Want him back so badly
I was in an unhappy marriage, actually still am and at the time was working for a large company where I met the man of my dreams. He was one of my accounts and we hit it off over emails. One thing led to another, of course he was married for 13 years and I for 15. He too wanted out of his marriage. So the ordeal began....I moved out and he divorced....I was suppose to divorce but never could do it and I know it wasn't because I didn't love him.....I didn't love me. Now he has told me to move on after almost 3 years. He won't talk to me anymore although he still was up until three days ago....then he had a friend call me to ask me to leave him alone and MOVE ON...that I was still married and I am making his life miserable. What do I do? Give it time or move on?
2006-07-23 05:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lady you agree that he left his wife and you will leave ur husband and you didn't and you made that choice not to love yourself???? that nothing to do with that and He will make sure that you love yourself and you made that choice not to leave.
Do you think it fair for him to go though waiting for you and you never make the choice and Of course his friend tell you leave him alone you already made him miserable and you said he the man of your dream oh my god.
Look at me i married to a woman not happy for 6 montsh and i left and i found a woman of my dream and I knew i not love myself and i married her and I am so glad that I left my ex wife to be with this woman for 9 years now my second and her first marriage. and If you really really love him and you know he the man of your dream you need to end divorce and then show that guy you no longer married and he will think about having you back. If you don't you long gone lost him and back off and you will not geting him back since you still married lady. My god thinkng about yourself and not think about that guy feelings..
whoa. wish you luck woman. Just like i said divorce and then go to his door and tell him I left him and I want you and I to be with you and So sorry for this and I just not love myself and Can you help me to feel love again and show me how to love myself??? See what happen. I know this will work. I am a male if that woman really love me and not show love herself and I will make sure that work on it and make this work.
2006-07-23 06:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being unhappy in a marriage and meeting and falling for someone new is two totally different things. You can't start something new if you haven't ended something old, it usually doesn't work that way. If you're unhappy in your marriage, that's what you need to face first. Then you move on! Now you got something started with someone else and you haven't left the first one, that's crazy! The second person, has obviously moved on, you gave them all the time in the world to do so. Fix what you got or move on!!!! Stay off the emails until you decide, you'll be happier later on!
2006-07-23 12:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you didn't get the divorce he probably feels like you betrayed him and he might not want to be with another man's wife. If he won't talk or give an explanation then moving on is probably what you will have to do
2006-07-23 12:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on for the sake of the both of you. When things have gone that wrong, you both need time away to heal. usually when relationships go that way, only time can make it better. but if you stick around, you'll have fights and uncomfortable situations.
2006-07-23 12:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by suheilly13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up your marriage. Do as he said and move on.
Don't you care about your husband at all? Forget that guy! You didn't make any vows to him!
And what makes you think he is going to be worth making vows to anyway when he dumped his wife, and you, so easily?
2006-07-23 12:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still married? duh. He divorced and you were suppose to divorce as well. It's been three years and you still haven't divorced. I would have given up on you the first year. Sounds like he has had enough of your games and he is done with you, move on , he has.
2006-07-23 12:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU caused the problem, I feel more sorry for him.
But he finally woke up and told you he had enough of your vacillating.
I am surprised it took him 3 years... wow he must have really cared...
2006-07-23 12:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time solves everything thing. leave it to time.
2006-07-23 12:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋