I have been with this chick for 3 years, and have 4 kids with her. I'm am still madly inlove, she is my world, there isn't a thing that I would do for her and she has always been like that with me until lately. I think I have become boring and I'm tryin different things(shaving my chest, etc.) to try to be more sexy and spontaneous, and while I think it's helped a little, I need better ideas. She's been flirting with guys online and while I know about it and she tells me the truth, I want her to want to be with me more.
2006-07-23 12:32:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well first of all , most women are emotionally driven so what they will notice are things that will touch their heart and not things you change about yourself.. most women want what they see in fairytales, romantic movies, soap opera's ect.. they want the passion the romance.. the excitement.. , so thats what you need to rekindle with her.. show her after that after all this time, and after having the kids that u still have it going on , as far as how to Woo her.. be creative, give from your heart.. do something special for her that would just make her go WOW.. thats how to get to a girl.. not shaving ur chest lol..
2006-07-23 12:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK let me get this one straight you know she is online speaking with men and because she tells you you think she is being honest well get a clue she is telling you because she knows you will find out especially if you are both using the same computer all you would have to do is go to the history box but anyway you cant make no one be and want you and only you if she has the itch now all the rights you do she will still do the wrong ask her if she wants her space or some time apart because talking to men online will and can lead to bigger and greater things buddy
2006-07-23 19:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be a joke of some kind. First of all, I find it hard to believe you've had 4 kids in 3 years. IF you did, that means you are old enough to know a few things. One being, you cannot make anyone do anything or feel what you want them to. Secondly, why are you not married? Third, who told you shaving your chest was sexy? If my man did that, I'd be totally repulsed.
2006-07-23 19:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kari S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you manage to have 4 kids in 3 years? Perhaps you should have figured this all out before you had that ridiculous number of kids with someone you barely know.
2006-07-23 19:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like you have herd a single word your chick has been saying dude..She is not looking at your chest she wants more kids...Then you see she will never have time to talk to anyone not even you...Man do you have problems..What you waiting for get to work you have a lot of dippers and milk to by..
2006-07-23 19:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make anyone feel any certain way-you can only do your best-take a break from the kids and have serious alone time-do something neither of you have done before. Don't be whiny and whipped though-be a man about the relationship and take charge of things-she'll respect you for that-don't be an *** abt. it tho. hope it helps-been there man.
2006-07-23 19:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by The Riddler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her what you are feeling, and tell her how much she means to you, and that her flirting with guys on line is a not okay. You can't force someone to feel something for you. The key to solving most relationship problems is good communication!
2006-07-23 19:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by miztenacioust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just using you Bud. 4 kids in 3 years and you aren't even married -- my word! There is no commitment to you, are are not married. She is probably already looking around for someone else and will say adios to you when she does.
2006-07-23 19:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what the guys are saying that is so interesting to her. Try communication.
2006-07-23 21:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mavey D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things don't last forever, if she's cheating on you or wants to then it's time to let her go. You need someone that will honor and respect you the same way you do them. Anything else and you're cheating yourself...........
2006-07-23 20:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by SweetT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋