2006-07-23 07:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by katlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not in my house!
2006-07-23 08:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by bluez 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
I think that is a cause by cause bases.
I have no had no problems with my husband having an all femaile friends list. I knew my husband and knew what we meant to each other. I was happy for him to have friends.
It is a question of trust. Now I do know men who don't have an all female friends list but they are not trust worthy with the females they do have on the list.
Even if a married man has an all male friends list with only one female on it, it doesn't make it right. It depends on the person.
If you are a female think of the males that you interact with on your friends list, most likely the females on that list interact the same way if you have a good relationship. The interaction isn't about who is on the list, but about the health of the marriage.
2006-07-23 14:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what kind of 'friends' they are. It also depends on whether his wife finds it acceptable or not. If she doesn't then it isn't and thats all there is to it. Keep in mind if he thinks it should be ok then it must also be ok for the wife to keep a list of male 'friends', everything is a two way street, anything that isn't is obviously not ok. If the conversations he has with them are not conversations he would have if his wife was sitting besides him reading every word then its not ok. If its not ok with him if the wife has those conversations with her male friends then its not ok for him to do it either. Having ONLY women on the list would be a little problem for me, why do you chat and not make any male friends? Seems like there is a target audience thing going on here.
2006-07-23 14:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no! Men that do lack self confidence and think it makes them more of a man to have women friends. I think it just makes them sad and less than human. And women that have married men for friends should be ashamed. If they are not married now, would they like for there husband to do what their "friend" is doing? I would think not.
If this is your husband doing this, tell him you are going to have only male friends. If you are the man, stop it. If you want to "date", get a divorce.
2006-07-23 14:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Karen E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
completely unacceptable! his so called friends list is a just in case list! im not sure how long you have been married but he lost that portion of single life when he got married!
dont go for it, talk to him about how it makes you feel..if he doesnt respect your feelings, stand your ground, set boundaries so that he will sese that you are serious about your feelings on this one...
2006-07-23 14:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,i dont see nothing wrong with a Married man Creating and maintaining friends with Females,,,i like Flirting with alot of women so please dont misunderstand me........
2006-07-23 14:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by collinskoob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask, is it acceptable to the wife? If not, then she should express that to him.
I would in my own situation find this to be totally inappropriate and it would have to end immediately or the relationship would end.
Best of luck!
2006-07-23 14:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by ididntdoitthedogdid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It's often easier for men to talk openly with women then it is to talk with other men and vise versa. As long as any flirting stays within bounds I don't see a problem with it.
2006-07-23 14:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gurungus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was this man sexual involved with these woman? ex girlfriends? he also should keep you in the loop when planning a lunch date.
2006-07-23 14:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by brian b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, this is not good. You don't have to choose whom you are going to be friends. Because God did not choose whom he will going to make.
2006-07-23 14:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sherly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is just asking for trouble. That door should be slammed shut!
2006-07-23 14:36:01 · answer #11 · answered by mizchulita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋