Is going to clubs really for the single life? would u allow ur husband/wife to go to the clubs solo?I think it causes problems.
2006-07-12 05:30:14 · 17 answers · asked by Moniluv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you. It can cause problems for sure. If it causes problems for your marriage then it is not worth it. My husband and I totally started to loose interest in clubs after being together and we eventually quit drinking all together. We both have experienced in previous relationships with a lot of drama with the drinking/clubing scene where there's lack of trust becuase of cheating or even getting hit on or just becuase emotions flair when drunk. I think it's not a good idea to put yourself in a position where you may make your spouce uncomfortable because you may be in a position of getting hit on, of dancing with other men, or flirting...anything like that isn't good and your spouce should not put you in any uncomfortable position either and go out. It's not good.
2006-07-12 05:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would let her go. I would not like it but whatever. It is never a good idea though. It does cause more problems then anything. It really depends on the person though. If I got together with a club chick that goes every weekend. I would not think anything of it. When a woman (or man) is not normally clubbing and all of a sudden wants to go something is not cool.
2006-07-12 05:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by NIKK F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship, I don't think I would be comfortable with my husband going to the club. Not because I don't trust him just because I would not want my husband to be in a situation that may cause him to be uncomfortable, like some other women trying to pick up on him and I won't go either unless we were going together.
2006-07-12 05:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are no longer dancers or heavy drinkers so, no, we do not bypass clubbing to satisfy new human beings; we are happy with 1 yet another and have a good time with the time we get to loosen up and enjoy one yet another's company faraway from the living house. each and every few weeks, lets bypass to a activities bar after a carrying adventure, regardless of the indisputable fact that that's to visual show unit a placed up-recreation tutor over a drink and appetizers. We ought to strike up a verbal change with yet another couple or one or 2 strangers that bypass our course, regardless of the indisputable fact that that's by no potential in a flirtatious way or with ulterior motives.
2016-11-06 06:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by newnum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My couple and I go to a club,but out of respect for the other person,we don't go alone.It would cause problems if the couple couldn't trust each other or became insecure about the relationship.
2006-07-12 05:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by kikasman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clubs around here are full of kids and old perverts.When you grow up you dont want to go to clubs anymore.
2006-07-12 05:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to club is not meant for singles alone and i will not let my husband go alone to avoid unnecessary suspicion.
2006-07-12 05:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by shaky shaky baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are only going clubbing for one reason.. To Hook up. Not a good idea.
2006-07-12 05:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by rudytute 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not allow my husband to go solo.Because clubs are people looking to hook up.And if they can't avoid temptation watch out.
2006-07-12 05:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't allow it. If he wants to go clubbing alone, give him his freedom, divorce him.
2006-07-12 05:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋