sometimes i wanna do something to get it like stare at another girl or have a girl try to talk to me in front of another girl, im afraid ill do something stupid and take it too far.
2006-07-12 04:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by ammari1212 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can look at it two ways, if you do, your wife may wake up and realize she needs to put in a little effort or if she's already done in her heart you'll see she doesn't care. Then where does that leave you? I'm in this position right now myself and I'm done, we're splitting and if he got himself a girlfriend right now it would be nothing but a relief to me.
2006-07-12 04:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. It's the only way to get the point across. She will not take the hints or react to you trying to get her attention by flirting with other girls. She will only be offended because you're disrespecting her. All relationships are based on communication, if you don't have it, it would only be a matter of time before you lose all communication and end up losing something that could possibly be great.
2006-07-12 10:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your wife and telling her how you feel? If not, I would talk to her. Find out why and try to work things out. Getting another person involved is not going to solve anything. Communication is the key here. Tell her your needs are not being met. She may not even realize that she has changed. There is too much stress today in the life we live. It makes us different people at times. So just talk to her.
2006-07-12 04:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about trying to show her a little affection? Been married long time my honey still tells me I am beautiful to him. Tells me everyday that he loves me and wouldn't know what to do without me. When we have problems we communicate with each other not the opposite gender, somewhere else. I would bend over backward for him. Just give her the emotional love and support and the rest comes with it. Happy loving. Oh, he helps with the housework too and Home ed with our child. He is involved in my world and I am involved in his. He occasionally will pick me a wildflower that he thinks is pretty, just for me.
2006-07-12 04:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an ***! Talk to your wife like a grown-up! Acting like an idiot with another woman will get her attention... her's and her divorce lawyer's!
2006-07-12 04:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels the same way have a date night show some intrest in things she's doing and maybe she will come around
2006-07-12 08:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. Talk to her....tell her you have feelings and need to be loved.A woman should understand.
2006-07-12 04:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you unattractive and let yourself go? if you look at another girl and she leaves then she was waiting to do this anyway and you are better off with someone who CARES for you ;)
2006-07-12 04:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just directly ask her for more affection. Yeah, it probably is that simple.
2006-07-12 09:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO TALK TO UR WIFE AND TELL HER HOW U FEEL
2006-07-12 05:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋