2006-07-23 05:59:10 · 13 answers · asked by kimberley e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we are going away for two weeks to greece, there is my friend who is going but the rest are lads. his mates say to atsy with them as they think it will be tight on my mate, but she is totally ok with the whole idea
2006-07-23 06:22:46 · update #1
Show some sexy spot... he'd change his mind hehehe.
2006-07-23 06:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When couples go on a group trip the idea usually is to hang out with other couples during the day and have some intimacy at night. Ask him why he wants to be with the boys at night. If it sounds reasonable, go along with it. If not, I don't know what to tell you. If you "force" him to stay with you he will only resent it and look "hen-pecked" in front of his friends. Men don't handle this very well.
If it is just guys going and you, you might opt out and wait for a trip where your guy can give you more attention. If you stay home, make sure you plan some fun for yourself. Good luck with the negotiations.
2006-07-23 06:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like you are the only female going.
If this is the case then I would suggest that you don't go and let them all go for a men's weekend away.
Sorry to say this but you will have a miserable weekend let them get on with it on their own.
If your man had ideas of cheating on you then he would do it at home so don't worry about that.
If he is cheating on you then rather leave him anyway.
By you not going will also make him wonder a bit it does no harm.
2006-07-23 06:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by diana h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have his "mates" forgotten that you're going along for the ride?? If it's a co-ed trip, then you go with the girls, and he can go with the guys, but at the end of the day, he should be with you. He'd better remember that he's married, whether you're there or not.
2006-07-23 06:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should allow it...and then spy on him...perhaps he has "other" reasons for wanting to stay in the room with his "mates"...sounds fishy if ya ask me...not exactly what married people do...maybe he swings both ways...ever thought of that?...who would you be staying with?...yourself?...just doesn't seem proper if ya ask me...like i said...i would allow it...but most definitely spy on him and see what exactly he is doing with his little friends...are they all male friends?...are some of them female friends?...how long have you been married?...lots of things to consider...good luck with that mate!... :)
2006-07-23 06:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are married so you should be staying together... I hope his mates aren't trying to come between you two !!!! Jealously sort of thing
2006-07-23 08:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by jayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details please. Are there going to be other girls there? Maybe one room for guys and one for the girls? Would you be the only couple not rooming together?
Personally I would rather my man room with me too but in certain circumstances I wouldn't mind separate rooms
2006-07-23 06:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would probably be glad to get away from somebody who writes and speaks as if they were texting their pikey mates
2006-07-23 06:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the reason you want him to be with you is to be with him, then that's what should happen and if HE doesn't want this, then you need to ask yourself some serious questions about your relationship.
If the reason you want him to be with you is that you don't trust him to be with his mates, then you need to ask yourself some serious questions about your relationship.
2006-07-23 06:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you - even if you are going away with friends you should have some time to yourselves on holiday!
2006-07-23 06:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋