What do you do when your husband is in love with another woman?

Question

He likes you but adores another woman who is more beautiful than you.He married you because you were pregnant.

Thanks for the support for all of you that answered my question.

Thanks for the support for all of you that answered my question.

Answer 1

Okay this is a common mistake made by lots of parents(Stay together for the kids)! DON'T!!! Okay you need to let him go divorce him get child support even joint custody if you want but i promise eventually both of you will regret making the decision to stay together, even if you stay together until your child graduates. You have to think that one day your children will move out and you will be alone with a husband who doesn't love you!

Answer 2

See that sad that he don't even care about you and his child and he's in love other woman???? get divorce and make sure he pay child support and you. He should of though about this before he got you pregnant..... Look at me I am a male i didn't want a child when I married to my wife and found out she was pregnant she told me that and I have change my life to support my wife and my child and have second one and going on third one. and I don't see why He not take the responsible for that.

He is a Dumb *** person. Don't even care or take care of you and the child. Made me mad. and I think you should divorce and make sure he pay alot money... then he will be taking very good responsible for next time he get other woman pregnant.

Answer 3

Because your husband thinks someone is more beautiful than you, does not make it so. I would suggest that you get some counseling - marriage counseling is okay if your husband wants to save your marriage. If not, get yourself some counseling and build your self-esteem. No one should have to be second in a relationship to someone outside the relationship. Maybe you two weren't meant to be together - he obviously is not mature enough to be in a relationship. So find a good counselor; someone you can talk confidentially with, and figure out YOUR life and how to proceed. You deserve someone better. Start with believing in yourself, nurturing yourself, and planning a life of joy for yourself. Find your strength as a woman and become that woman. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 4

Ya'll gopt married for the wrong reason. Even though he tells you that he loes you, ask him if he's in love with you because it is a difference. You two might want to file for a divorce, beause if he likes aother women, then he's probably sleeping with her. Think about it, has he started working late,, going to ths gym after he hasn't worked out for years, and still not losing weight, does he come home smelling like soap when he usually doesn't, going on more buisiness trips, or even leaving the house early and missing dinner to be with a "client"

Answer 5

Talk to him....does he admit to being in love with someone else? Or do you think he is in love with someone else? There is a difference...if he is in love and let him go...you find someone who will love you...You said he married you because you were pregant, is that the only reason-to give the baby a name...the baby will have a name-the one you give him or her..You sound so sure that I believe you do know he is in love with woman, so, move on...talk to him, and don't blame him-don't cuss him- ask him what do he want...then you decide if you want to stay..there are alot of woman you who are single mothers that do great-better than if they were trapped into a marriage that was making them miserable..and the kids are more healthy too! So, talk to him, if he won't talk then it's all on you what to do. I think you deserve to be happy and loved....God bless...

Answer 6

Is this happening to you? I am so sorry!!!! Just because she is "beautiful?" There isn't much you can do but I'll bet it's not "love" -- I'm sorry. You need to just move on. Probably shouldn't have gotten married (or pregnant but it happens). Oh and by the way, SECOND TIME AROUND (marriage) is better anyway. There is hope. I bet if you "move on" he may come chasing you.

Answer 7

Ask him to no longer have any contact with her, commit to you and go to counseling. Marriage is a commitment to live for the other person's good; it's not a fairy tale. Love (lust) is fleeting. Love (the sacrificial kind with romance as the bonus) will come later if you are committed to each other and decide to make it work. Don't believe what you see in the movies ... it's work, but it's worth it!

Answer 8

Leave him and take everything he has. His house his car his money and maybe your child as well. Get him where it hurts. And then get a really hot boyfriend and "accidentally" run into him while you are with your new man. He'll realize that he was wrong and he'll want you back but then you say sorry I like you but I love him. And oh yea he is way hotter than you.

Answer 9

This is not a real marriage, much less a relationship. Do the math. He's not going to change his feelings and don't try to change him (and don't be stupid and use your child as leverage to control him-revenge is a messy business).

Dump him and move on. There are plenty of men out there who'd want to be with you and your child.

Answer 10

ya that sounded too familar. My advice is just be yourself, do what you can to uphold the family. Take care to the kids is more important. He is a man, he can think. If he can't then by forcing him is going to make thing very urgly. Remember to keep your cool. No point rising your voice. If it is your is always will be yours if not, then no point keeping. By force will not have happiness. Take what comes may as long as you have done your part to keep the family attach.