Recently my ex took me to the Bahamas for a vacation. We both went with the agreement we'd go as friends and the first couple of days that's just what we were. We spent our days lounging lazily on the beach and the more time I spent with him, I found myself falling back in love with him. I would get so emotional at the thought of him not being with me that I cried all through dinner one night, I couldn't control myself. He burnt the bottom of him foot on the concrete becuz we were both stupid to try and walk to the pool barefooted so he went back to get our flipflops and in the process burnt the bottom of him foot. I looked after it, iced it for him and I realized I didn't want to be with anyone else, I wanted us to spend our aging years together. Does it sound crazy that we reconnected? I'm a lil confused..what do u think?
2006-07-23 17:50:20 · 17 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it depends on how you feel about him once you guys are back to your normal life. Everything seems so much more romantic when your on vacation away from normal everyday stresses. If you still feel the same way after you guys have spent some time together in the real world then good for you! But be cautious, remeber he's your ex and you broke up with him for a reason. But if it works out enjoy it, good luck!
2006-07-23 17:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh I've heard of much crazier things!! No really, my best advice to you is to remember that you both may not be who you each remember when you were together before. That may sound confusing, but alot of people get back together hoping to get whatever they had back or pick up where they left off, just remember if you two want to make this work...let it be something new for both of you, yes, hold onto the memories you both made before but don't let them interfere with what you are working on now. I hope this helps, good luck with whatever you decide
2006-07-23 18:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why anyone would go on vacation with an ex. Doesn't compute for me. But, since you still seem to have feelings for him; be honest with him and tell him how you feel. What do you have to lose at this point in time? Maybe it was the tropical magic....or maybe the flame needed to be fanned. Either way, ask...and he'll give you a straigth answer.
2006-07-23 17:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. What ever happened to make you ex's may have been righted. Maybe you matured a little bit or visa versa. It is not weird because I have always said that if it is meant to be then it is. Good Luck and I hope that your rekindled happiness works out for you both.
2006-07-23 18:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by angelsforanimals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a situation similar to yours (only we aren't around each other at all right now), it's possible if things will end up being better with you two. Just don't rush into marriage again, which is what happened with me and he had not really changed. Take your time to ease into the relationship on a serious basis again and see where it goes. Wish you luck.
2006-07-23 17:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 issues. a million, he the two have been given caught from his spouse chatting with you and replied in a foul thank you to you in front of her so he looks like the dedicated hubby. or 2. he's a game participant. He in simple terms feeds those lines hoping to get fortunate with you. Do you particularly choose a courting with him? heavily. is this this sort of guy that appeals to you. somebody who has not ended it along with his contemporary marriage earlier procuring for a sparkling lady. i think of that it fairly is thrilling for you that he recollects how particularly you have been in HS, the exciting, flirty, beautiful, youthful, alive individual you have been in HS. It makes your heart flutter, your ego develop, the entire physique sense great to think of that somebody has been thinking of you a majority of those years. believe me he wasn't. and despite if he grew to become into he needs to end the courting he's in now earlier you may fairly believe him. you will continuously be thinking whilst he is going to pass away you. all of us substitute. all of us improve. He has not. he's married and needs to end his contemporary courting earlier procuring for you. despite if he's separated there are young little ones in contact he might desire to act like a grown guy not a stupid HS love unwell boy. loose him.
2016-11-02 21:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it possible to fall in love or lust for the same person over and over again. humans have that capacity. weither or not its a good idea depends on you talking with each other very deeply and seriously. about why.
2006-07-23 17:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you described is possible, yes. But it really depends on various factors, including the circumstances under which people got disconnected and distance apart.
2006-07-23 17:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy. Your heart knows what is best for you!!
Love does not know anything but love. When things go bad and you split after awhile your heart will find that person again... only if it is true. True love is hard to find.
2006-07-23 18:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by missgoodgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why ex's can't be just friends. Of course you can re-connect but why did you disconnect in the first place because all of that is still there too!
2006-07-23 17:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋