do I have to belive my husband?

Question

I notice that my husband is not answering some of his phone calls if where together.His always out with his frieands.and one day i found a condom in his car,then he said that it was there before,and his trying to say that it was his sisters,coz his sister used to drive his car..
I really dont know what to do..
But I already have my suspicions

Answer 1

A person that does not answer some of his calls when others are present is a sign of hiding something. Observe if he leaves shortly after the call. That indicates he is responding to the call secretly. Point blank tell your sister-in-law that you found a condom it the car and watch her expression. She may not claim it if it is hers but her expression may give her away. You may try going to where his friends are hanging out and see if he is there. Make up some good excuse first in case he is there so he won't know you are checking up on him. If after that you are still not sure hire a private detective to help you discover where he is and what he is doing. Good luck.

Answer 2

If you found a condom then probably he is cheating on you. He is not being honest with you. Sit the cheatin husband down and have a long talk with him. You two definitely need to communicate.
If you have the money you could hire a PI but they are not cheap and very expensive. You have the right to be suspicious because of the evidence. He needs to be straight up with you. If he is cheating tell him to hit the street and out he goes. You don't want a man like that.
You deserve someone better than that. Alls I can say is keep your eyes and ears open and keep your mouth shut for now.

Answer 3

If your husband does not use any condoms with you, I do not believe his sister would be stupid enough to leave a condom in his car unless it fell out of her pocket. Depending on how long ago she was in his car, I think she might have called him to retrieve it, if she is an adult, in order to get it back. You could always ask her if she recognized the condom if it was unused. However, you should look for other signs of infidelity if you already have suspicions because it looks like your husband may be planning to cheat or is already cheating on you.

Answer 4

Oh my gosh!! i really think he is cheating on u. They will come up with all the excuses in the world. And not answering phone call when you're together is ummm???? Well, when he is not paying attention and if it's not passcode protected, Trace the phone nbr and give that person a call or even answer the phone for him. He is your husband you know, he shouldn't have anything to hide. Good Luck and be alert and pay attention to everything he does .

Answer 5

it is clearly shown that your husband is having an affair with some other woman. A man will never say to you if he his having an affair, he will only say the truth if he is caught red handed.I don't think you should believe him.I think you should set a trap for him so that he can be caught red handed. On the other hand, if you really love him, you should talk to him about this. tell him you know he is having an affair and it hurts you to see this. ask him if you have done anything to make him do this. ask him if there are things he expects from you that he does get. communication is very relevant in any relationship
good luck

Answer 6

Yes i think you already know so you have to decide what you are going to do about it. Be sure to be well prepared no matter what you do. If you are going to go then don't just go. Make plans and make sure you are protected as much as possible. If you stay and just keep quiet then there just might be a lot more things come up. If you confront him be ready for the worst and hope for the best. Keep cool and don't do anything just out of anger.

Answer 7

give that ****** a nice taste of his own medicine. go get a nice makeover and spa treatment, with his money of course. take some money out to move and when he's not home , pack up your things and put em in storage. then wait till he's gone,--- get some porn mags, and some mens colgne and spray it all over the bedroom. then put the mags where he'll find them.....then go buy a few condoms and open them and leave one vivible in the trash and one under his pillow. then have a nice dinner and a glass of wine. when he finds them and askes whats up..........be calm and sweet and be like, """im sorry, i think i was ******* your sister or that nice guy i met whose working down the street on a friends house, he's got great hands huh? ive been so buzy i forgot to tell you im moving the **** out.!!!!!!!!" then get dressed and go.

Answer 8

If he is always out with his friends...why isn't he ever out with you? The question is: do you really want to know the answer and if you find out it isn't what you hoped for what will you do? I had relatives (women) that went thru the same thing, but really didn't want to know the true answer. They said if they found out then they would have to decide what to do....I suppose denial is a reality some people are more comfortable living with. Myself, I would want to seek the truth as living a lie is not my reality.....finding an honest, loving and faithful mate is.
Be true to yourself and I believe you will then take care of yourself....

Answer 9

wait a minute didn't he say that it was his sisters? then what is the problem other than you like to start trouble, if he would have said he didn't know where it came from then you would have had a reason to doubt but he gave you an reasonable answer so shut the hell up about it and tell him you are sorry then give him a blow for the hassle and the doubt

Answer 10

Just dont blame him blindly just by seeing condom or ignoring phone calls. Coz if a relationship gets a crack its difficult to repair so u just try to know where he is most of d time and try to call on that no. without getting recognised