Anyone know where to get free advice to stop a Divorce?

Question

Anyone know how to stop a divorce and repair a damaged relationship?

Answer 1

In order to stop a divorce you must first find out who is pushing for it first. The if it is a male tell him to stop looking bewteen the legs for answers because there's nothihg down there to answer back. If it is a female wanting the divorce, tell her to stop thinking that sex will get better if she leaves because it wont and I'll tell you why.....7 out of 10 marriages fail because the Man's penis is too small and was not properly fit for his chosen mate and when the women feels that someone else will love her better she's wrong because she couldn't hold on to the one she had. It all very simple to identify and neither one of them will ever get it right and end up in divorce down the road again.

Answer 2

you can't
if she has filed
there is no thing you can do about it
unless both of you want to reconcile
and when you show up for the divorce, you can then say you want off and the judge will nullify the proceedings ( after maybe some counciling and then both of you report back )
but is she is bent on divorce
there is nothing you can do
as most states ( except NY ) are no fault
and you cna contest it only if married over 5 years
and or you have children
and or aquired assest
but even then contesting a divorce will not stop it
it will noyl make sure that such things as alimony, visistation rights and child support are set up by the court as fair and equitable ( and that's rare as it usally favor women ), but in the end she will have the marriaged dissolved weather you like it or not..
blame the feminist movement for that one they made sure that no fault is the law of the land

Answer 3

Because divorces are almost always filed as irreconcileable differences, you can't stop them legally, even if you contest it. The only way to stop a divorce from happening is if you reconcile with your spouse during the waiting period between the time the divorce petition is filed and the actual judgement date. My only advice is to talk it over with your spouse, suggest counseling and if you've done nothing terribly wrong to warrant the divorce, pray that he/she has a change of heart. I'm sorry you are having to go through this and try to remember that no matter what happens, you are going to be okay.

Answer 4

If either you or your wife are religious go talk to a pastor or minister from your church they will help you and possibly heal hurts to get past the feeling of wanting to call it quits, and it's free. That's what they are there for, other than that, I don't know of any FREE place you can go for councelling, if you were in the military I would say ACS (Army Community Services), but I don't know that you are, and in all likeihood if you WERE associated with the military you would already know that (maybe). I'm sorry to hear about your relationship has gone sour, I'm kind of in a similar place in my life (although both parties ARE willing to work on it), I've kicked my husband out of the house until we can start getting past some pretty major issues. Hoping that by having him out of the house we keep our "issues" out of the house and away from the kids, they don't need to be drug into the middle of this. Repairing your marriage is going to take both of you, so if she's already filing for divorce you can contest it, BUT know that bringing her back from that point to a loving relationship isn't going to be easy. It takes a LOT of hard work. It CAN be done though (hopefully otherwise me and my hubby are screwed). Good luck!

Answer 5

Been there...
I went ahead with the divorce....
Been living together since over twenty years....
Don't know if I can help but It is someone to unload on that has been through some stuff........

Answer 6

Definitely don't just go along with whatever he says -- you still have a lot invested in this relationship. Go to a marriage counselor by yourself. Counseling services are often available through the church. I really hope you come through this okay.

Answer 7

You don't say who started the divorce. If it was you, I would talk to her and find out her feelings before I did anything. If it was her, there is no way to stop her proceedings, talk to her and see if she is willing to try to work it out. IF she says she is willing to try, then get to work and fix the thing. Good luck

Answer 8

Go to the lawyer and tell him to stop the divorce, if you guys both want repair a damaged relationship, its going to take time to fix that.

Answer 9

You could always talk to a lawyer. A lot of them have free consultations.

Answer 10

Go to legal aid in your town and go to counseling with a shrink or a family priest or minister.