Marriage & Divorce - 23 June 2006

I met a very nice man that comes into my place of business every now and then.One day he invited me out for lunch. I was very apprehensive but I decided to meet him. After lunch he walked me to my car.I drove him to the parking lot where his car was parked. He lifted up my skirt and began to touch and insert his fingers where he should not have. I climaxed and then began crying hysterically. I am a married woman(4 years).He tried to calm me down. I just told him to get out of my car and he did. He has called me everyday to apologize. I feel so guilty.What do I do?

2006-06-23 07:35:35 · 50 answers · asked by jdwood21 2

My husband and I ride to work together every day (about 25 miles)mostly to save on gas, we work within a block of each other. By doing this I get to work 1/2 hour early and stay an hour and a half late most days. We also have lunch together whenever our schedules permit. This morning on the way to work we had an argument and he got out of the car in the middle of an intersection and walked a block or so to work. I poped into the drivers seat quick so as not to cause an accident and continued on to my office. Because my schedule is more flexable than his I usually wait for him. Lunch came and went and he nevr called so I called his work and his co-worker told me he had already gone to lunch. My question is this - I have another way home that would allow me to get home sooner than waiting the hour and a half for him. Should I leave the car at his work and go home on my own? He didn't even have the decency to say he didn't want to have lunch so that I could go on my own?

2006-06-23 07:35:15 · 17 answers · asked by B 7

would you rather your husband tell you he had an affair or would you rather he ask you to swap with another couple?

2006-06-23 07:33:33 · 28 answers · asked by lowIQ 4

the birth certifcate. He has been in his life since the age of 4.

2006-06-23 07:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by pug1975 1

My parents hve been fighting for about 2 or 3 years. Everytime my mom makes a little complaint, my dad starts to fight with her. They always seem to fight in front of me and I hate that so much. My parents are still fighting about the stupidest things. When my parents fight I always just go outside or go to my room. Please tell what can I do to stop this chaos?

2006-06-23 07:21:52 · 10 answers · asked by heather c 1

2006-06-23 07:20:39 · 19 answers · asked by Ola C 1

Summer of 2004 I met an amazing man. He has everything I had hoped for and more. I often hoped I would never wake up from the wonderful dreamland we shared. We moved in together a year after we met with plans to get married. Well life happens and not everything is as it should be. This summer I woke up into the nightmare. We had been living together for a year and I finally had to get out of the hell hole we had created in our home. I thought one of two things either he gives up and we continue going our separate ways or we have a cooling of period and we try to work things out from a distance.

Some of our issues include, but not limited to:
trust issues, grudges
unfulfilled promises
mother-in-law, his family
finances

The fact of the matter is I love this man. My brain tells me one thing, but my heart reminds me of the promise I made to stick through this for better of for worse.

2006-06-23 07:18:54 · 7 answers · asked by latina 3

2006-06-23 07:18:03 · 3 answers · asked by Toni 1

2006-06-23 07:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How should i start this conversation and any technique advice would also be helpful.

2006-06-23 07:14:16 · 42 answers · asked by flaked_rice 1

longing for someone only to discover the feeling has disappeared before u even knew.

2006-06-23 07:01:02 · 23 answers · asked by GHOST 1

2006-06-23 07:00:21 · 12 answers · asked by blu_jui 1

2006-06-23 07:00:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 37 year old female who is still hung on the guy she left over 20 years ago. How could this be?!
He did nothing but cheat, lie, steal, etc. when we were together, yet he was my life. The day he hit me, 7 years after we first met, was the day I left him. I knew he had hit his ex before me and had always told him I'd leave him if he ever hit me. I guess he knew that would cause me to leave like cheating never did.
I know that I don't miss HIM, or even US, I only miss what I WISH WE HAD BEEN. So, why can't I get over him? It's been 20 years! I still keep in contact with his family, we have a son together, I always know where he is (maybe not exactly, but life wise) and how he's doing. I dream of this man 2-5 nights a week, making my current relationship with a wonderful man seem doomed. I've been to counseling and am a certified freak, LoL. Manic Depression/BiPolar Disorder/PTSD. I really want to be over him and able to love again. Is there a way to get him out of my system?

2006-06-23 06:56:59 · 7 answers · asked by blahnoklahoma 1

what are the reasons for not having sex drive after only 5 months of being married?

2006-06-23 06:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by indiamor7956 1

2006-06-23 06:45:48 · 11 answers · asked by attish 1

2006-06-23 06:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My botfreind sometimes comes in from work after having someone piss him off there and he snaps at me left and right. He says he sorry later and that he loves me and dont mean to hurt me but he has to relaese his frustration somehow. Most of the time hes cool after work tho. How many of you guys really love your partner but still do this at times?

2006-06-23 06:33:30 · 22 answers · asked by 420girl 2

I've been married for 6 months. I'm not perfect, but I've shared everything I have with my husband, my heart, my soul, my love, my secrets, and all my material possesions. I even went so far as to give him one of my atm/credit cards to my bank account. He abused it one day not caring because he was mad at me, and I ended up $500 dollars in debt. I left him for it for a few days, but I feel very strongly about the bond of marriage, so I decided I must try again. I wasnt able to salvage my account, so I had to go to another bank and open another account, letting him know it was not going to be shared. I just found out today that this a@@hole got my debit card out of the mail before me and has already activated my card and started using it. I feel that I should leave him, why stay with someone who you cant trust to respect your personal possesions?
What do you think?

2006-06-23 06:29:37 · 77 answers · asked by mamacita 4

How can I get through this? I'm 26 years old and I thought this would be easier to cope with being older. I have the two most beautiful little girls in the world and it really hurts me to have to tell them that grandma does not live with papa anymore! I know things could be worse (alot worse) and I am trying to remember that but I just thought it would be easier than this. Please give me some advice! Thanks!!

2006-06-23 06:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-23 06:18:54 · 12 answers · asked by suzy 2

i m married for 3 years. i m very jeleous and possesive about my husband which is making him feel tied up he wants his space in life and i m not myself if i ristrict myself from asking him how he spent his day and why he did what he did. i feel bad when he hides something from me intentionally or un intentionally. he likes spending on his friends which makes me uncomfortable. other wise i take good care of him dont ever do what he dosent likes i dont make friends just to devote myself entirely to him. help me please as i want to save my marriage and live happily

2006-06-23 06:17:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife started an online relationship with another some stuff happened but they never met only through web cams. She now says that she wants to work it out but I told her that I didn't want her in chat rooms anymore nor to chat in her groups because he was in some of them am I being too controlling or should she be expected to take these steps if she is serious about us working things out.

2006-06-23 06:17:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance got mad at me last night before bed, because she went into the bathroom and sliped but didnt fall, and she told me if I have gone instead of me that she wouldnt have slipped and that I should appologize for not going? WTF! how is that my fault?

2006-06-23 06:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by andrewtelecky1982 1

My dear aunt died a yr ago. her widower has surprised the family announcing he is going to remarry. He plans to have a big wedding ceremony and a big reception. this has caused a major crisis among his adult children, and my aunts brothers and sisters.(One of them is my mother. she is hurt and angry) I try to remain in neutral terms, more as an observer. but i feel sorry for my mother. My aunt was her favorite sister,

2006-06-23 06:08:55 · 18 answers · asked by Dulcinea 5

have not physically met, will be seeing each other in about a year for holiday, plan to marry within 2 years, on income support at present on the sick, neither have much money right now, is a visa required or just 'leave to enter',. would it be easier to marry in usa, having relatives there, possible sponsor, how does the whole darn thing work, because it seems as clear as mud at the moment,, where to start, any help appreciated

2006-06-23 06:03:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Beside my husbands store, lives his ex girlfriend who is now divorced, and has one child a little girl. I never cared about this, but today i found a paper that he brought home from work, because he wrote the grocery things on it when he went shopping, so i was looking at this paper and i found that he was writing things on it that i didn't understand, then i figured that he was writing backward, so that no one knows what he's writting like for example, instead of writing "Jack" he wrote "kcaj", anyway he was writing his girlfriend's name, and her daughters name, followed by his name and his family name, like she's his wife, and then her name, and then he wrote something and scratched it.
i know she comes to his store to buy some things, and they talk about things, sometimes sexual things, like he told me he asked her if she's going out, and if she did it after she got divorced (you know what i mean), but i never thought it's serious or anything.

2006-06-23 06:01:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

When is the end really the end, an why should anyone stay with someone when they are unhappy.. It only makes the kids unhappy in the future, so how do know when it is really the end?

2006-06-23 06:01:31 · 14 answers · asked by cafemochamamma@yahoo.com 1

My husband and I used to go crazy for each other. Ever since we had our baby everything has gotten so boring. Why??? and what can I do to make everything back to how it was??

2006-06-23 05:57:30 · 16 answers · asked by yeah yeah 2

I've been married for more than 20 years. I met my husband when I was 16 and married him at 18. Most of those years were good ones, but for the past 5 or 6 years I feel like I've been the glue to this marriage. Recently, he left me for another woman, was away for about 3 months, but wen ended back together, with a struggle. He's an alcoholic. I still love him, but not the same anymore. In the past, he's had a roving eye. He even lost a job because of this roving eye once. I forgave him in the past, including this time, but the difference this time is that I am not the same person anymore, and I met someone that now treats me like a queen. Unfortunately, this person turned out to be a family member of his. We have fallen in love and he wants a future with me as do I. I still love my husband and would want to work it out with him, but I don't trust him anymore. He's now behaving and treating me somewhat decent, for now. Any suggestions? Anyone with a similar experience?

2006-06-23 05:49:19 · 20 answers · asked by BluePassion 4