2006-07-23 14:32:11 · 11 answers · asked by armiki66 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's up to you... You could bring it up informally, and see what his take on it is. Perhaps he's not on the same page as you. But if you guys both want to get married to each other, he will propose himself and you won't have to do it.
2006-07-23 14:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you know about him?
How well can you 2 live with each other?
How well does he handle life's pressure?
How much is he willing to give up for the many changes that comes with marriage?
I can go on and on.......
What I'm saying is....give the 2 of you more time to really know each other better; like habits, character, likes and dislikes...
Are you really able to handle it....marriage is a commitment and not a commercial decision not emotion, passion or just plain love....its a long term partnership that needs constant work, trust, patience, perserverance and understanding...then when you can answer most of the questions; then take the next step...get married.
2006-07-23 23:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by cofibean2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. I think this is a commitment that he needs to enter into because he realized he can't live the rest of his life without you. Not because you already did all the work for him. (Men can be soo lazy!)
I think it is fair to ask what his thoughts on marriage. No point hanging around if he definitely isn't into it.
2006-07-24 01:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Koriandr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Guys are more scared of marriage than women. I would wait until I was absolutely sure he was ready. I guess there's no harm in just mentioning marriage though.
2006-07-23 21:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the one who should propose. Wait for him to do this.
2006-07-23 21:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Nevwe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not actually propose but tell him it's time to make a commitment. Tell him you don't believe in long drawn out "courtships"......... it's bad .
2006-07-23 21:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i proposed to my boyfriend. we been to gether for4yrs.i bought him a ring and all .and he said yes. he got tearful. he coulnt ever imagine that i would ask him to marry me. he he was to scared to ask me.that i would say no. and he didnt want to loose me now we're planning on gettin married in nov.
2006-07-23 21:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both should talk about marriage, i think its the mans place to ask that.
2006-07-23 21:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure this is what you want... Your one question to him will change everything forever......
2006-07-23 22:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFUL___THIS DECISION WILL AFFECT THE REST OF YOUR LIFE
2006-07-23 21:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by doggdoc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋