Men always say it's just sex... is that all? no feelings? is that cheating?
2006-06-20 09:06:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mariel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well they do say it's all about sex -- but i still think it's considered "cheating" obviously it's something that they can't get from their wives, and they look for it in other people
however, it's not only men who cheat -- women cheat as well. not as much as the men of course, but they do cheat. i know a married woman who cheated on her husband while he was back home in our country -- im guessing she was lonely? but still, if you love a person so much, you have enough self control not to do anything stupid that will jeopardize your marriage.
my mom always told me that she wishes for me to not have a boyfriend while still in school. i respect her enough to obey her wishes, i didn't want to destroy her trust because i love my mom -- and so i did (follow her wishes), until i graduated from college. it's all about self control, and love is my motivation. now im done with school, she actually became my pimp -- just kidding. well she kinda helps me find one.
self-control is not something you are born with... something that motivates you (like love) should be strong and powerful enough that you discipline your own self for that.
2006-06-20 09:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, as someone who just found out that her husband has been cheating on her yesterday, I would definatly say that sex is cheating!!! I dont think that cheating is gender specific though, either sex will do it, it just depends on the person, and their morals I suppose. I dont understand why exactly. I think maybe the cheater is seeking something with someone else, when they believe they are lacking in their relationship.
2006-06-20 16:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by nellieb_959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on who is wanting to do the cheating. Could be either the man or the woman. Usually with men it is just mainly for sex because they feel they dont get enough at home and for women it is usually about emotions and feelings and wanting to be loved because they do not feel loved by their husband.
2006-06-20 18:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women cheat. Some people do it out of feelings of loneliness or depression, others for the sex. Either way, it's usually because they aren't getting something out of the relationship.
2006-06-20 16:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Appono Astos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband told me that he cheated on me, it was many years until he told me. He said he feared loosing me and knowing me then he would have. God played a part in the timing of his revealing this act. We were married very young, he was young, stupid and a flirt. Had a few to many drinks and found himself in a situation that he didn't have the strenght to pull out of. Sometimes people make a mistake, especially when they are young and don't understand the value of marriage. Sex is cheating, any form of intimacy with another person other than your spouse is cheating, even a kiss. I believe it is the intentions behind the act, the thoughts in your heart and mind which validate cheating.
2006-06-20 20:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Cheaters are equal now, and really NO ONE can afford to point fingers at this present time. People cheat for different reason, so its kinda hard to pinpoint their bad decisions.
2006-06-20 16:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by stephna23_rican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex with someone else is cheating....there are no reasons for cheating...when u ahve a prob in a relationship, u talk to the person or u walk away...if u cheat that shows what type of personality your have: you are a coward!
2006-06-20 16:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for differnt reasons. most likely they are not getting something they need out of their relationship, maybe sex or some emotional or intellectual stimulation.
2006-06-20 16:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. I was totally committed to both of my ex wives and did not cheat on either one in any way. Why they cheat I dunno but I will tell you that it is the last of my 100% committment to women. There is a three strike law and with two I quit.
2006-06-20 19:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is both genders.Nobody really knows anyone completely.You have to have faith,and respect in each other.Cheating is a sign of some sort of dissatisfaction in the person or in their partner.Try to keep it interesting.Good luck,it sucks
2006-06-20 16:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by kim k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋