We love each other so much. Am I so unhappy with her or is it me? Shes a dick But I love Her! Im A deadbeat but I scrape by and treat her great, other than semi breaking up with her once in a while. What The FUKC?!
2006-07-23 17:47:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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We love each other so much. Am I so unhappy with her or is it me? Shes a dick But I love Her! Im A deadbeat but I scrape by and treat her great, other than semi breaking up with her once in a while. What The FUKC?!
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Im 24 shes 20.
We were together for 33 months on the ninetheenth.
2006-07-23 18:04:45 · update #1
Yep sounds like you are an idiot that needs to get your poop in a group in everyway. Once you feel better about you treating her better will come naturally.
2006-07-23 17:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your a guy so you have left your self so opened by asking if you are an idiot. I would love to know how old you guys are. Sometimes this happens when two young people are together. Hell they do not know how to have a good relationship because there is always something going on in their life that is so tragic or dramatic. It is part of being young. If you love her and she loves you then call her and tell her your an idiot and a dead beat but that you are willing to try harder to make her happy. But If she really is a dick then she needs to try too. One sided relationships never work out. Good Luck!
2006-07-23 17:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by angelsforanimals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have the self confidence of an ant. And one that is really down on itself at that.
You have a love but you can't decide if you love her or not, or if she loves you or not. You are very confused it seems to me.
You need to first get you together and determine what you really feel and want. If you truly loved her you would not be skipping out every time you have an argument. Once you get it together, and if you decide she is for you, make sure she really loves you.
What you have done here is prove to her you are totally unreliable. She doesn't know if you will be around next week or not. I am surprised she still talks to you.
Get it together guy. Fix yourself first then work on your relationship.You will be shocked at how different she will be then.
2006-07-23 18:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us get confused with love that works and love that doesn't work.
As you mature you will understand that being misserable and being in love just isn't the key to happiness.
You will probably always love her, but that doesn't mean you have to spend the rest of your life with her.
It is time for you to love yourself enough to want it all..And what is it all.........love, passion,companionship, respect, trust, friendship, lust, laughter, joy, being each others cheerleader and greatest fan. A healthy relationship builds up each other like no one else can. It doesn't suck the life out of each other.
You have experienced love without all the positive energy.
Make up your mind that you deserve a healthy relationship.
2006-07-23 18:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get of the computer and go talk to your g/f before it's too late. Oh, by the way, it could be because she's a d---! lol You didn't mean that, but females can be difficult sometimes.
2006-07-23 17:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually when you break up with someone you have a reason. sometimes it takes longer than you expected to realize why. you probably love this person with all your heart but things will get better. follow your heart it'll lead you in the right direction.
2006-07-23 17:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably r'ent an idiot, but u mite not b ready 4 a relationship yet. or u might need time to get ur feelings straight.
2006-07-23 17:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the best thing you'll ever do for yourself in your life. Let her go and learn to stroke it. It doesn't biotch, it doesn't cost anything and it has no long term repercussions associated with it. Unless you include her !
2006-07-23 17:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by cheezychesster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a disgrace to all the men out there, talking about ur girl is a 'dick'. she knows you love her that's why she can do what she do. ur situation is far from being salvaged bro, move on.
2006-07-23 17:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be her, but it's hard to be sure with out knwoing the circumstances. Or maybe you were offended by something she did or said. LIke I said, it's hard to be sure.
2006-07-23 17:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋