i recently lost 92 lbs. i went from 232 to 140 and im 5'8". wen im on my morning run guys are always honking and whistling at me. the pathetic part is i REALLY like it! it makes me feel really good about myself, but im 44 years old and married 20 years! arent i pathetic?
2006-06-23 14:30:17 · 21 answers · asked by scooter trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nah! You are getting an ego boost everytime one of those guys honks or whistles! Enjoy it while you still got it, but appreciate the man who has stuck with you no matter what you looked like!
2006-06-23 14:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by nellieb_959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great. I wish I knew how you did. I just had a baby and cant lose any weight. Anyway congrats. You should feel good and your husband should love it. He should take it as a compliment that another guy is honking and whistling at you. At least he knows he has a hot woman. As long as you are not doing anything but really liking the attention then your not pathetic. Pathetic is win you act on the attention and ruin your marriage over it.
2006-06-23 22:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about this for pathetic-
When I was 15, me and my friend (who used her dad's car) would drive to construction sites in city just so we could whoop and hollah at the shirtless hotties on the scaffolds! I *might* have flashed a couple even.
Feel a little less pathetic?
2006-06-23 22:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! If feels good to have all our hard work recognised! I lost over 100 lbs after having my kids and the same thing happened...the more it happened the more confident I became, and I'll admit..I love it too. Give me all the attention...lol
2006-06-30 16:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all!!! You should be happy of your achievments and new found attention. Not many 44yr.olds can say they are honked or whistled at but, some dont really look it either.
2006-06-23 21:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by jack_black_91 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! You go ahead and enjoy the compliments! Nothing wrong with that! Congrats on the weight loss. Wish i could be more successful with it!
2006-06-23 22:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with this at all..I think we can all use some attention from time to time...for some of us it comes easily and more often than others....however, most of us, ladies especially, need that attention...or at least I do...lol
And YOU GO GIRL for losing all that weight..how did ya do it??
2006-06-23 21:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your catching up on lost time, congratulations to you for taking the time to get healthy. i'm sure your husband is enjoying your dedication to yourself, i know its hard to lose weight, but when a car honks, it just someone else admiring you...again congrats!!
2006-06-23 22:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only pathetic because you're complaining about it... Enjoy the wild side of life, but when i say that, it means its good to look but not to TOUCH! lol
2006-06-23 21:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by insight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um..no. It's fantasic that you care so much about your body. And likeing the attention you get from guys passing by isn't bad either. It boosts your self-esteem. I say, keep doing what your doing because your doing it right.
2006-06-23 21:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by blakefabian2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋