2006-06-17 20:44:58 · 15 answers · asked by imi_777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women are jealous of everything,that's why I don't care for them. They always gotta b**** about something. Tell her to shut the f*** up. She's got no self esteem, that's her problem. If she's over weight, tell her to diet. Any one can lose weight, all you have to do is eat less and exercise. BTW, Ima woman.
2006-06-17 21:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is about feeling insecure - it happens either when your partner makes it obvious that they think that someone else is more important/ interesting than you, or, when you have been belittled or abused in the past.
Look to your own behaviour, are you being re-assuring and encouraging to her? If so, then you can tell her that its getting hard for you to cope with her behaviour.
You can ask her if she wants to talk about what is really going on.
If it seems like she's nagging you, let her know how you'd prefer her to communicate. For example, you can also tell her that you will be more likely to listen if she uses a friendlier voice.
Then you can re-enforce this non-nagging behaviour by showing her that you have listened and understand whats she's saying (you don't have to agree with her to do this). Simple repetition of the main gist will do
If it is a self-esteem issue (we all have them sometimes, to some degree), you can encourage and support her to do more worthwhile things that might improve her confidence.
2006-06-18 03:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Eleanor S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wouldnt nag if you complimented her from time to time . more like once a day. i sometimes nag at my man because i have to ask for his oppinion every time i need reassurance. really though we women will always nag because so matter how many times we repeat ouselves men never listen . I have been trying to get my boyfeind to understand that i need reassurance to believe that i look good or ive done something well but he wont understand and i have to accept that. Your wife will probably never stop nagging. You could defy the usual ways of a man and try telling her shes pretty and really awsome , but you have to keep it up . I mean what if she told you every time you guys had sex that it was awsome and that she was amazed and then all of the sudden she didnt say anything anymore? Wouldnt you think that she didnt think it was good anymore? If you have any questions feel free to email me at made_of_metal2003@yahoo.com! :)
2006-06-22 03:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the green eye monster is a big problem with relationship...Your wife needs to stop feeling like shes the underdog and start doing something to make her feel better about herself...Bring up that she might want to get a complete make over...I think this will help out with your wife problem...You could help,start telling her shes looking very nice today and take her out to diner and drinks...Be patient with her and things will get better...
Clowmy
2006-06-18 04:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...I have a question for everyone out there...Where do the men in this world find their info on how to keep a woman?...The dipstick department at the automotive store?...And as for you...Maybe you should wake up and realize that your woman is trying to catch your eye and to see how much you really love and want her...She isn't nagging...She wants to turn your head...Gees...What is wrong with men these days?...She wants you to tell her that she is the only one and the perfect woman for you...Don't get mad...You are the one who asked the question...Just giving you some advice...
2006-06-18 04:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by *Panda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you make comment's around her? If you do this might be the beginning of your problem. I am a wife and my husband had a an eye to look. Now he doesn't because he spends more time watching me now because I decided to do everything he does. I told him I bet I have done everything he has done. He ask me what does that mean and I say tell me what you did and I will tell you if I did it. He never told me what he did in his pass but I never told him. I just tell him when he gets to heaven he will find out. I know I never did anything before him but he will never know. Now he spend more time focusing on what I am looking at, who is looking at me and wondering what I am thinking. All thanks to three older brother's
2006-06-18 04:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by searchingforanswers? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is 2 different questions really.. What is she "nagging" about (I really hate that term)?
If she is getting upset when she see's what she feels is a nicer looking woman it is because she has low self esteme.. It will not make a difference if you tell her how beautiful she is at that moment either.. but do it anyhow.. and do it at other times.
It is so important that husbands build up their wives self esteme..And MEAN IT!
2006-06-18 03:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always tell her that in your eyes she's the most beautiful, sexy woman on earth. That should give her enough confidence to stop being jealous.
2006-06-18 03:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that nasty little green eyed monster called JEALOUSY
I had the same problem a long time ago. it only destroys a relationship and i had to learn that the hard way.
she has to learn to up her self-esteem before she can stop "nagging" to you.
2006-06-18 05:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her feel good about her self...she needs more confidence, dont give her any reson to believe you find any other woman more interesting or atractive than her....THAT is very important...if that does not work, see if shes interested in a therapist...she could have depression, or paranoia, ect...
2006-06-18 03:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋