Marriage & Divorce - 17 June 2006

does that saying refers to -divorce first or... I've always put it along side with cheating???.... what are your views...does it have any connections???

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2006-06-17 23:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married in Clark county back in 2001. I thought it was called Cupid's Little Wedding Chapel, but the only one I see is Cupid's Chapel. Anyway, I am now divorced. Recently I became engaged to a filipina who wishes to be married in a Catholic church. In order to marry in a Catholic Church, my first marriage may need to be annulled. Our marriages performed in Las Vegas considered civil weddings because they are not performed in the church? Because the time involved in getting my annulment changes depending on what kind of ceremony it was and if its recognized by the church. I hope this makes sense. Anyway, I need to know if marriages at Cupids Wedding Chapels are considered civil because they are not performed in a church. Im really confused at this point, and any information you can provide would be greatly appreciated by my fiancée and I. Thanks again

2006-06-17 23:26:33 · 3 answers · asked by af4sguy 3

2006-06-17 23:24:12 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a married man and im in love with a mrrried women, she too loves me lot .we have been phyisically involved and there are no chances of going back but we keep fighting coz we dont trust each other , we both are scared we will leave each other and go back to our real partners, what do we do to allways trust each other and live happyly for ever allthough being saperate?

2006-06-17 23:15:55 · 19 answers · asked by smartsin2k 1

I notice that my husband is not answering some of his phone calls if where together.His always out with his frieands.and one day i found a condom in his car,then he said that it was there before,and his trying to say that it was his sisters,coz his sister used to drive his car..
I really dont know what to do..
But I already have my suspicions

2006-06-17 23:09:22 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-17 22:27:34 · 19 answers · asked by o2la 1

ladies how u make or ask ur spouse that u r willign to get banged tonight
any special sign or any method

2006-06-17 22:27:10 · 4 answers · asked by snake 3

I have a friend of 12 years that got a divorce a couple of years ago. She said she moved out but after a few months her ex husband asked her to move back in. He did not want to reconcile but they have a child and he thought it would just be easier for some reason. They sleep in the same bed together every night and she she was telling me that they're even redecorating the bedroom. They still even have sex.

She asked him recently if they could get married again and he told her no, that she hadn't earned back the love he once had for her (he divorced her because he says she was too much of a taker and that she made him feel like nothing he did was ever enogh).

He won't allow her to date and he is constantly checking the #'s on her cel and checking her e-mail.

Is it me, or is this situation just insane? I'm trying to understand the reasoning behind their arrangement but i just don't get it.

Isn't he really just a sadist?

2006-06-17 22:18:07 · 15 answers · asked by mamabunny 4

i m guy maried about 17 year i had step m.inlow just 8/9 year older than
me i was very very impressed by her figer i had a lust for her ,
some time it seems she also had lust for me and some time she talk like that she knew it and ask me as i was her son like.but she never called me like a son inlow (putter beta ete.)she always called me with my name as
,,,,,,,,,jee. just to respect me alw. with jee ,may i had some bad terms with my inlows bcz i had stoped to talk her,than my f.inlow get angery, their was a dispute, and we me and wife seprated for 2/3 months then its ok,

I never called her like mother and never perpose her,but i can't leave her
she is still a good figer tell me any how i get her may be only for a once
and It could be right or worng.

2006-06-17 22:09:29 · 12 answers · asked by splisspl 1

I rather have a general idea before filing for a conference to avoid the anger because he can get very very nasty. If it isn't much more then I would just not go ahead with it. He will start getting our children involved and I do not need anymore stress added. However we my 2 children and I are struggling and my older one sees it. I dont want my children to worry like they do at times. Not yet divorced but we are in the negotiating stages. It is so unpleasant. I know he makes $30K more then I do. I just really want to know if it will be worth it before going forward. thanks so much

2006-06-17 21:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by michelea00 1

2006-06-17 21:28:23 · 62 answers · asked by lyndsay 2

heres the story...we've been dating almost three months. he's divorced for two years, with a 5 yr old girl. he chose to end the marriage becuase they constantly fought, (tried counselling and all) and it never worked. she told him to leave a bunch of times, and he finally did. Ever since we've been dating, she is making child access much harder for him and also getting on his case for dating me. he says he would never go back to her, and i trust that. he says ive been acting like im upset lately, so ive decided to tell him that this is on my mind. i want him to know i want to continue our relationship, but i also think we need to come up with a solution on dealing with her drama. is this a good idea to discuss this with him??

2006-06-17 21:27:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

like wat do i do

2006-06-17 20:57:35 · 14 answers · asked by DJ 2

2006-06-17 20:44:58 · 15 answers · asked by imi_777 1

i am a wife with bipolar, i am simply trying to make sure that what my husband puts up with from me and my illness, does not outwiegh the happiness and pleasure i bring him... i love giving my husband bjs because it is easy for me to know that he is pleased. i know when i go through my rough times he is surely as miserable as i am, i want him to be happy and satisfied with me, maybe its my way of trying to compesate him for what he puts up with, i dont know...i was just wanting some guys opinions, if you loved a girl with mental/emotional problems, would it be easier to go through the hard times if sex was always available, kinky, open minded and from what i can tell from his responses, good?

2006-06-17 20:37:09 · 9 answers · asked by Rose 3

for me i marry him because when i ll be with him i have father image right but sometimes im shy but we have 1 child so im realy dont knw if im chose the right decissinon in my life or what tell me

2006-06-17 20:24:29 · 11 answers · asked by peterose 1

2006-06-17 20:21:13 · 19 answers · asked by hotguy24ca 2

Ok i am back , thanks for all answers. It happened to tis person which i know well , Before that they have a kid but after the incident she is expecting one more. thats why i am curious about wats going on in her mind. Is she stupid or wat? Love is blind? She take it like nothing has happen and still so proud of him . Don know why ?

2006-06-17 19:58:09 · 3 answers · asked by Ruhua 2

She shuts me out and isolates me, telling me that i had my chance (which she never communicates to me) and tells me to live with it. She says that she is done trying to work things out and that she will just do here thing and I should just do mine, so that we can just stay together for the kids. My wife can be vey unforgiving and callous, which makes for everyone to walk on eggshells when around her, in fear of making her upset. She sits around and tells my kids to clean, while she sits on a bed and plays video games. My kids resent her, but they love their mom. I have tried going to counseling, but each time the counselour got close to the problems, my wife would shut me out and stop going or would not go with me to counseling, she would go by herself. I thought one on one would help, but instead it turned into some type of womens group that did nothing for our marriage. My wife yells at me and gets in my face from time to time. What can I do? I want my family ....

2006-06-17 19:57:05 · 11 answers · asked by kellyschwabb 1

Thanks for all the great answers to my previous question "If he doesn't know if he loves me does that mean he doesn't?". Now for the second part. If he doesn't know if he still loves me after 9 years of marriage, how do I act? I am a very affectionat person by nature and still love him. He says to be myself, but how do I keep throwing myself at someone who doesn't know if they love me? How do I control my displays of affection if this is the proper thing to do so as not to put him on the spot while he is deciding? I am a very open person and not good at hiding my feelings!

2006-06-17 19:51:46 · 8 answers · asked by Jill M 3

you see im only 21 and he's 31 and he's never been married and has no kids ...well im ready for marage and kid's...we have lived togther for over a year and we are moving out of state togther so we can start a new relationship with just he and i (no family in the middle).he has told me before that he does want to marry me but not yet .... and he says we are together why do we need a paper to tell us that?what should i do just wait around and hope that one do he will ask???

2006-06-17 19:43:21 · 16 answers · asked by tinkerbell85 2

i am staying away from my husband and have to be away from him for next 4-5 months..we have no option..we speak to each other everyday and chat...he pampers me..but he is having very bad temper...he shouts on me for some stupid reason and gets angry..dont speak to me..wht shud i do..how shud i behave..he says tht i dunno how to tackle problem..i really dont undertsnad..wht shud i do..first is long distance and second is is temper is bad,,i just dunno how to react..but i love him a lot...sometimes he sayd he is lucky to have me n when angry says i m his mistake..wht the hell. i feel lik stupid stuck in between..

2006-06-17 19:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by abc 2

I have tried to reconsile since January. She changes her mind and when she feels secure in her career she talks about getting back together. At other times she is dead set against a reconsiliation as she says she does not view me as a husband any more. Several months ago before taking her second term positiion she told me she loved me. It must have slipt out. She is warm and cold. She is concerned about her career in teaching. I love her and I miss her a lot. I have sublet an appartment to be near where she lives. I want us to seek counselling or talk to someone. I think it is a good decision to go and actually see her face to face and let her will be her will. I love her very much and miss her badly it hurts. Do you think going there and making contact is a good idea... does anyone else have any other ideas..telephone calls don't go over too well and she hates mail.
I know I posted a similar question but I need some kind of confirmation please?

2006-06-17 19:37:01 · 20 answers · asked by woblyknobit 1

what and how would u feel if u found out ur husband is having an affair? The sad things is that u found out through his email .About the little little detail they did and how much they enjoyed each session. well u forgive him and willing to have a baby for him ? If yes , why? do u think he will change? Can u forgive and forget? Please enlighten me. thanks

2006-06-17 19:32:42 · 19 answers · asked by Ruhua 2

I have been married for about 2 years, we have no kids, our own house, good jobs etc. We are youg 20 and 21. I got married for the wrong reasons. I didn't want to get married but I was scared to tell her I didn't want to be with her, so I followed through anyways. I am not attracted to her, she is lazy, likes to eat, watch tv, and sit all day. I like to stay busy, I try to get her involved but she complains the whole time. She makes me feel guilty everytime I get a day off and she works. Especially if I go visit my parents 5 minues away....I dont know what to do. I want to go back to school, she doesn't want me too. It only betters me.

2006-06-17 19:23:28 · 15 answers · asked by jmseymour1 2

My boyfriend joined the army and left for basic training a week ago. We have been together for 7 months. I am in love with him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I don't know if I can handle being away from him for months at a time. If he gets deployed he'll be gone for up to a year. If you guys were in my shoes would you stay with the person, or would it be too hard for you?

2006-06-17 19:20:00 · 8 answers · asked by Love My Soldier 3

2006-06-17 19:02:41 · 5 answers · asked by charly 3

2006-06-17 18:58:42 · 38 answers · asked by NORRIS T. 1

that is the biggest line of bullshit. You know as well as I do that its rarely medical (esp if your under 30) ITS BECAUSE YOU EAT WALMART FOOD AND DONT MOVE!

2006-06-17 18:44:38 · 28 answers · asked by NORRIS T. 1

2006-06-17 18:42:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous