Marriage & Divorce - 12 July 2006

Is going to clubs really for the single life? would u allow ur husband/wife to go to the clubs solo?I think it causes problems.

2006-07-12 05:30:14 · 17 answers · asked by Moniluv 2

He came home from work and when I woke up I saw him on the computer and I saw the reflection of what he was looking at on a frame that was behind him and I know it was porn. And when I came around the corner he quickly closed the window and when I asked him about it he lied right to my face and I told him I knew what he was doing. I didn't yell at him, but I did let him know that I was hurt that he lied to my face like that. I told him that we need to be able to communicate and that I love him, but he just got angry and brought up old situations saying that I was no good and that I was always bit@*ing at him. I told him that I was very hurt by his lie and that I couldn't understand how easy he could do it to me and that I'm sure he wouldn't like it if I did it to him. What should I do?? Am I making a big deal out of nothing or should i just let it go??

2006-07-12 05:29:45 · 25 answers · asked by Ms.BusyBody 4

My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and during this time have seperated 3 times and 3 times I have gone back. Not only because he begged me back but because I wanted to try and work things out as well. The problem is every time I do go back, things are great but then a few months down the line they are back to the same old thing. I am not blaming all of our marrital problems on him but he doesnt put near as much effort into it is I do. I moved again (3rd time) in May and now he is telling me the same old things trying to get me to come back. This time I really thought that we were just tired of it all and now I find myself wondering what if again......

2006-07-12 05:28:56 · 26 answers · asked by sm in nc 1

Does a man have to hand over all his assets in a nasty divorce? Is 82% of his gross legal? How does he live? How can he fight and what can he do to keep it 50/50. The wife is emotionally abusive but can pull the wool over anyone's eyes, including the judge. Help,he is dying here...seriously...he needs legal answers, his attorney is worthless...

2006-07-12 05:25:32 · 6 answers · asked by Cassandra 1

2006-07-12 05:14:46 · 24 answers · asked by DiL 3

My husband has only had bigger chicks in his sex life. I am not fat myself but I do have some meat on my bones. Every once in a while he gets curious about skinner girls. Will he stop or will this be an issue later down the line???? Is this normal??? Guys and Girls Please Answer!!

2006-07-12 05:11:13 · 11 answers · asked by Yellabone 1

Me and my EX get along great sometimes and other times I can't stand him..We got together since I was 14 ..I'm 23 now and we have to kids...Could we ever just be friends ? He told me that i was his bestfriend and that he still loves me..But he has a girlfriend..Now i'm kinda confuse..Should I just talk to him about the kids and nothing else ??Help!!

2006-07-12 05:08:10 · 21 answers · asked by ?Whiskey Girl? 4

My husband sent a woman who works at the bank flowers because she helped him open a line of credit that was needed? I am outraged by this to be honest. He doesnt even send me flowers (mostly because I tell him it's a waste of money, I'd rather have something that will last)..but regardless, I dont think a married man should be sending any other woman flowers period, unless it's a family member or an ill friend. He spent $50 on flowers that could have gone towards paying off that line of credit. Argh!!!!! Am I over-reacting?

2006-07-12 05:07:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wants to get each others' names tatttooed on our ring fingers. We have wedding rings and I always wear my engagement ring too. Should I agree to it.

2006-07-12 05:06:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a working mom, partnered and stressed out. I have 3 kids who take up too much of my time when I'm home, I can't rest. I have days I regret being a mother and when I do, I feel guilty afterwards for feeling that way. But those days are beginning to become quite frequent and I'm worried I might start resenting having kids and being married as well. Any thoughts on this? Am I a bad mother?

2006-07-12 05:03:04 · 9 answers · asked by Equinox 6

A promise to God
To thee I wed.
forsaking all others
are the words we said
I gave my love.
My heart my soul.
I gave them to you
In your heart to hold.
The day of our wedding
now only a dream.
Tears fell when I saw you
In that dress of cream.
I wish I had know.
When we promised that day
that it would be you.
who would choose to stray.
When we were together.
You gave me life.
With out you by me.
Everyday I live in strife.
We were a family
you took that away.
I gave you a daughter.
Still you refused to stay.
The rest of my life
Many women will go.
None will ever touch.
So deep in my soul.
My spirit cries out.
You refuse to hear.
With every beat of my heart.
It holds you dear.
You dont have a clue.
of the love you lost.
I will love you forever.
I dont care the cost.
A hopless romantic.
A life of shame
My prayer forever.
For us to share my name
Of all the things
what can I say.
How would you react
If you felt this way???

2006-07-12 05:00:54 · 37 answers · asked by christsluv4u 1

My husband works in an airline and my gut tells me he's cheating on me in another country with someone who doesn't belong to the same airline company. How do I prove this if its in another country? Any suggestions?

2006-07-12 04:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by Equinox 6

What do I do, her step dad is here all the time with her and she wants to call him dad but her real dad to tell me to tell her to stop and pick another name for my husband

2006-07-12 04:56:22 · 16 answers · asked by Aimee T 2

2006-07-12 04:54:27 · 3 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

2006-07-12 04:48:10 · 9 answers · asked by Beth 1

give me some examples....best answer for origionality

2006-07-12 04:47:45 · 2 answers · asked by ndussere 3

sometimes i wanna do something to get it like stare at another girl or have a girl try to talk to me in front of another girl, im afraid ill do something stupid and take it too far.

2006-07-12 04:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by ammari1212 1

behind your back while you are away and when confronted says they are just friends now and they went out just for a drink.
would you believe him?
and then again they talk in the middle of the night(while he is out with a buddy)what would you think and do about it?

2006-07-12 04:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by hrvatica 1

2006-07-12 04:41:33 · 5 answers · asked by jinx 1

I haven't been happy for a long time and things just keep getting worse. Now that I am totally done he wants to go to counseling and work it out. I think once the feelings (love) is gone it doesn't come back, any comments?

2006-07-12 04:39:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i make a plan to leave with my daughter?I don't work and I have pets that need to come with me. But my husband is verbally mentally emotionally and sometimes physically abuses me?

2006-07-12 04:37:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband hasn't worn his wedding band in almost 4-5 years now and when asked about it, all he says is that it won't fit anymore. I don't accept that reason. He can always buy a new pair. So I'm thinking not to wear mine anymore either. Your thoughts please. Thanks.

2006-07-12 04:36:46 · 21 answers · asked by Equinox 6

Just wondering what is the shortest time anyone has ever known/dated someone before they got engaged then married. And did it work out???????

2006-07-12 04:29:40 · 22 answers · asked by SingleHotMom 2

2006-07-12 04:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by Christian W 1

2006-07-12 04:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-12 04:18:07 · 23 answers · asked by jessica 1

He likes you but adores another woman who is more beautiful than you.He married you because you were pregnant.

2006-07-12 04:07:39 · 38 answers · asked by Firefly 4

I've been married for 13 years and its going fine.

OH AND- how old were you when you got married?

2006-07-12 04:05:36 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ Ava ♥ 3

2006-07-12 03:52:47 · 13 answers · asked by SiberianHusky_8 2

Tell me why and who with.

2006-07-12 03:46:47 · 9 answers · asked by broj7400 3