behind your back while you are away and when confronted says they are just friends now and they went out just for a drink.
would you believe him?
and then again they talk in the middle of the night(while he is out with a buddy)what would you think and do about it?
2006-07-12 04:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by hrvatica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make him your "X!!!" Are you really kidding me? Be done with it!
2006-07-12 04:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big problem! They are still connecting - with a drink and conversation is still dating. That definitely needs to stop if you want what's ever left of your marriage to work. He needs to make a choice! The worst thing is to have your husband be friendly/connecting with his ex - even if it's friendly it gives off as he and she are still interested in each other and it has to hurt you as a wife to know that. You need to tell him to stop cause it's hurting you - does he want a ex friend or a happy wife?
2006-07-12 04:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if there are children involved. Meaning do they have children together. If they do, sometimes it's necessary for Ex's to get together to make decisions about the children. If there are no children involved, then that would worry me a little. If you trust him, I wouldn't take it too serious, but if you don't, tell him and work it out.
2006-07-12 05:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust him keep track who he going to see and what he will be doing there.. then you keep track inthe book and then by the time you found out he cheating on you and you have all the informations you have show the lawyer tell him that i kept track to make sure he being honest so now since he not being honest and here all the informations that proof he lie tome and cheating on me.
2006-07-12 05:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing with your ex.Get even.That's the best way to get the message across to him.
2006-07-12 04:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by The busy baker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he is cheating.I would not say anthing more to him about it.I would catch him in the act.Its time for you to be sneaky.
2006-07-12 05:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happen to me. don't trust either one they both know they are married and they both know its wrong PERIOD. it means to you that they both don't respect you and don't care about your feelings. hurts huh. i know, but i got a voice recorder Digital 16 hour one and stuck in in his car works great and you will bust him so bad try it. plus you know in your heart that drinks lead to so much more, and they are seeing one another.
2006-07-12 04:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SERIOUSLY I WOULD ASK FOR A DIVIRCE B/C U KNOW HE WENT BACK FOR SOMETHING
AND BELIEVE ME U DO NOT WANT TO KNOW WHAT THAT SOMETHING IS
2006-07-12 05:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u online at county jail? thats where i would be
2006-07-12 05:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Moniluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋