2006-06-17 18:58:42 · 38 answers · asked by NORRIS T. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're thinking of men when she uses it on you, then that's a good indication that you may be gay. If you are thinking of her (or some other woman) while she is using it on you, then that is a good indication that you are not gay. Even if it was your idea.
2006-06-17 19:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Garth 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you allow her to use a strap on has nothing to do with homosexuality. Being gay means you are attracted to men. A man receiving anal pentration, whether by himself or a woman means nothing towards your sexuality. Honesly, if you want to try it, do so. Anal sex actually is one of the best oragsms for men. When the prostate is stimulated, you get off even harder. The main thing is to start small and work your way up to a size you are comfortable with. Use LOTS of lube and relax. Tensing up hurts like hell and takes even longer to get back in. If you perform anal sex on her, have her tell you what she likes and how she likes it so that you can get an idea of how it may feel. The main thing is that it is someone you love and trust and it can actually make the bond stronger. Always make sure you've cleaned your system out so that it will be less painful.
Go for it! You may love it!! Many straight men love anal sex and it does not even make them remotely gay.
2006-06-17 19:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by southrntrnzplnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife wants to do it and you are okay with it, then no. You're not gay. Gay is when you love another person of the same sex. Your wife is not a man if she needs a strap on. It's eroticism and lots of people use toys for play. why the hell not. Sounds like an adventure to say the least, and whose to judge whether or not your sex life determines your sexual orientation? If you dig women, you're straight whether or not she's sticking anything in any oriphus.
2006-06-17 19:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends who use all kinds of toys in the bedroom. From vibrators to anal beads to strap ons. This is your wife, your woman. If you both want to try it, try it. There is a big difference between having your sexy wife play naughty games with you and taking it up the hoo-hah by a man with a big set of hairy ones. Besides, there is a spot in there that will really kick it up a notch for you when you orgasm.
(Your gay if you want your wife to put on a mustache and talk in a deep voice and do you up the hoo-hah while your watching Brokeback Mountain and drinking a cosmopolitan.)
2006-06-17 19:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by peskygnats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay Strap On Sex
2016-12-18 16:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's gay at all. First off, you are not doing it with a man, you are doing it with your wife. It's kind of funny that men find any anal play on their part as a sign they are gay. I myself used to be closed to the idea of having my anal area stimulated by my wife. However, with time I grew to become experimental and more willing to try things with her. I haven't gone to the point of a strap on, but in time who knows. I am not in question of my sexuality. I am not attracted to men in any way, shape, or form. I am however willing to endulge my wife's fantasies, as she is willing to endulge mine.
If you are willing to let her do it, go for it. It doesn't make you gay. It makes you adventurous.
2006-06-17 19:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Paul D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are into your wife and just like the idea of messing around with toys, then no, you're not gay. If you secretly harbor fantasies about being with men instead of with your wife, then maybe you are. Only you can know!
2006-06-17 19:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by JStrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no. I mean hey, as far as anyone is concerned you are a happily married man. Keep it that way. If she want's to do that to you and you're willing to let her then what the hell, why not. But um, posting that question on here isn't a good way to start. Anyway, what you do in your bedroom with your wife is nobody's business... keep it that way man.
2006-06-17 19:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by TheLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not gay! The man's g-spot is his prostate which is only accessible thru his behind! Many straight married men switch roles with their wives, most won't talk about it. It's very normal! Go for it you may find out that it pleasurable for you, just use plenty of lube!
2006-06-17 19:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it heck. If you want to try it, and you both feel comfortable doing so, then go for it. Its just trying new things and new ways, no harm no foul.
Man I hate it when people are like that. Just because I kiss a girl does that make me bi? Just because I try pot does that make me a junkie??
Besides, your sex life and preferences are no-one elses business but yours and the person you are with. Im sure that there are stranger fetishes that people have in the world.
2006-06-18 02:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie_dee24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay! what are you doing being married, when there are a lot of gay men that will give it to you? But be carefull you will get a disease! P.S. the leather doughnut is not a good way to go.
2006-06-17 19:08:20 · answer #11 · answered by basscatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋