how can i get a divorce from my wife??? as we are not compatible and i have lived with someone for the past four years, i know i should have done this before i had a kid with her who is 5 years old but i wanted try and work the marriage out,,, but in vain,but now iam very happy with my partner who is in the same field as mine,but my wife does not want to let go,what can i do in this situation is there an agreement which i can make keeping her title which she wants and still get married to my partner,like the udit narayan case pls give me options as my lawyer seems to be very slow in all this,, it is 5 years now and i have not even been able to file my case.i have not seen my wife for 3 years now but i hve sent the maintenance without fail till now.So please advise and give me solution.i have no feelings for my wife anymore but she does not want to let go even after 3 years of seperation.
2006-08-13 15:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by john abraham 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go on with your life!! get a divorce!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 03:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to your ORDAINED wife who God gave you to have in the first place for YOUR WHOLE LIFETIME. Better start working your butt off with your wife. Oh here is another hard fact no one fells out from love , they fell out from commitment. How is it living in ADULTERY ? How can you live with your conscience ?? The hard fact remains is marriage is what it is UNTIL DEARTH. Remember your wedding vows ................... SO DEATH DO US APART. You better take your vows very seriously ........................ a vow is a vow. God takes vows very seriously so we should do the same. Divorce ALWAYS brings MORE hurt & MORE pain to the situation. Divorce is the coward 's & quiter's way out from the ordained marriage. Hey look how can your new lover trust you totally when you cheated on your wife. Once a cheat , ALWAYS a cheat. You are in the same boat as my husband { Paul Heinz } is . My husband jump over the other side of the fence along with his girlfriend who was my X-best friend. THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GRENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE ........ THAT IS A BIG FAT LIE BECAUSE THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE IS ALWAYS BROWN AND DEATH IS THERE. If you have any children , you could care less for them ................... you are looking out for # 1 yourself like my husband is too. If you did care deeply for wife , for your marriage , for your children , for your vows than you would NOT be where you are now . The fact remains is marriage is a contract between three people not two. The real truth is people only see what they're prepared to see , and like they said , you reap what you sow. Hey I'm a sinner also that is why I need to have Jesus as my master of my life. He is the only way to get into heaven. You really need to hit rock bottom to see the real truth . Maybe one day you will. Do the right here return to your wife. Divorce never ever brings closure to any situation. Well life is not consequencses .............. life is decisions. There is no pillow so soft as a CLEAR conscience !!!
2006-08-20 22:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get a lawyer and do it. Divorce is never fun. its a shame you all coul'dnt make it work. Maybe you should at least give that a shot. Just because you think your not compatable does'nt mean you cant learn to like and then love each other. Nobody wants to make a marriage work anymore...its just to easy now to walk away.
2006-08-21 09:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't need your permission to keep her title. A judge will ask her if she still wants to keep her married name and it's up to her whether or not she keeps it. Why would you keep a lawyer that hasn't even filed your case yet? Maybe you like things the way they are because your afraid to commit to your new love.
2006-08-18 17:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've fallen for anti-Catholic propaganda. The Catholic Church by no skill banned the Bible from human beings. The Catholic Church did no longer have complications translating the Bible to immediately ahead languages - that they had problems with translations that were undesirable and contained heresy. even as translating the Bible, human beings were able to slide of their personal bias and heresy - it really is the project the Catholic Church had. As for the Bible - it is the inerrant recognize God, written by technique of guys stimulated by technique of the Holy Spirit. because the Bible is an inanimate merchandise it would want to't be "infallible" (unable to practice blunders). it is inerrant - each thing asserted as actual in the Bible is declared by technique of the Holy Spirit and the Holy Spirit doesn't lie or make blunders. The project is presented in determining what the Holy Spirit is holding as actual - it really is why sola scriptura is the form of adverse doctrine. without the magisterium (preparation authority of the church) and Sacred custom, we may be able to't be constructive lets precise understand the bible. i love the get at the same time Mark Shea supplies in his article "what's Sacred custom". The Bible is sufficient - yet there's a large difference between textile sufficiency and formal sufficiency. "what's the style between textile and formal sufficiency? it is the style between having a large adequate pile of bricks to construct a house and having a house of bricks. Catholic preparation says written Sacred custom (popular as Scripture) is materially sufficient: each and each of the bricks had to construct its doctrines are there in Scripture. yet because some issues in Scripture are implicit somewhat than express, different stuff besides Scripture has been handed down from the apostles. This different stuff is unwritten Sacred custom (it really is the mortar that holds the bricks of the written custom at the same time in the right order and position) and the Magisterium or preparation authority of the Church (it really is the trowel in the hand of the draw close Builder). Taken at the same time, those 3 issues are formally sufficient for understanding the revealed truth of God."
2016-11-24 23:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by heckart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not from there but i think the best way for you to get a good answer is fire your lawyer and get another one that can tell you what the real score is.
2006-08-13 15:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll buddy wat u need to do is sit your wife down and bring you partner with to her house and just let her now that u are no longer intereed in a new relationship because i have moved on with someone new and i like to file for divorece. and if she doesnt sign the agreement then u just take that up with your lawyers.
2006-08-21 13:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by queenhoney456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new lawyer , someone who will get it over with quickly.I can't help you with anything else though sorry, but just remember , your happy, so don't let a pile of paperwork stress you out so much, everything will fall into place sooner or later,, cheers!!!
2006-08-20 21:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not from there but i think the best way for you to get a good answer is fire your lawyer and get another one that can tell you what the real score is.
2006-08-16 20:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she keep her title Mrs when you dont love her anymore? She will have to accept it and find someone more like her. Thats life sometimes.
2006-08-21 03:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no problem.
Go to an expert advocate who is expert in divorce cases.
This is legal battle now.
2006-08-20 22:02:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋