My ex is more concerned with partying and acting like she's 21 again than being a good mother...so be it. Need to know how/where to meet good women at 30. Would love to hear opinions! Thanks.
2006-07-23 18:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by fah_q_freak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Church, laundry, supermarket, and singles clubs.
2006-07-23 18:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from night clubs to meet women.. most there are young and stupid lol .. id say u can either just take up a hobby and put urself out in the world.. and just wait and see what happens.. or u could always try the internet, but just becareful , most arent what they seem but if your picky and take ur time some are really cool.. but mostly just go do stuff, go to the beach , go to sporting events, malls, Your kids schools lol lots of single mothers there lol.. but always remember its usually when ur not looking that love comes ur way..
2006-07-24 01:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say that I agree with "esoteric", I am 31, and divorced for 3 years now. I have a small daughter that I share custody of. I jumped right back in to dating soon after my divorce, and now I regret it somewhat. I should have taken some time off. I dated one person after another, all for longer than 3 months each. My poor daughter would get attached to these women and then, BOOM!, I would dump them and she would be devastated. If you choose to date soon, please do not get your children involved until you are absolutely sure she's the one. Now, sex is a completely different thing. If you feel like you need to get laid, then get laid! I would just watch it somewhat when it comes to actually being in a relationship...
2006-07-24 02:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by lawrencekid1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does everybody have to jump right into another relationship so fast!?!? Give yourself an opportunity to digest the divorce and hope it doesn't upset your stomach. Take time for yourself. Enjoy your kids and see what kind of people they become and help them to become good people that continue to love their mother. When the time comes for a new relationship she will make herself known when you least expect it. If you get involved too soon it will be just a rebound relationship, which really does not work anyway.
2006-07-24 02:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Esoteric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo personals! I feel like I should get paid for it as much as I promote it. It is so great...you can sort through people and eliminate all sorts of things you don't like from height to religion. It's so much better than meeting in person because you instantly know so much about the person (as long as they're honest.) I met my current boyfrend online and dated about 10 men total from Yahoo. Never had a truly bad experience. Have fun!
2006-07-24 01:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by goatluvver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not...the grocery store! Yeah, my best friends brother met his 2nd wife there! Also, take a yoga class or work out or go to the library! Real women...good women, we are still out here! Just don't go looking for us in a club somewhere! Best of luck to you and hang in there!
2006-07-24 01:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
church grocery store stay away from the clubs and bars are you will end up back in the divorce line find some one and date for a while find out what yall have in common let her know what your likes and dislikes and vice verse just dont rush
2006-07-24 01:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not but I am serious ...the laundromat...women are always there doing there laundry...Act stupid and ask one to help you out and believe me they will..A man in distress......or go to a bar , the park...You can meet a woman just about anywhere ..The supermarket. restaurant, even your kids school ...PTA
2006-07-24 01:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 30 and a good woman!
2006-07-24 01:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid you not....take a cooking...art...sewing class....LOTS of women in those classes..plus you end up coming off as all sensitive artsy like and women LOVE that! Good luck!
2006-07-24 01:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by curiosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋