Tell me why and who with.
2006-07-12 03:46:47 · 9 answers · asked by broj7400 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well , I am married for over 20 years now and It is way behind me. But I'll tell my story because maybe out there that is a lady in that same situation who may make the mistake TO TELL.
In my 3rd years of marriage I did cheat on my husband. Why did I cheat? He just was not around, His work was to travel for a long period of time (2-3 months).I was very pretty and of course men did not care that I was married they still flirted with me, I never cared about anyone else ,I loved my husband and we were a beautiful couple.
Than came this older man about 10 or 12 years older than me at the time.He knew how to explore me and we had a short romance ,sex and all. I can say now that I don't understand why I was attracted to him, because my husband is so much good looking than him taller and all. Why did I do it ? I don't know maybe it was a test ? Maybe wanted my man to be around ?
I realized that I did a mistake almost right away. It lasted for about 1 month than I did not want to see him anymore. It was not easy ,he threatened to tell him and that disgusted me and made me love my husband even more.
My husband came back 2 months later and I felt so bad, How did I did this to him? But I did and if I told him it will break his heart because he loves me a lot. That experience made me realized how I love my husband so much. I did not tell him because I was scared to loose him and if I told him I would not change what already happened .
The happily ever story :)
At the time we had one child that is today 22 years old, now we have 4 children and our marriage is great .
2006-07-12 04:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by IRIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah with a girl on my job a few years ago. And now I am separated and I am dealing my best friend Reno. But we have been in love for yrs. We met when I was engaged to be married but we kept in contact off an on and now we are secretly together. Now he's married. We can't win. If my husband knew I was seeing him he would be pissed even though we are not together. Because if he looked back he would know that he was right when he really didnt trust me having a guy as a best friend.
2006-07-12 03:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly I almost wish I had the nerve. My husband has not slept with some one else. But he let another girl kiss him once. I say girl cause we younger then. And recently he talk to a women about personal stuff in our marriage for about a year. He says she complained about her sex life. He claimed he didn't know what to do in ours why not ask his wife.He claimed he tried to stop. then why didn't he fell guilty enough to tell me.
2006-07-12 03:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is scared of me, i mean he hardly make love to me as he is always scared i would turn him off. the problem is that hes got a litle problem by .... too fast so i did cheated on him... not proud of it at all.... and no would never tell him as i still wish he will change and get more confidence on himself to take me !!!
Not important who with i did it twice with 2 different guys but saying that only one of them was really worthed...
2006-07-12 03:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup ....... He doesnt need to know he's done it tome several times and it finally came back to him the only thing is he'll never find out also we had alot of issus at the time....... who a close friend of mine it lasted a year and ended up in heartbreak...... for me and if he is telling the truth for him also.......
2006-07-12 04:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never cheated but thought about it because my husband is abusive, controlling, and selfish. he doesn't try to make me happy, he's not loving or affectionate. well, he just doesn't care about meeting my needs at all.
2006-07-12 03:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I am not getting enough attention at home.. With a friend
2006-07-12 03:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry i don't belong to your list because i love the man iam married to and would do nothing stupid to spoil it you knw why bcos i can't stand when the same thing happens to me
2006-07-12 03:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by mahek 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh I know first hand that there is! hehe
2006-07-12 03:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋