Marriage & Divorce - 23 July 2006

we been knowing each other sence high school we had a little something back then is it true when they say if you love something so much you let it go and if it comes back to you then its yours to keep?

2006-07-23 14:33:29 · 34 answers · asked by kelvin g 1

2006-07-23 14:32:11 · 11 answers · asked by armiki66 3

I feel like I won't ever be able to trust him again.Even though I don't have proof that he went al the way with another girl I do know he was lying to me about talking with her and that says to me that he had something to hide.But I am in a tight spot,because I am pregnant with his baby and I am not working right now...What should I do in order to save myself the heartbreak...

2006-07-23 14:28:39 · 23 answers · asked by Yourbestbet 1

My husband views porn online and it hurts me greatly. I am even more concerned that he might be addicted because he doesn't stop even though I tell him how much it hurts me and how it is hurting our relationship.

2006-07-23 14:26:53 · 24 answers · asked by Privdancr 1

One-third of the children born in the US are born bastards. Many of the rich and famous are having children out-of-wedlock. Some even sell their bastard child's image for millions like Tom and Brad. So why not just ban marriage, and everyone can be called a bastard for ever?

2006-07-23 14:26:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I explain that this hurts me? I have talked to him about it twice and thought we had an understanding. I love him very much but this is putting a wedge in our relationship. We are very active sexually and have never put him off or had a "headache". I do not want to view porn with my husband, so please don't suggest that......

His computer was password protected but he did (without saying anything) take off the password. This made me feel better.

I have to travel for work and I hate leaving knowing he will be chatting in a porn forum and viewing porn on line while I am gone.

2006-07-23 14:25:32 · 31 answers · asked by Privdancr 1

We already go to strip clubs together and stuff like that but i was wondering what i should get him to show him how much i appreciate him and stuff.

2006-07-23 14:15:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-23 13:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by realgirl768553 3

We me tin high school, no sex untill we were in our mid 20s and I had been married once. One daughter now 21 away at college, then she left, said I work too much 60 hrs. Said she felt I didn`t love her like I used to and that she felt numb to me. She said she used to feel happy to see me then her feelings changed and tht she didn`t love me any more, we went to counseling after she moved out for 8 months. She dated constantly and insisted on telling our daughter how much fun she was having. She has been gone 18 months now. She used to laugh here and quilt and sing and she kissed me whenever she saw me. She said she felt safe and secure and she wished her friends had as agood a marriage as ours. Then suddenly she said she was leaving, two days after my father died. Since then she has said she was sorry but she needed to be free and feel loved again.

2006-07-23 13:58:18 · 18 answers · asked by Rob B 1

A friend of mine had a woman after 10 yrs. of marriage and he cheated on his wife and she divorced him so my thing is how come when people get into arguments they forgive each other but when someone cheats its a different story

2006-07-23 13:49:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

without sex
i already cook for him , took him out to dinner
we've been arguing alot lately , usually i start fights

2006-07-23 13:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4

Any other ideas?

2006-07-23 13:41:58 · 12 answers · asked by __JENNY_ 1

When I divorced, it was easier to keep my married name....I have 2 children and everyone knows me as their mother. Now I'm gonna get married again. How does it work out if you change your name to your new husband's name, and your children now have a different last name? Won't it be awkward when I call the school, the pediatrician, their friend's parents, etc? It's not like you can send out an announcement stating, "my name is now jane smith". But it would be kind of insulting to my husband to keep my ex's last name, and going back to my maiden name would be REALLY confusing. Anyone done this before?
PS, the names are too long to hyphenate

2006-07-23 13:41:45 · 16 answers · asked by paintgirl 4

My Aunty is going through a divorce, she says every where she goes she has difficulties, like going shopping she finds shop assistants difficult, she finds her family difficult. Is this what they mean when they say divorce is hard thing to come to terms with the difficulties you face daily.

2006-07-23 13:39:14 · 4 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2

Me and my husband have been married for 5 years we have done nothing but argue and fight. I think pretty much threw the whole marrage.. today it seemed to be a apifany i think i figured out that my husband is scared of intimacy.. i love to have sex and cuddle and kiss and do all of the stuff married people do but he says he dosent like it and hes never been like that. its a constant battle to get him to talk dirty or even slightly be affectionate what is a good way to try to get him to be more intamate? or is it even normal for a person to be that way? I am very unhappy in my marrige because of this.. so only really good feed back please.

2006-07-23 13:34:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-23 13:32:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm tired of my husband wanting one because i think it's gross

2006-07-23 13:27:48 · 12 answers · asked by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4

It was put on when divorced; owed 7,000 back in 2003 and hasn't paid.How do I get him to pay that money to the children

2006-07-23 13:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by underthesunset2001 1

For those of you who are married, do you view your partner as your very best friend, the one whom you confide in and vice versa? Or are your best friend and wife/husband separate persons?

2006-07-23 13:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help!

2006-07-23 13:16:24 · 15 answers · asked by PeterStruck 1

2006-07-23 13:11:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-23 13:10:49 · 13 answers · asked by PeterStruck 1

I really don't know how to be romantic, need some advice on how to become that way to save my marrige. i'mm 33 and she's 28

2006-07-23 13:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by sdattitude2004 2

me and my girl talked like playing around about getting married but i feel like shes the one and i love her to death , wuts the best way to do it , i know she will say yes because we wereplaying around and she said seriously she would so i really want to do it.

2006-07-23 13:06:53 · 18 answers · asked by barillas10@verizon.net 1

First read it all befor you jump down my throat!

Why would a woman lie and claim that she was abused when she wasn't? To get her way, to punish the other person? Can people really be that self-involved and perverse that they don't see anything wrong in doing this?

I know two women that have claimed to be abused and both openly admitted that there was no abuse, but that they wanted to punish "him" for something. I mean they went all out and wept in court and everything and these guys now have domestic violence charges/convictions against them for no other reason than she lied about it. They had to do time in jail/community service, anger management courses.

My question is why is the womans word taken so often?
There are truly battered women out there, and for them I truly hope their batterer is punished, but for the "fakers" I think they should be punished. If you think of it really the fakers make it harder for the truly battered to be belived. It is a shame.

2006-07-23 13:02:14 · 7 answers · asked by whatelks67 5

my ex-husband and I have been talking and he realized the mistake he has made and want us back.
I am not sure how I feel for him. I heard from friends that he is still like the way he use to be. Drinking alot, womanizing.

I don't feel right about all of these but we have a child and feel guilty if I don't give this a try.

2006-07-23 12:53:46 · 39 answers · asked by Zail-Em 2

2006-07-23 12:45:07 · 14 answers · asked by David S 2

our furniture is in good condition, but she just wants to redecorate and give it a new look.

2006-07-23 12:37:56 · 14 answers · asked by zoroz 1

I have been with this chick for 3 years, and have 4 kids with her. I'm am still madly inlove, she is my world, there isn't a thing that I would do for her and she has always been like that with me until lately. I think I have become boring and I'm tryin different things(shaving my chest, etc.) to try to be more sexy and spontaneous, and while I think it's helped a little, I need better ideas. She's been flirting with guys online and while I know about it and she tells me the truth, I want her to want to be with me more.

2006-07-23 12:32:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can you do if you meet a guy you want to be with for the rest of your life, but he lives in another country and is always busy with work so you not sure if he is genuine or not, and you really want to believe in him when he tells you he misses you and thinks about you all the time, because you love him so deeply?

2006-07-23 12:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by MissDaharki 1