happy and healthy, and so is my family. I cant say all my dreams have come true, as Im still working on them (finishing school is a dream of mine, so far, im three years in and kept above a 3.5 GPA)... ive proved everyone wrong that having a child at a young age. Who said young parents cant be good parents?
2006-08-13 20:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dream was to become financially independed by age 30 and I'm still working on it. I didn't expect I'd be married by age 19. I'm now 21. The best part is my husband has the same dream and now there's two of us working on the same goal. Can't beat that with a stick!
2006-08-13 20:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dream was to be a good writer. And I'm still working on that, and as I get older I see getting married and having 3 kids a long ways a way.
2006-08-13 20:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dream was to be a Vet and work in a Zoo.
Go backpacking, go on random road trips on a whim
camp till i had too much arthiritis to manage anymore
and do hairdressing on the side
I got married twice and had five kids, became a cook, am now no longer married and wondering where the hell my life went.
My passion now is Transactional Analyisis
2006-08-13 20:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my dreams didn't come true. I always thought i would never get marry, but then i got forced to by my mom. And then my husband wanted kids, so i said okay, because i thought everything would be good between us, but when i got pregnant, he was such a jerk and when i had his first baby, he didn't even want to spend any time with us, it was always with his friends, so, now i'm stuck with three kids, have no friends, have no house to call my own, and struggling with money and work. So no my dreams didn't come true. I thought i would be single forever, just dating and having fun.
2006-08-13 19:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goals were to finish college and get a masters or doctors degree after that I was to a successful career woman in what ever field I had chosen but love interrupted my journey and set me back by 10 yrs. It isn't that bad because I met a great guy and have 3 children. Of course we have our ups and downs. However it did set me back like I said and I finally started school again and I am determine to get my degree. You have to make your dreams come true somehow, don't you think???
2006-08-13 20:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by MARS227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it was, then I got the marriage and the mortgage though thankfully no kids before I realised it wasn't.
Now my dream is to run a restaurant in Spain with my partner - we own the buildings and are just aiting on the permissions to rennovate them.
2006-08-13 22:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dream was (still is, lol) to have a successful career in my chosen field. Marriage and kids take a back seat. It would be nice to get married, but I wouldn't beat myself about it if I don't.
2006-08-13 19:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by vivante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋