Marriage & Divorce - 20 June 2006

My boyfriend and I are in love for the past 3 years. He often gets upset about my exes. and that many times is the reason we fight. But he says that once we are married he will never bring it up and love me unconditionally no matter wat. He wud love to dwel in a happy marital bliss for a long long time. Do men change for the better after marriage. Wat are ur feelings to ur women after u marry them?

2006-06-20 23:40:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-20 23:40:34 · 4 answers · asked by Kalyansri 5

trying to help a friend who has found out her husband has a secret female friend trying to see if he has cheated

2006-06-20 23:40:25 · 24 answers · asked by ford_lovergirl_69 2

I had to learn how to date again because times have changed & some people U meet R just plain "Nutty". There is so much more to B concerned/w today Bcause people won't respect you nor your right to privacy. After 7 dates w/this particular woman, she assumed that I was her man w/o us even discussing being exclusive in that way! When I told her I didn't want to see her anymore, she stalked me for 1yr.2mo., & sent nasty emails & left nasty messages on my phone. And get this; in 1 of the messages she said to me, " I NEVER GAVE HER A CHANCE TO SEE IF THE D**K WAS ANY GOOD! " I'm glad I didn't have sex w/her Bcause if she'd been disappointed, only God knows what would've happened.

2006-06-20 23:34:47 · 9 answers · asked by DRAG RACER 7 2

trying to get name and address for 207-449-7829

2006-06-20 23:28:27 · 2 answers · asked by steve k 1

2006-06-20 23:11:59 · 13 answers · asked by egt9046 1

Child is with parent who is verbaly abusive, and has been a control freak. The child want's to be with other parent is she allowed to make that choice. what can I do.

2006-06-20 22:58:31 · 6 answers · asked by kcsgym 1

Ok heres the question, I really hate my dad for not being here for me , he is a "hobo" living in michigan someplace, I am in Florida. For all my life my dad has never been here to support me, and he just got a court order for child suppurt which he owes $40,ooo.
He does not have a house so he never found out he was needed in court. When i find out where he is should I call the police and have him arrested?

2006-06-20 22:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-06-20 22:37:57 · 22 answers · asked by hratzman 1

I don't want my kids going to their dad's this weekend, because their stepsisters have a never ending lice problem. They're supposed to go this Friday, and I don't want this to be WWIII. My ex is a control freak, and have a fit in front of the kids if I try to keep them here with me. How should I handle this without a scene in front of the kids? (My kids have been coming back with lice every time for months, I'm sick of it.)

2006-06-20 22:36:53 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3

she thinks he will divorce his wife for her.

2006-06-20 22:31:53 · 27 answers · asked by DRK 1

Not a question for the bible thumpers since we all know you are "virgins" till marriage.

I am just wondering that for the people who were actively intimate in their relationships before marriage if they have more/better sex or less/dull sex now that they are married?

My experience was later

2006-06-20 22:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Cdn_Superdave 4

2006-06-20 22:11:13 · 11 answers · asked by hratzman 1

why cant men open up and tell us what they are feeling, rather than just saying "im fine" or "nothings wrong".
it drives me mad esp my husband, i no its not the done thing but dear god. stop being so bl**dy moody .
so if you knowplease tell me

2006-06-20 22:03:30 · 39 answers · asked by allinchick 1

2006-06-20 21:55:28 · 8 answers · asked by samiiih 1

so many couples are just living together now, and not bothering to actually get married.Do you think marriage is still as important as it was? Personally,I think,it is still as important. Just make sure you choose the right person first!

2006-06-20 21:38:12 · 34 answers · asked by cc 6

Ok so my bf cheated and i found out 2 years later i forgave him and got married ..then 4 years into marriage I found out he was with another girl b4 we got married .. everyones advice to me was cheat on him back ?? why as a women am i gonna disrespect myself ? I dont think playing with ppls emotions make anything right ..Im better then that as a person ..why get even ? your only hurtin yourself more by trying right ? Im not a whore and I wont let no man treat me like one . I guess I got A diff mindset then most ppl eh? god help me LOL ..

2006-06-20 21:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-20 21:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by hratzman 1

2006-06-20 21:22:40 · 12 answers · asked by sexyass 3

We got married fairly young. He's a wonderful person but not the person that the adult in me would choose to be with. I care for him a great deal but the love that I once had has turned somewhat platonic in nature I guess. As we grow older it seems as though we have less in common and I enjoy spending time with him less and less. We have no children. I have been growing steadily more miserable for the past few years and sadly I've somewhat taken it out on him when he is undeserving of my negativity. I feel like it would be in the best interest of both of us to seperate - but I know that it's not what he wants and so I am torn between doing what I feel is right in my heart for myself and feeling sorry for him and staying with him based soley on the fact that I know my leaving would break his heart. How does one make this decision? Either lose myself by staying with him or break his heart by leaving? It seems there is no easy answer.

2006-06-20 21:20:13 · 27 answers · asked by Ann Ominous 2

When both parties are truely in love, but seem to have grown apart.

2006-06-20 21:15:02 · 17 answers · asked by xXMichelleXx 3

one day i decided to check into my man's cell phone and i noticed he had recieved some text messages from a girl.the text messages said where r u beautiful.answer my calls. so i called the girl and she said they had nothing going on. i asked my husband about it and he said nothing was going on so i looked into his old phone bills and noticed they had been talking for about six months.he still said the phone bills were wrong.He was also coming home late for thoese past six months he would say he was at his friends job.now all of a sudden he comes home everyday at six on the dot.so just the other day i checked his messages and i herd a different girl leaving a message and i also herd a message of a girl moaning .i love this man so much and i don't know what to do he denies everything. i just want him to stop all this. i haven't yet ask h im about the most recent messages but i don't know what to say because he doesn't know that i know his pass code to check his messages. what should i do

2006-06-20 20:49:51 · 17 answers · asked by candy 1

Is it hurt or no? give your opinion please...

2006-06-20 20:49:26 · 6 answers · asked by putradbm 2

if someone flirting with you and ask you to do some affairs, having sex at middle of day in hotel room, would you do it?
considering, you have no problem with your wife or husband, it just, a opportunity for having sex with someone else..would you take it or not, and why?

2006-06-20 20:35:43 · 22 answers · asked by putradbm 2

i satisfy my husband as often as i can(like every day) selfless mind you ( if you know what i mean) i let him know ahead of time if i want it, like this afternoon i took care of him, and told him i would want it after work, cause for me its been 3-4 days, i came home, and he wanted to go ride bikes with a friend that he has plans to ride with tomorrow, so i said no, mind you its like midnight when he wants to go...n e way, i asked him arnt you tired, he said no...so i said goody that means i get some tonight? he said nothing for like a min, and i said nevermind...he went to bed and i found the history deleted, why does he do this to me? he knew he wouldnt want me after that and he did it any way, after i told him ...i just feel realy hurt, and i dont understand...i know he doesnt like the effort it takes for sex (i'm pregnant and have gotten into the awkward angle/position stage), but i know he loves me, and he knows that i dont care as long as it doesnt effect how often were together

2006-06-20 20:15:40 · 8 answers · asked by Rose 3

2006-06-20 19:57:37 · 9 answers · asked by tangsaire 1

2006-06-20 19:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by Sanjai 1

I am not talking just about young men. (Hint, I am 42) Why do some husbands feel the need to do this while you are right there and can obviously see this? I am personally not the jealous type, it's a matter of respect to me. This is not saying that a man would act on whatever it is he is feeling at that time. And that he is good in so many other ways. But it is quite demeaning to the woman and causes resentment. Especially if you are out with another couple and they too notice his roving eyes.

2006-06-20 19:37:43 · 21 answers · asked by soozemusic 6

I am not talking just about young men. (Hint, I am 42) Why do some hubands feel the need to do this while you are right there and can obviously see this? I am personally not the jealous type, it's a matter of respect to me. This is not saying that a man would act on whatever it is he is feeling at that time. And that he is good in so many other ways. But it is quite demeaning to the woman and causes resentment. Especially if you are out with another couple and they too notice his roving eyes.

2006-06-20 19:36:26 · 2 answers · asked by soozemusic 6

Im a very sexual woman but I dont get turned on by my husband anymore. Sex has become routine with us and its me that causes that because I keep thinking that if he's bored with sex he wont want to be intimate as much. I need some advice

2006-06-20 19:32:44 · 16 answers · asked by tx_angel_baby80 1