My husband views porn online and it hurts me greatly. I am even more concerned that he might be addicted because he doesn't stop even though I tell him how much it hurts me and how it is hurting our relationship.
2006-07-23 14:26:53 · 24 answers · asked by Privdancr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think he just "might" be if what u just said is true duh it dont take a rocket scientist to figure that one out no offense or anything
2006-07-23 14:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by badb0y69420_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say your husband is a sex addict...though he maybe a porn addict. I guess you can say it 'hurts' you and 'hurts' the relationship....though I'd wonder how it does that exactly. I'll bet your relationship would go better if you weren't such a tyrant and a nag. Tyring to force someone to do something is wrong.
Think, would you think it's right for him to simply pick something, lets just say shopping, and cry that it's hurtting him and the relationship...and then ask you to stop? Would you willing jump through any hoop for him, is there anything you would not stop doing if he asked?
2006-07-23 21:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in trouble, already and so is your marriage. DEMAND that you both go into counseling or DEMAND that he GET OUT, NOW! I went through this with my husband. I thought it was harmless, or something that guys just do, but I have no doubt that his "addiction" killed any affection he had for me and relationships with family and friends in general. It's amazing what I have learned since then. He refused to go to counseling, so we divorced. It may have saved my life. Many men who commit violence against women led a secret life and porn was always a part of it. BTK, Scott Peterson, many, many others. Read up and get smart about it and set some boundaries now. I waited too late, I'm sad to say.
2006-07-23 21:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by lavenderbluelassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it causes a trouble,it's a problem.I am not sure if sex is his addiction,but porn may be.IF he is having sex with all kinds of women and not getting it from you,that may be sex addiction.BUT watching porn all day,to the point it's causing trouble in your marriage,and although you have talked to him,it continues,definitely an addicting problem.Try talking to him again and see what happens.After that,it's time to make a decision whether or not you want to stay in this marriage.Good luck!
2006-07-23 21:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like U just answered UR own question. I had to deal with mine looking at porn all the time & talking to different women on the net so I got rid of the PC & got me a laptop for my business so he would have no way to get on the web at home. I threw away his mags & told him the crap was stopping or I was leaving & he stopped with some help.
2006-07-23 21:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex addiction comes in different forms but I'm sorry pornography is not reality...A real sex addict might be a cheater or a louse because he's always talking about other women but why don't you ask him what his fascination is? I did it and my wife asked me to stop ..I honestly did not no it offended her.
2006-07-24 01:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is addicted to porn and is going through a fantasizing stage at this moment, its not that he doesnt love you , but it seems it may be time for you to try a little erotic sexual techiques, to maybe put alittle romance bac into the marriage
2006-07-23 22:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by pisof49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say...but it seems like he is...and if he knows it hurts you greatly and he does it anyway without attempting to slow down or stop altogether...you should reevaluate your relationship. You don't have to be in pain. It's your choice
2006-07-23 22:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by betterBme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men love sex. Porn is cool, just in doses. He will slow down. I bet you are a young couple, give it time.
2006-07-23 21:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Tweendasheetz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.themeadows.com. It is a tx program that can give you answers to your questions. Sounds like you need some help. D
2006-07-23 21:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a sex addict if he is having sex with everyone, but you.
2006-07-23 21:29:03 · answer #11 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋