2006-07-23 06:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cook in the nude?lol...
2006-07-23 06:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try suggesting an outing with just the two of you. Something like a nice dinner and drinks afterward would work. Not the movies, no one can talk, and you can still avoid each other there. Leave him a little coupon book under his pillow that he can redeem for certain favors done by you and for you. It might open his eyes to the fact that you need some attention without actually saying the words. Men can get offended easily if you accuse them of not paying attention. It's that male female way of looking at things...
Good Luck!
2006-07-23 13:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright heres what u do. You start payin a lil less attention to him for 2 or 3 days. Then one night he comes home from work or where ever and you have a romantic dinner ready. With some slow music and candles. Have a warm bath ready and have the bedroom smellin good maybe an inscent or two. You be dressed in some sexy lingerae and just let the night take off. After you have eatin tookin a bath and made love he should give you a lil extra attention. So give him a lil extra from now on too. See if it works.
2006-07-23 13:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha!!! I'm speaking from experience here. This is the wife that started the marriage, sitting at her hubby's knees while he played video games, naked and rubbing his leg. Always went down on him and never asked for the same. Cut to 2003 and beyond, he's lucky if I know he cut his hair a week after he did it and if he came home. But now I have his attention, and I don't want it.
2006-07-23 13:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by shawonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get your hubby to pay attention to you is for YOU to pay attention to you first!
Get out there and get a new hairdo , some new clothes , treat yourself as much as you can manage to, get together with your girlfriends and go for coffee or a nice meal, have a massage or manicure,make yourself feel desirable this increases your self esteem and he will automatically desire you more (plus if you do all this he will wonder who you are trying to impress....!)
2006-07-23 13:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by jambutty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you married him, you got to accept him for what he is. Maybe you lose a bit of your confidence because you may think of yourself less attractive or that he never really notice you. Actually men are always like that. Don't worry. You see, they notice a lot of things like looking at the fishes in the tank and can say the fishes change color but they don't observe the women beside them so closely. So that's facts.
2006-07-25 12:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by WhiskeyRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do nothing! Since when a woman gotta ask for attention? Doesn't he know that you need attention?
2006-07-23 13:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by ciccina_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need attention and if you can't get it from him... you can get it else where... that always seems to get their attention... oh by the way, i know that its not you intention to go else where but that will raise a red flag in his head and he'll start listening.
2006-07-23 13:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your needs. Maybe he doesn't realize he is not giving you the attention you need.
2006-07-23 14:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight out ,dont beat around the bush.Find something you both have in common. Let him know your needs.
2006-07-23 13:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like your looking for a boy friend, when you leave the house, really dress up, lots of makeup. etc.
2006-07-23 13:15:27 · answer #11 · answered by wally l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋