Marriage & Divorce - 23 June 2006

My ex bf wants us to get very serious (engagement and planning a wedding serious) but I wonder if I should let the guy who went to study in Europe, that I may soon be off the market. I was hurt when he left and said that he wanted to pick up where we were after he finished his two years of study. Part of me says I should call him now and give him one chance to stop me while another part of me says I should write him a long letter, send it the slowest possible way and tell him that by the time he reads this I will be picking out china patterns and getting fitted with my wedding dress. What does the guy in Europe deserve.

Jenny

2006-06-23 15:55:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When your significant other is persuing a relationship with a woman who he met on the internet saying she would do everything I wouldn't. He posted himself for an intimate encounter, what should I do?

2006-06-23 15:54:54 · 10 answers · asked by softtouch853 1

Men, if your married to a woman you love and you think she is beautiful then why do you check out other women? What are you looking at? And what are you really thinking about? Are you thinking about cheating?

2006-06-23 15:50:47 · 16 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

The other day, I walked up to my wife of 31 yrs and reached down and took her hand and placed it onto my chest and I said, "You feel this?" She looked down at her hand on my chest with a puzzled look on her face and she said, "Yes." "Do you know what that is?" I asked. "Your heart?" she said as she looked up at me. "No" I said, as I slightly stoked her face with my other hand. "It is your heart, because my heart belongs to you."

This is true and complete love, isn't it??

2006-06-23 15:35:45 · 14 answers · asked by budinok 2

I'm engaged and I get curious from time to time about how sex would be with other women. I think about other pussy and other bodies and what kind of different sex noises the other girl would make. I would never do it though. So I need those who have done it to tell me what it's like, considering I just gave up Porn for our relationship. I was watching it way too much. Thanks.

2006-06-23 15:32:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my wife were having dinner with her parents and i farted and her mom smelled it and me and her mom got into a farting contest she said it was nasty and rude

2006-06-23 15:21:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-23 15:21:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 7 years cheated on me 1,5 ago. After my discovery he was begging for mercy asking not to divorce him and to give him a second chance. He was saying he loves only me and wants to be only with me. We have 3 year old child, so we kept the marriage.
I just discovered he found his ex-girlfriend online and started emailing her, saying he still thinks about her daily, misses her and wants to see her to “catch up on things”. He did not get far this is, because I discovered it in very early stage. Did he lose his second chance?

2006-06-23 15:12:48 · 27 answers · asked by tretree 2

2006-06-23 15:10:58 · 52 answers · asked by paradox is interesting 2

who claims he is happy with his wife and they still have sex, cheat on her?

2006-06-23 15:04:32 · 13 answers · asked by samkat1972 2

i had divorce couple of weeks back and my ex keep calling me and begging me to come back and if u wont come back i ll gona kill myself i am really stressed what to do i dont want to go back cuz he used to beat me and i dont want to suffer again but he is really making me crazy what do i do to get rid of him please help me .

2006-06-23 14:52:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-23 14:49:07 · 22 answers · asked by sissy 1

He lied to me regarding approximately $1000 and about $250 in gambling money. Is that worth calling off a wedding?

2006-06-23 14:46:25 · 9 answers · asked by Sarrah 5

Online video games are my husband's only source of enjoyment it seems. We barely talk all evening and spend time in seperate rooms. He's become lazy and won't give up the games. I've been contemplating divorce. I've suggested we go for walks, bike rides, watch TV together....anything. But, he doesn't like any of my suggestions and resorts to gaming every night. Does anyone else have this problem?

2006-06-23 14:44:43 · 11 answers · asked by animal_mother 4

i recently lost 92 lbs. i went from 232 to 140 and im 5'8". wen im on my morning run guys are always honking and whistling at me. the pathetic part is i REALLY like it! it makes me feel really good about myself, but im 44 years old and married 20 years! arent i pathetic?

2006-06-23 14:30:17 · 21 answers · asked by scooter trash 2

thinking so hardly on sex. or are no longer interested in sex.

2006-06-23 14:25:23 · 28 answers · asked by sugerglaze28 3

Ok so I'm getting married on July 1st 2006. I think I have the whole name change thing underway but how do I go about changing my son's last name. He has my last name and the man I am marrying is his biological father so we want to all have the same last name. Where do I start, who do I contact any info or experiences would be helpful.

2006-06-23 14:10:48 · 4 answers · asked by stilletto_killers 3

My husband abandoned me when I was very pregnant to try to be with his ex-wife and family. I took him back for 2 reasons. He expressed true regret. 1) I love him and 2)our child was about to be born. Otherwise I would not have given him a chance.

Fast forward. It's been a hard road. When someone you trust your life with betrays your trust and makes you feel like you must be a piece of ******* it's hard to get over it. But I've given it 200%. Here's my question.

I look at his cell phone to see who he calls and has called. I work! He stays home w/baby. I pay the bills. I do everything, then come home and do plenty more, especially w/the baby. Okay, so I asked him to hand me the phone today. He said just a minute, then he erased all the history! It totally make me feel like he's up to something and talked to someone he shouldn't. Keep in mind that I see a million #s that I do not know whose they are and I never even ask him so why did he do that?

Is he being unfaithful again?

2006-06-23 14:06:49 · 21 answers · asked by Just Me 4

my wife and i have been having trouble for 3 years now, we were apart for a little while while i tried to seek employment in another state, she told me she had to have brain surgery, to get me to come where we are now, it was a lie.
then shortly after i was here, she told me she had "flirted" with another guy.
she told me for the last three years i want a divorce then as soon as i was about to go she'd say no dont leave, this happens about every 3 months. 15 days ago i learned she was chatcheating, and downloading pornography. I filed for a divorce, then she said she wanted to work things out, said everything i wanted to hear but gave me no reason to trust her. I asked her not to chat at all, and found she was using instant messanger to talk to "friends", then i asked her, if i could look at her email, and i showed her mine she refused. then i came home early and caught her online and she quickly closed everything and pushed me out of the room. trust?

2006-06-23 13:49:31 · 11 answers · asked by bigdaddy 1

are they part of fathers for justice or an independent group? I have been told they are not lawyers but very aware of the law and will only charge a nominal fee for representing a father at a family hearing

2006-06-23 13:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by richnjan 1

Everyone needs to understand that if you want out,, then get yourself together and get out without relying on another person to make that decision for you or "take care of you". It's just much more legitimate to do it the right way rather than create a bigger mess involving more people.

2006-06-23 13:23:55 · 10 answers · asked by yeller 6

I am seeing this guy. He is currently separated form his wife and is in the process of getting a divorce. He has told me that he wants to start a relationship with me and I feel the same way. Whay sould I do. I want to be with him but I keep having these feelings that I don't want to hurt his Ex.

2006-06-23 13:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by elmosbabe2007 1

Other cultures across the world, with India being one example, often rely on arranged marriages, and consider romantic love an unimportant factor in a marriage bond. What do you think? Would you let your parents arrange a marriage for you, perhaps with someone you never even met?

2006-06-23 13:13:42 · 8 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4

im feeling so great right now, i have lost 19 lbs for my husband which he can't notice. but i feel great about it, not in the plus sizes anymore went from a size 26 to an 18!
this is great way more selection of clothes!! someone has got to find me attractive?! except the people in the chat rooms? LOL

2006-06-23 13:09:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband started a new job and he is working 2nd shift 3:00 p.m till 11:00 p.m. How do I suprise him when he gets home tonight? Being romatic? PLECSE HELP

2006-06-23 13:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by Fluffy 1

I know the man's wife and I think she is unaware.The woman is known for doing this many times over but this has been going on for about a year.

2006-06-23 13:00:04 · 12 answers · asked by nerfherder 1

In all honesty you don't REALLY know the person you start a relationship with inside and out when you get together.Physical attraction usually brings you together and after awhile you tell yourself "I love them".How many times have you told someone "I love you" only to regret it later?I think people want stability and someone to wake up with in the morning..tell their hopes and dreams to..and when that person smiles and listens AUTOMATICALLY its love...whatever...another question...people change ALL the time you are not the same person you were 5,10 years ago why is it society tries to push"marriage" long relationships on ppl? I bet if you poll a thousand ppl who have been together 5 or more years more than half would want out if they were being honest..

2006-06-23 12:56:06 · 10 answers · asked by im cool 2

Ok so I have been thru alot in my marriage and sometimes i just feel i cant take it anymore and cant forget all the mean things he has said and done .. sometimes MOST of the time I find myself trying to figure out how I can just leave and make it on my own after so long ..but then other times I feel he is my husband and we married for better or worse and its like i feel guilty for even thinknig about walking out .. how can i be so confused ? am i just scared ?? Why does lvoe and marriage have to hurt so bad ..or is it i havent found my one true love ? is there a true love?? I cant help but wonder what im missing but at the same time i feel trapped cuz feel gulited to leave we do share a child ..Im working on my insecurities I am trying to better myself as a person in hopes to figure out wer im suppsot to be .. why am i feeling so confused ??

2006-06-23 12:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by tainted.luv 1

My minds working over time already.. The husband has cheated and i forgave him or so i keep telling myself i have i mean i stayed with him of course it scarred me but im getting thru it ..I would like to think i forgave him but just cant forget .. Im always wondering if he will do it again ..welp im working on my insecurities i dont wanna feel so insecure ..so he left went to visit family 3 hours away and i decided to stay .. last time he went his ex was trying to be with him of course he has cheated more then once in the past so it makes me wonder if hes gonna do it now .. how do i stop from feeling this way ?? I want to trust him i mean thats why i stayed but my mind is already working over time ..any advice its silly I know Im really trying its just the last time he cheated i became very insecure in our relationship ..can i fix this ??will i always feel this way .shuld i stay or go keep in mind i love him ?

2006-06-23 12:37:12 · 2 answers · asked by tainted.luv 1

I just dropped my daughter off at daddy's for the weekend. She is 9. It kills me when she goes over there, cause she never wants to come back. Sunday night when it's time to come home, she's always begging to stay another night, and daddy will go right alone with her saying "why not?" Then if I let her stay, she'll just beg me the next day to stay there. This man was the one who was abusive and also cheated on me, I don't deserve him taking my daughter away from me too. I feel like I can never keep her here with me, she always wants to be with dad. He got the ultimate revenge. I've even tried to take him back to keep my oldest daughter happy, she cries all the time, and it's been 5 years! What should I do? I'm going to eventually loose my oldest daughter to him.

2006-06-23 12:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3