Marriage & Divorce - 20 June 2006

I have 10 months to plan. The wedding was in May, 1987. We like movies, parties and friends. I was thinking about a trip to the Cannes Film Festival or the Sundance Film Festival. Maybe a large party with lots of friends, renewal of vows, etc. Jewelry. Maybe some combination of some of them. We have some budget to work with, but not celebrity money!

What are your ideas?

What else would be good to consider?

2006-06-20 10:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by Ken C. 6

My husband would rather be alone and watch porn sometimes than have sex with me. He says that is not true, but it is how it makes me feel sometimes. Sometimes i feel like he is trying to get me out of the house just so he can look up porn. When i catch him at it he lies about it. It makes me feel really insecure and obsessive sometimes.

2006-06-20 10:12:42 · 14 answers · asked by micah z 4

I currently live in a different country and i'm from the US, I've been marriaged for 3 years now and have 2 kids, but i don't want to be with him anymore and i don't know how to tell him without him fliping out and totally srewing me with the kids and me going back to the US. We fight all the time and i just don't want to be with him anymore Please help

2006-06-20 10:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by edrenil 1

I'm 31 and I got married at 20..we have two kids. Lately I have this strong desire to be independent. I love and care about my husband, but I'm not sure that I'm "in love" with him. I'm just not sure if I want to be married anymore. I've been thinking that maybe this is because I got married SO young and never had the chance to be on my own. Not sure what I should do. Has anyone felt like this? Any advice?

2006-06-20 10:10:52 · 32 answers · asked by flshlee 1

All my husband ever wants to do is stay at home or play golf. When his friends are doing something like get together and play poker he is all about it. I like his friends and i like to hang out with their wives, but sometimes i want him to do stuff with my friends or just the two of us, but he is never interested when i make the plans. He would rather stay home and play video games. It makes me feel really taken for granted.

2006-06-20 10:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by micah z 4

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 1/2 yrs and we have 2 kids. We've talked about getting married before and were even engaged last year but he said he wasn't sure he wanted to get married. We resently got saved and I know we should get married so what should I do? I don't want to pressure him.

2006-06-20 10:03:23 · 18 answers · asked by Carrie D 2

1st. He is married. he never try to hide it.
2. i like him v much, He may like me?-i dont know. I hope so. not just sex.
3. he is rich. yes. but I never ask him for anything. Nor did him give me anything yet. we met 4 times now.
4. he loves his wife. i respect that. I dont know what to do. i have think of he leaving his wife. he works with super model daily. so far he has not left his wife for any one. I am not that confident to think i can make him divorce.
5. he is very clever. he will not pay for divorce. he has no kids.
6. he has his life. i have mine.
he said it is a friendship+ sex. I dont know am i doing a fine thing.
no one get hurt in the end. just a simple happy memory.
7. ofcourse i do wish one day he may love me. but i dont expect that

2006-06-20 10:02:30 · 15 answers · asked by bunnyear06 1

Gene Roddenberry is the producer of the original Star Trek series.

2006-06-20 10:01:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-20 09:57:20 · 13 answers · asked by Josephin 1

My husband works around 70 hours a week. All during the week. This is awful for sex I know but even on the weekends he's not interested. I just had a baby and not to brag but my body is beyond back. Yet ever since I got pregnant he has had no interest. We talked once and he said he just isn't that into sex. With anyone! I've thought about a supplement but maybe I should just do something different.

2006-06-20 09:54:00 · 12 answers · asked by kirkskitti 2

My husband and I have been married for 5 years. He has cheated on me and had numerous internet relationship for about 2 years. We have since decided to separate and have sold our home. Now he is telling me he can change, but he still wont give me his email and phone passwords. I feel like I am giving up on my marriage, but at the same time I feel like I am degrading myself by staying in a mentally abusive relationship. Part of my problem is that in my family you get married and stay married you just struggle through. The other part is that while he is a complete ---hole I do have love for him. Am I making the right choice to leave?

2006-06-20 09:50:55 · 54 answers · asked by blissful c 1

Say you have been dating a guy for quite along time, and he asks you to marry him. Everything is going great until - your first true love which is now one of your best friends contacts you - who you haven't talked to in 2 years because you both just lost contact... and he tells you how much he loves you and wants you to reconsider getting married. And the kicker?? You love him too and always will because he was your true love?? But the guy that you are with now is great and you love him too??? What would you do???

2006-06-20 09:48:15 · 22 answers · asked by Jennie33Ldybg 1

how pathetic. I m 22.
but i dont believe in it anymore.
i think marriage is people work as a team for getting what they need of each other.
i would let my husband have fun outside if he can give me what i want from a marriage constantly

2006-06-20 09:47:56 · 7 answers · asked by bunnyear06 1

2006-06-20 09:46:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-20 09:46:11 · 10 answers · asked by Bluecat 2

I am 22. student. never meet a married 52 years old guy before.
I dont know the game and rule.
I m in uk. he is european. what is the culture there about mistress?
like. what is mistress?
as we know clearly we dont love each other but are fond of each other. a quite relax ongoing relationship.
but i dont know the money issue.
he pays for all the date. when i fly to see him. he sometimes give me extra cash notes. I dont know what to do. as I dont feel comfortable yet with it. I prefer gift rather than cash. besides they are petty cash.
so i m thinking to buy him a watch (>= his extra csh) for his birthday next month as a way to say thank you. i dont need it.
dont know how he will react?

2006-06-20 09:45:31 · 9 answers · asked by bunnyear06 1

My wife and I are going through a divorce. It's what she wants. I don't want to go into details right now but I'm not driving it. This summer, we've reached a agreement that our two kids - ages 5 and 7 - will visit her in NJ. I'm in CA, our homestate of residence. She has chosen a 14 yo to watch our kids while she is at work. Typically, she is supposed to have 9 - 5 hours. However, anyone who knows the military lifestyle knows that doesn't exist. As such, my wife is constantly at meetings after work or events at which she has to represent the unit. So here's my question from a very concerned parent: Would you trust a 14 yo to watch your kids if you don't know who she is, doesn't have a drivers license, and knowing that your estranged spouse, who is in charge of their welfare, may be working till 11 PM? I'm getting bad vibes already.

2006-06-20 09:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by ntoriano 4

companionship of a girl who is 30 years old younger than u.
I like this one-william. he like me being cute and sweet. and maybe childish.
but sometimes feel he is patronizing me or bossy. not sure u understand my feeling or not. u name it. just feel as the age reason. he can be judgemental. and bossy as he is president of one company. maybe getting used to the way he talks to his employee?
trying to understand him more as i like him v much and so much to learn from him ===a role model.
do men have feeling?

2006-06-20 09:40:15 · 6 answers · asked by bunnyear06 1

I dont care anything and other people's perception. I just wanna get what i want.
what i want is: make him love me. and so much that either can make our relationship much longer---a keeper. or he wud give up his current marriage for me which hence pay money to his wife til she re-marry or dead.

2006-06-20 09:35:41 · 29 answers · asked by bunnyear06 1

2006-06-20 09:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently found out that my husband has been living with another woman out of town where he works. A few of his friends told me. I immediatly filed for divorce, after confirming it with the other woman...I am 8 monthes pregnant. I was just wondering how I can get myself through this emotionally without falling apart...

2006-06-20 09:16:31 · 24 answers · asked by nellieb_959 3

In a nutshell, I was having an affair on my husband but recently after the guilt trip and him moving out, I discovered that he was doing th same thing. We tried couseling and reconciling. But he has developed feelings for this new person. He says that he is torn. What should I do? Work on my marriage or let him go.

2006-06-20 09:10:49 · 27 answers · asked by RONNIEKAT 2

Men always say it's just sex... is that all? no feelings? is that cheating?

2006-06-20 09:06:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mariel 2

2006-06-20 09:05:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate strip clubs. That has been out in the open from the beginning. My husband and I did not have traditional bachelor/bachelorette parties...the guys played paintball, the girls went out to dinner and we all got together at the end of the night for a big bonfire party. That was perfect for me. 2 months ago, my husband went to a strip club for his friend's bachelor party. I hated every minute of it and we fought for weeks about it. The guys "promised each other that they wouldn't tell what happened there." Its not that I don't trust him...I just truly hate strip clubs and everything they stand for. I don't know how to get over it...I know that my protesting just makes things worse between us. Apparently the guys had "so much fun" last time that they are planning to go next month...What do I do? I just can't get past this!

2006-06-20 08:53:38 · 37 answers · asked by SweetPea 2

We got in a huge fight sunday and things were said and stuff got broke. He told me that he was thru with me and the kids so I started to pack our bags and called my mom to come get me. He told me not to leave that we could work it out and I told him he has lied to me for the last time. So I left and tried to call him hours later and he didn't answer so I called his friends phone the next day and told him to have me to call him when he gets a chance that I came back home and he called me back and I told him that I was sorry for doing the things that I did. I feel bad about and I feel that it has tore a hole in our marriage. I left one time before and it didn't feel like this when I came back. I love my husband. I don't know how to fix this situation are how to make it like it was before. We been married for 5 years and 2 children. If anyone been thru this before how long did it take and how did you help to make it better.

2006-06-20 08:51:09 · 11 answers · asked by michelecmof4 2

My husband encourgages women to call him at any hour on the telephone at home and when i speak about it, he says i am nagging.

2006-06-20 08:48:48 · 38 answers · asked by Beautiful 1

WHy is it difficult for black women to remarry after a divorce or separation than it is for other races? (I am trying to do an analysis of relationships and ethnic groups)

2006-06-20 08:48:07 · 3 answers · asked by Bastard 1971 1

2006-06-20 08:39:27 · 10 answers · asked by lambchop 1

So, my girlfriend and i have been together for 7 years in a mostly long distance relationship, we went to seperate colleges have seperate careers (she is in Med School - I am in sales), both of us have felt like we needed a break at one point or another but we have never broken it off completely She actually did about 3 weeks ago.Tthere has been true love here the kind you may never find in a million years of searching. She decided that she loves me, but is no longer in love (for now). We still talk everyday and see eachother once in awhile, She is my bestfriend, but i can not just be friends with her. Right now there is no initimacy and she is having a real hard bieng intimate although she has been being warmer with hugs and actual passionate kisses. (these were not there 3 weeks ago) But she still needs to time. What else can i do to get her back...not convince her or trick her to love me, but get her to feel the same way.

2006-06-20 08:38:41 · 26 answers · asked by dave g 1