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My husband works in an airline and my gut tells me he's cheating on me in another country with someone who doesn't belong to the same airline company. How do I prove this if its in another country? Any suggestions?

2006-07-12 04:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by Equinox 6 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

13 answers

Look at his credit card statements and search for odd charges.

You should know his flight schedule, so you should know where he is at all times. Compare his flight schedule with his credit card statements and that will give you an idea of where the money is going and will let you know of a location where he is more likely to be seeing someone.

Call the numbers listed on the credit card and see what kind of services they provide. Airlines pay for layovers and meals for the crew so if he is paying hotel and dinner elsewhere is something to check out.

Check on his emails accounts. Install a keylogger in the computer to access his personal email accounts. If he is on-the-go all the time, email would be a form of communications that he is likely to use while he is away.

After he comes back from overseas, search his brief case for evidence...

Request a credit check on him and see if he has a hidden account or credit card that you don't know about.

Good luck

2006-07-12 05:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0 0

since he was working airline.. before you met him, knew he the one and married him and then working at airline?? since then have he ever change??? Like does he never say I loveyou or does he ever say call you to say hi honey how are you jsut call to see how you doing?? or does he change because of the job or if there was a women I would check all the things he came home and look though them and check out and check out where he going to go and call the airline to see if it is true if not then something not right call him and ask him where are you now?? If he said the same story but the airline said it change. He is lying to you an dyou might want to follow up with that and find more.

hope that helps.

2006-07-12 05:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0 0

do no longer make any existence replacing judgements once you're mad! i understand you're damage and wondered and offended yet do not bypass on that first gut instinct because now and again it isn't any longer what's ideal on your existence. Please make an effort to communicate with someone, the chaplain, counselors, acquaintances and kin and make an effort to locate the position your existence ought to take you before you ascertain no matter in case your marriage is repairable or needs to end. blanketed are some articles that i have are available in the time of in my years as a military spouse that quite address this issue.

2016-12-01 03:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by plunkett 3 · 0 0

I''m sorry to hear about your suspicions. But do you really need proof or just want to know so you can know how to move on with your life/marriage? Hiring an investigator is expensive, but if you can afford to do so, and it may give you justification, this is an option. The other is to ask him directly. I had to do this with my ex partner recently (he is a pilot). Best wishes

2006-07-12 05:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 0 0

I hope you're rich if you hire an investigator. But otherwise, try tapping his phone and cellphones, look through his credit card statements, and get computer software so you can spy on his laptop, and hoem computer.

2006-07-12 05:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0 0

That's really hard to do - you could hire a private investigator - check his cell phone calling record - or you should just ask him straight out.

2006-07-12 05:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by Leila 3 · 0 0

Spend about $5000 a day on a private investigator. If you don't have it, you're out of luck.

2006-07-12 05:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0 0

hire a spy to get u enough evidence. U can really sue him in the court then

2006-07-12 05:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by Vio Prince 2 · 0 0

Ask him and trust his answer.
If you don't trust your husband then your marriage is in big trouble! Trust is the key word

2006-07-12 05:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0 0

if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck then its a duck. dont try to catch him just get out of the realtionship.

2006-07-12 05:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 5 · 0 0

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