Is it something I should accept as a part of life. My friends say that at least he's not out there getting the real thing, but it makes me feel like I'm not enough for him. Is it something that most men do?
2006-08-13 17:10:23 · 10 answers · asked by lesnike06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think that it is something that most men do.
Me and my husband explore everything together and especially our love life. We have open communication and he is not afraid to ask me to do kinky things to him,etc.... and we do watch pron together.
I think that you have ever right to feel hurt about this, cheating is cheating whether online or in person or even if it's emotional. You are suppose to be exploring that kind of stuff together. Unless you really don't mind. But to me it sounds like he's keeping you on the outside of something that you have every right to be included in. It doesn't sound like he cares about pleasing you and exploring your tastes and what turn you on. He might not really realize why he's doing it or what and how it hurts you.
First you should by yourself think about what exactly this means to you in your view, why it hurts you and what you want. I hope that you have the kind of husband that you can at least approach about this. When you talk to him make your points real clear because even the smartest man without connecting the dotes for them just wont get it. I wish you the best of luck
2006-08-13 17:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by shiva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it happens and not just with men , women do it 2 , the prob is 1 day the porn and the online relationships end up going to a meeting and the "real thing" . and id say that will happen at least once . so no don't accept it as part of your life
2006-08-13 17:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by jojo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 12:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not something you should have to put up with. I don't like the part of your question "Is it something that most men do?" If most men do it, does that make it okay? No. What makes it okay is if you're okay with it; you're not, so it's not.
Start by talking to him, tell him it's cheating in your eyes. If it doesn't stop, seek help.
2006-08-13 17:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband also do it and i feel the same way and i also feel that ok he's not doing some 1 else but soon he'll get tired of looking @ girls on *** parade he just started doing it so i feel like what made him go to that? maybe you should talk to him about it hopefully you'd get a better response from him than i got from my husband!
2006-08-13 17:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by dominicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-16 06:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it's an addiction. I think many men are going to find out that over-exposure to pornography will inhibit their potency, sooner or later.
2006-08-13 17:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Austin W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. he just hasn't been caught yet. catch him in the act and the embarassment and shame will make him re-evaluate porn. if he really loves you he will stop. or find better ways to hide it.
2006-08-13 17:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by repentant sinner 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You should not accept this type of behavior. You deserve respect and he is being very disrespectful.
2006-08-13 17:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by sweetLynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its bad if he is do in it alone but if you share it that is another thing that's why you get married to share their life's like friends and lovers
2006-08-13 17:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋