is it wrong that im married but i am bisexual and that i want to be with women
i have been with women before and also shared with my man so is it wrong
2006-07-23 05:30:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband is cool with it then there sould not be a problem :)
2006-07-23 05:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess, if your husband knew ahead of time that you were bisexual and wanted an open relationship, and he's okay with sharing, and all of it, go for it! We only live once, and if this makes you and your marriage stronger, better, last longer, then do what makes you guys happy! Why worry about what others think or say? There are going to always be people who have something to say, so do what is right for you and your husband. I would just say that you want to make sure you are using protected sex with these other women, and your husband too to be wearing a condom, as nobody truly knows what their sexual history is and this is how sexually transmitted diseases are spread. Otherwise, do what's right for you and your hubbie and other partners!It's not right for anybody to judge you but who cares if they do!That's their problem, not yours!
2006-07-23 12:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in an open marriage where he's okay with it, then that's fine. Whatever floats your boat. But if it's a real marriage you have, then he should be your only partner. When you get married it's (or at least it should be) because you love that person and only want to be with that person for the rest of your life. If you've got mixed feelings now, then you need to talk to him and work it out or else separate. Cheating is wrong, bottom line.
2006-07-23 12:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Puma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell your husband first and he is ok with it, it's fine and not cheating. Wether it is another man or another woman, if it is talked about before hand it is not cheating. The word 'cheating' has connotations of deception. But all of this 'cheating' talk goes a little beyond your question. You state you 'want' to be with women. There can be nothing wrong with wanting. You also say you have been in a threesome with your man, so he is apparently open to the idea.
2006-07-23 12:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by reldra10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong if you are with these women without him knowing about it ....that is classifed cheating. If the two of you enjoy the three some then do that. (I personally couldn't share my partner, but hey its not me we are talking about.) If your husband doesn't want other women in your and his relationship then you are going to have to make a choice. Be married and faithful. (good choice) or be married and cheating (sad ending) or leave your marriage all together. (hope not) Good luck with that.
2006-07-23 12:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you get married the first place??????? if you knew taht you are BISEXUAL??? Lady, you should though about that first place... If you were single or boyfriend or girlfriend and doing sharing with any of them that fine.. but married lady that cheating over your husband.
Really need to fixed right now.. make the choice right now what you really want?
2006-07-23 13:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its a secret then your definetly being a bit deceitful, why not try to probe out and see if he wants to join in? If your just having a relationship on the side however thats definetly cheating, but hey right and wrong are just words anyway right?
2006-07-23 12:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask this to u r own.think what the reasons r which force u to this.If u donot get satisfiction from u r husband,then go for it not bother further,Becoz u r with woman,u r husband not much get tense.Plz also try to get all pleasure u want from ur husband ,it really help u.Beside to go for some otherone.
2006-07-23 12:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in god's eyes it's a sin. in most peoples views in the united states it is wrong too. but here in the usa we trend to look the other way right or wrong. might be whats wrong with this country and the direction it's going falling from the grace of god
2006-07-23 12:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by zorroblanco11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married. It's that simple.
You committed to him.
If you want to go outside the bounds of your marriage, it's cheating.
Now, if you are a swinger, and he does it with you, I suppose it is different, but you need to talk to him first.
Personally, I think you should stay within the bounds of your marriage, but you need to have a discussion with your husband.
2006-07-23 12:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to that. What you should be asking is what is wrong with my marriage that I can not or don't want to stay faithful. If you think it is wrong will you stop?
2006-07-23 12:38:09 · answer #11 · answered by Girl1607 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋