Marriage & Divorce - 23 July 2006

My wife and I have been married for eleven years not. Everything seems to be fine, but were talking once about her masterbating another man, and nothing else, but only if I were there present. She thought it might spice up our marriage if we were to try something new like this. She is not interested in engaging in intercourse with someone else, and I am NOT for it also. I have always heard that masterbation is not a sex act.

2006-07-23 20:11:12 · 9 answers · asked by Ray 1

As of this moment, what do you think your wife/husband is thinking about you. Yes I am bored.

2006-07-23 20:06:35 · 8 answers · asked by Sonny M 3

My wife is not cooperating & doesn't want me to have joint legal custody. She is making up all the horrible stories from the beginning to now. In Illinois if wife doesn't want joint legal custody, husband can't have it? And GAL is very very biased lawyer. What is my option? There will be a pre-trial conference soon.

2006-07-23 20:05:05 · 6 answers · asked by honestman 1

my family used to traditionally have arranged marriages. on the grounds that both the intended agreed to the marriage. my grandmother asked me recently what my thoughts were. i told her i truely would not care. but it is interesting to me to know. how would you answer that sort of a question? do you believe you can learn to love/grow into loving someone? or do you believe love should be a freely made choice, duty free?... Ps. Serious answers only. what are your thoughts? for or against. or middle ground. any story's of arranged marriages? did they work? fail? do you love eachother?

2006-07-23 20:00:56 · 26 answers · asked by LanaLyn15 2

It would be so much easier to just not fix my hair, put on make-up, put in my contacts and pluck my eyebrows.

I try to keep myself up so as not to embarass him in front of his peers. He told me the other day that he didn't marry me for my beauty so why try to look beautiful if he doesn't care?

2006-07-23 19:58:59 · 44 answers · asked by eunosgirl 4

My wife is 5 months pregnant, and has only ever been able to climax in the missionary position. It's not for the lack of "size", but for her lack of experience. Any ideas on what I can do to spice things up would be appreciated.

2006-07-23 19:51:34 · 4 answers · asked by rudedog_36255 1

2006-07-23 19:49:58 · 28 answers · asked by foolish 1

We met and there was chemistry right away. she has three kids from same father who died in a car accident. I know this sounds shallow but I'm not ready to be a father of three. She seems to want to be with me. Should I have sex with her knowing that we are not going to end up together? I can tell it's going to happen and I think we both want each other sexually. But I don't want to lead her on. what should I do?

2006-07-23 19:46:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Shouldn't he know who he is by now? Everytime he leaves her he stays gone a few months. I can't help it I feel so sorry for her. I hate him to treat her this way. They have been married over 30 years.this is about the %th time he has done this in the last 14 years! I don't think there is anything I can say to my sister cause I want her to be happy it's none of my business. What would you say if it was your sister? Would you say anything at all.

2006-07-23 19:43:42 · 12 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7

Does your mate have the same time of day? OR, do you conflict? How do you work it out?

2006-07-23 19:40:45 · 7 answers · asked by Red Fox 2

2006-07-23 19:39:45 · 1 answers · asked by algermik6916 1

2006-07-23 19:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by NANCY K 6

2006-07-23 19:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by aarzooji a 3

2006-07-23 19:06:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go for contact marriage with an American.What will be the cost?Is there anybody?Oh...I'm female.

2006-07-23 18:57:29 · 4 answers · asked by shahana 1

ice cold lemonade and downed it in a heartbeat, she was livid. Now she wants a divorce. Do you think she's serious?

2006-07-23 18:54:28 · 4 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I used to be on of those women who abhored the idea of cheating and all cheaters, but after living in a resentful, lukewarm, and inconsistent marriage for 11 years, I'm finding it much easier to understand how infidelity happens. Like every other woman, I've had my chances and thankfully I haven't succumbed to them, but I'm starting to think that infidelity is not altogether an evil matter orchestrated by callous homewreckers. I have repeatedly expressed my concerns to my husband about our lack of intimacy (not the sexual sort); he just doesn't get it. Although I'd never resort to infidelity in the form of a one-night stand, the notion of an emotional affair frigthens me because I've grown to understand how it could happen. What are your thoughts: are emotional affairs and/or infidelity ever justified/forgiveable/understandable?

2006-07-23 18:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by ophelia 2

my driveway, she's a beautiful thing after the tarring I gave her. My wife is real pleased. She says that if I buy her a car she'll stay with me. Do you think she's honest about that?

2006-07-23 18:47:50 · 10 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My ex is more concerned with partying and acting like she's 21 again than being a good mother...so be it. Need to know how/where to meet good women at 30. Would love to hear opinions! Thanks.

2006-07-23 18:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by fah_q_freak 1

I know several men who gave up , families, jobs, the way they had always lived and changed compleatly ,. I have been told this is called antropause. My question is, does this realy exist as an illness or is it just that they (men ) never face the fact that life will somedaY BE OVER, AND WHEN THIS STARTS TO be a realisum to them they go a little crazy and get a new wife, a new job , a new car, trying to out run the death thing. Is it real or just an excuse for men to do as they wish and no one think bad of them "it's not the fault of the guy it's just change of life" what do you think?

2006-07-23 18:30:21 · 15 answers · asked by gigigal906 2

wat would you guys say a year or so before or like right before you get married

2006-07-23 18:19:09 · 8 answers · asked by ashlee y 1

Concern for friend

2006-07-23 18:18:31 · 25 answers · asked by aducksler 2

2006-07-23 18:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by mala 1

2006-07-23 17:50:30 · 9 answers · asked by derek_chew90 1

Recently my ex took me to the Bahamas for a vacation. We both went with the agreement we'd go as friends and the first couple of days that's just what we were. We spent our days lounging lazily on the beach and the more time I spent with him, I found myself falling back in love with him. I would get so emotional at the thought of him not being with me that I cried all through dinner one night, I couldn't control myself. He burnt the bottom of him foot on the concrete becuz we were both stupid to try and walk to the pool barefooted so he went back to get our flipflops and in the process burnt the bottom of him foot. I looked after it, iced it for him and I realized I didn't want to be with anyone else, I wanted us to spend our aging years together. Does it sound crazy that we reconnected? I'm a lil confused..what do u think?

2006-07-23 17:50:20 · 17 answers · asked by ooolala 2

2006-07-23 17:49:18 · 12 answers · asked by LM Lisa 1

We love each other so much. Am I so unhappy with her or is it me? Shes a dick But I love Her! Im A deadbeat but I scrape by and treat her great, other than semi breaking up with her once in a while. What The FUKC?!

2006-07-23 17:47:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is are the first few months/years like when you are trying to work things out with no trust on either side and years of hard feelings behind you. Can it it worked out , especially if the main cheater may still be cheating? Anyone ever done this? What to to expect? How does these situations usually end?

2006-07-23 17:36:17 · 16 answers · asked by Nuni 1

People seem to spend tons and tons of money on their wedding, yeah sure its a special day but come on, the "big day" is about two people who love each other coming together to bind their love. I think the proper amount of money you really need for a nice wedding is about $5000 or less. Its sad to say but most couples end up getting divorced anyway.

2006-07-23 17:33:26 · 20 answers · asked by River Tam 1

Me April 27,1984 22yrs and 3 kids

2006-07-23 17:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous