i am staying away from my husband and have to be away from him for next 4-5 months..we have no option..we speak to each other everyday and chat...he pampers me..but he is having very bad temper...he shouts on me for some stupid reason and gets angry..dont speak to me..wht shud i do..how shud i behave..he says tht i dunno how to tackle problem..i really dont undertsnad..wht shud i do..first is long distance and second is is temper is bad,,i just dunno how to react..but i love him a lot...sometimes he sayd he is lucky to have me n when angry says i m his mistake..wht the hell. i feel lik stupid stuck in between..
2006-06-17 19:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by abc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i cannot leave him..i just want to know how to solve this problem..shud i stop calling and realise my importance or shud i call him as i dont want to make our relationship worse by not calling him...
2006-06-18 06:38:38 · update #1
Just hang up on him when he's being verbally abusive. If he calls back mad because you hung up, explain you will talk to him when he treats you like a real person. If he starts yelling again, hang up again. Eventually he'll get the hint & knock off the bad behavior.
2006-06-17 20:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by coffeevonhelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is another problem.
He could be suffering from depression.
I can relate. I do suffer from depression and get mad for no reason. I cannot help it.
I think something has caused this to happen.
Maybe if you can get him to go to a doctor. They might be able to find out what the problem is and then you two can move on.
If it is too late, then I say move on. You can find love.
Good Luck
2006-06-18 11:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He love u a lot
do one thing if he tempers on u u still speak sweet
he's angry coz he's upset with something
dont u get angry on him if he's angry
just ignore his anger and keep loving him
one day he'll keep aside his anger and always feel like loving u
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2006-06-18 02:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by newoldnew9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
com on ur hubby must be looking forward for sex u r married couples and from long time he didnt even touched u obisiouly he will be irritated but thats the way hwe controls himself from sex
suggestion: try to have romantic conversation when u talk to each other and jsut tell him that u r getting crazy to meet him
and u want him to please u when u will be back
2006-06-18 02:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by snake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him when he can act like a man and talk like a man, and treat you with respect and not insult and abuse you, then you may consider actually listening to what hes got to say. take the 4-5 months not to.!
2006-06-18 03:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hope those months fly he mos def has a problem with distance
2006-06-18 02:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by minnie m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is not easy.u 2 need 2 c a doctor?!!
2006-06-18 05:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by jsjr12469 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that u need help.... as do your husband. Seek counseling!
2006-06-18 20:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He's treating you like crap and you deserve better.
2006-06-18 04:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to his house and give some love , he will be alright .
2006-06-18 10:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by tithi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋