for me i marry him because when i ll be with him i have father image right but sometimes im shy but we have 1 child so im realy dont knw if im chose the right decissinon in my life or what tell me
2006-06-17 20:24:29 · 11 answers · asked by peterose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, do you love him? You have had a child together so you have to think of the kid too.. But do not stay for only that reason.
I do not think the age is the problem, I think maybe you feel like you might have gotten with him for a father figure, I am going to guess and say that I bet someone told you that..
If you love him hun, marry and have a wonderful life.. If you are not sure, then do not marry him...And if you do not love him, then you really should move on and find someone you love and who loves and adores you.. We all deserve that!
2006-06-17 20:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was foolish to get involved. But since you did and you now have a young child and you are so young, do you really think this marriage to a man so much older will last? Of course it won't. In 9 years he will be eligible for Medicare. How do you feel about that? How will you feel when he is ready to retire in a few years and you are in your mid-30's? In your Prime? You need a best friend, husband, and a lover. Not a father. You are not a little girl anymore. It is time to grow up and not make any more mistakes.
Break it off soon and get on with your life and date men your own age. However, a single mom with a young child had better have a plan for work and finances worked out first. Otherwise life will be extremely hard and difficult.
2006-06-18 03:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should marry some one if you love him not if you need a father image!
2006-06-18 03:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by pinkroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart but know that you Will have a short life with him. My dad is 17 years older then my mom & they are so perfect for eachother but my mom knows that their life together is going to be shorter... that really sucks thow!!!! Just something else to think about... because what is going to hapen when he gets really old? you will be all alonae taling care of him... then eventually all alone... without your companion..... do you want to grow old with him or not? Listen to your heart!
2006-06-18 03:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by swtnsxygrlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask total strangers about this kind of advice in your life? You are the only one that knows what is the best for you.
2006-06-18 04:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kookala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already made a child with him, doesn't that sort of invalidate your question? Marry him or don't, but the two of you are already bound by your child.
2006-06-18 03:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good, but since you have a child with him.....carry on. Life is short.
2006-06-18 03:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love with him, marry him. Don't worry about the age.
2006-06-18 03:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a good man and care for you?
if yes, then of course it's right decision.
just you be happy and find friend to talk and laugh together.
old man didn't make any problem for you.
let him happy a while.
2006-06-18 03:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you like. If you need that father figure and you don't mind saggy balls, well then don't let anybody tell you it is wrong.
2006-06-18 03:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋