I am seeing this guy. He is currently separated form his wife and is in the process of getting a divorce. He has told me that he wants to start a relationship with me and I feel the same way. Whay sould I do. I want to be with him but I keep having these feelings that I don't want to hurt his Ex.
2006-06-23 13:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by elmosbabe2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are correct,, stay out till he gets that settled, be his friend talk to him but don't have sex and date him.
He needs to finish what he is in first and your just setting yourself up for hurt.
He needs to respect you enough to finish up the last relationship rather than be a wimp lookinf for you to fix his problems.
2006-06-23 13:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone going through a divorce, be it the man or woman, is not of suitable mind to start up a lasting, meaningful relationship until the divorce is done, time has passed, and stress has calmed. Leave it alone until he is really divorced, then re-evaluate.
2006-06-23 21:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, there are two sides to every story. Could he be lying to you? Also, what's to stop him from leaving you for another woman? What is the reason why he's separated? Is the relationship you have with him based on sex? All these questions need to be answered, and you need to be satisfied with the answers. Please remember that the decisions you make now, could affect you in the future, possibly for the rest of your life. I wish you the best of luck with this.........
2006-06-23 20:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: tell him that -after- he has completed the process of getting a divorce, and -after- he can prove that he has completed the process of getting a divorce, -then- you can go out on your first date.
2006-06-23 20:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until the divorce is final he is still a married man. Don't date a married man. Wait until everything is done and over with on their aspect, before you start anything with yours.
2006-06-23 20:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by BabyFirefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait until the divorce. And as for his wife well, she's gonna be hurt whether, it be you or someone else !!!
2006-06-23 20:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely wait until this man is divorced. It's the right thing to do.
2006-06-23 22:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by happy_mom_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no nookie until he is completely free and has the paper to prove it. Otherwise you will be treading on thin ice or walking in deep water, whatever the similie is?
2006-06-23 20:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called a conscience. you need to wait until the divorce has actually gone through!
2006-06-23 21:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by mazoo_nc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he's free and clear and then consider dating him.
2006-06-23 20:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋