Marriage & Divorce - 23 July 2006

without giving you a reason can anyone tell me how to stop this pain im getting in the pit of my gut

2006-07-23 07:35:29 · 27 answers · asked by smiff78 3

2006-07-23 07:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by katlady 1

ive been told by several people that marriage isnt all its cracked up to be and that the men become a$$holes.

2006-07-23 07:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by NursieAngie 3

I am engaged to a very traditional man. I am concerned because I would like to have a prenup.... but I know that just suggesting that option would be a great offence to him.
On the other hand, he owns a house and he expects me to copay his mortgage once we get married and I move in with him. Now, if we got divorced someday, would I own half of the house too even if it was bought under his name?

2006-07-23 07:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine 2

me too.

2006-07-23 07:09:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we still talk on the phone,and we are not happily married,we had an affair in a whole year and nov was the last time i seen him,now i have a 2 year old and he think the child is his.help please

2006-07-23 07:00:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We met at a club and it started from there. His wife was out of town with an exbabydaddy. He used to asked me for advice and i gave him my advice. He trusted me and I trusted him. See he told me that he was going to leave her when we were dating for a month but he didn't do it. So when she left in went out of town the second time he was riding around looking for me but he couldn't find me cause i didn't want to be the reason why they split up. So when i called him i started asking him questions about his marriage in told me that she was trying to make things work. Then the third time she left he took her clothes to her and he came and picked me up and we started talking about his problems and we became close again. He had three kids by another woman before his wife. I have none but i still care fore them as if they was mine.

2006-07-23 06:55:20 · 27 answers · asked by missy979bryantx 2

Why do the people your in a relationship with push marriage? Why not just stay bf/gf or gf/gf?

Marriage seems like leasing a car!

2006-07-23 06:51:57 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1

a man calls a woman a younggoose when she says or does something "silly" all out of love

2006-07-23 06:48:11 · 5 answers · asked by younggoose 1

I have been divorced for 2 1/2 years and have gotten back together with my ex-wife for a few months about a year and a half ago. Since then she has stayed in contact by calling me usually every day and sometimes more than once a day. When she comes by to pick my son up she usually stays for a while just chit chatting. I have been holding onto nothing for all this time hoping we would be together again. Now she tells me she has someone that she has dated for 8 months which i find hard to believe when she calls me like everyday and tells me everything that is going on in her life. She just told me about this guy after she found a note on my front door that made her believe I was seeing someone else. She told me she didn't find the note but that is just an impossibility. She says it's really serious with this guy but i can't stop obsessing and trying to figure out ways to make her come back. I would like to move on but I just can't start feeling ok with everything.

2006-07-23 06:47:00 · 16 answers · asked by Chad 1

voicemail.

2006-07-23 06:45:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wanted to get his attention to let him know he cannot take me for granted. I can always break off the affair right before he returns. But I get tired of hearing about this war crap and I need a breakkkkkkkkk. I am stressed out too. I do not think I will leave him,but he just needs to understand that I can leave him and so now he can start back giving me the attention that I deserve. And this military career thing is over when he gets back and if he refuses, then maybe I really will leave him. Damn it feels good to be back in control!

2006-07-23 06:31:46 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's post traumatic stress disorder, and he cannot let go of the past. He has known he has had this disorder for 30 years and has kept it a secret from me. He has really hurt me, and my children. One is 16 and has loved him over her own loser dad. The other is our foster grandchild who we were going to adopt, but now since this has happened, I really do not want to raise him alone. I am really hurt and need some insight from a third party, in. I feel like I have lost 12 years of my life. He has broken promises, lied, kept secrets, been self-centered, and selfish. I feel like he just wanted to use me. I really need some anweres and some guidence from someone fast before I do something irrational. Right now I am looking at a garage sale sign that says " I just found out that my husband suffers from ptsd. He's had this disorder since childhood, never told me. Husband a lying, cheating, self-centered fake. Selling his thingscheap. Left me with 2 kids and no job. please be generous. thanks

2006-07-23 06:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by denie545 1

2006-07-23 06:23:55 · 24 answers · asked by ciccina_5 1

2006-07-23 06:23:25 · 2 answers · asked by kriesh 1

the mall and want to make love somewhere with little chance of getting cought, and idea's or experiences?

2006-07-23 06:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please see earlier posts.

2006-07-23 06:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-23 06:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by angel 2

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2006-07-23 05:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by frenchvanilla414@sbcglobal.net 3

2006-07-23 05:59:10 · 13 answers · asked by kimberley e 1

me and this lady from work had an affair for about a year (shes married). things got pretty serious. but because of our situation ( her husband wanted to try to start a family ) we decided to end it. the thing is, she still calls me wanting to be friends. when i tell her that i dont think that its a good idea, she gets sad and starts to cry, and asks me why i never asked her to leave her husband for me. we still want to be with eachother, but i told her things are different now that shes gonna have a baby. but she still calls, ive changed my number twice already. should i be friends with her or keep running ?

2006-07-23 05:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

asked me what he had done to me for him to deserve this treatment and how could I even think such a thing? Well I got so upset and couldn't speak. I put the phone down and went and poured me a drink. I don't know what to do anymore.

2006-07-23 05:38:54 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it wrong that im married but i am bisexual and that i want to be with women
i have been with women before and also shared with my man so is it wrong

2006-07-23 05:30:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in the most unusal marriage. I probably should move on but don't know how even with help from professionals its hard. Please tell me if its just me or am I justified.I have always thought our marriage was odd. He likes to drink and party (as well as his family)and watch porn and expect me to be the star if you get my drift. He is very intelligent and good with people...one of those everyone likes him type. He is very close to his family...and friends....but somehow I get lost in the shuffle....I am expected to do as I am told and enjoy everything he likes and want to do it too. But I pretend to in order to keep him happy. He still continues to drink actually got caught once at work but they let him off....can't lose this guy he is smart and all the union guys like him. He moved me to the country which I hate but tried to make work....I got a horse and he had to get chickens, roosters and now a cow. I am not this type of person and I do tell him but it falls on deaf ears. ...I think I would leave but on the other hand I am petrified to go...and I don't know why....I could go on and on and on but I figure someone will understand. Any words of wisdom?

2006-07-23 05:29:58 · 15 answers · asked by Lucy 1

Before the mother went to another country to look for a job, she had at home a hard life, since the divorce she hasn't spoken to him for a long time and was making her life much harder for a single boy that she had. She managed to teach him very good, at the first she had some problems but she knew that he will be a good boy. And she was right. The little boy loved his mother, grandfather and all his family, he was shy at a very young age but as he grow up his mother was very proud of him, he was good at school, warm, friendly, a little angel. But his father was a stranger for the little boy, at a age of 6 or maybe younger he found out the true story of his father. The father was like a stranger to the boy, truly he didn't know how to love him but still he always had emotions when he talks to him by the phone or directly. The money was a problem, the father was not quit smart and nice to his son. Instead of money he sent sweets and old objects for the boy, but very late.

2006-07-23 05:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by Soso 3

Want him back so badly
I was in an unhappy marriage, actually still am and at the time was working for a large company where I met the man of my dreams. He was one of my accounts and we hit it off over emails. One thing led to another, of course he was married for 13 years and I for 15. He too wanted out of his marriage. So the ordeal began....I moved out and he divorced....I was suppose to divorce but never could do it and I know it wasn't because I didn't love him.....I didn't love me. Now he has told me to move on after almost 3 years. He won't talk to me anymore although he still was up until three days ago....then he had a friend call me to ask me to leave him alone and MOVE ON...that I was still married and I am making his life miserable. What do I do? Give it time or move on?

2006-07-23 05:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 1

2006-07-23 05:16:33 · 4 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

Yes I understand people are people etc etc. Race is a collection of physical attributes that when grouped together are given social signifigance. Since these groupings are based on physical characteristics it is reasonable that individuals can have opinions on which set of physical attributes is the most attractive without being racist.

2006-07-23 05:16:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-23 05:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

pick up? I feel a little bad now. I do love him,I'm just confused.

2006-07-23 05:10:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous