my husband encourgages women to call at our home?

Question

My husband encourgages women to call him at any hour on the telephone at home and when i speak about it, he says i am nagging.

Answer 1

You are not nagging - your husband is very wrong. If you have talked to him calmly and told him how you feel about this and he still doesn't listen, then you need to get a bit more aggressive about it. Tell him you do not want women calling your home at all - that is not appropriate for a married man on any level. If he still keeps at it, then get into marriage counseling as soon as you can.
Your husband's actions are not normal - what is he talking to these women about? The only way that it's acceptable is if he is a therapist and the women are his patients or if it is somehow work related. If it is work related he should be having his clients calling a cell phone and not the home number out of respect for you and your family.

Answer 2

Oh hell no you are not nagging. This is so wrong on so many levels. What is wrong with him? How would he feel if you had men calling you? I would put a stop to this immediately. This is so disrespectful of your husband to do this. Is he trying to tell you something? If I were in your position I would greet every woman who called my home by asking them if they knew they were calling a married man. I would have to leave him. Why are they calling and what do they talk about? You have to stop this. No wife deserves this treatment. My husband would never, ever, ever do this. How does he justify this? You are not nagging at all. If he doesn't stop this leave his disrespectful butt and than he can have anyone he wants call him. Until then he is a married man and needs to act like one. If it happens again get the number changed or disconnect the phone, that will get your point across.

Answer 3

How Dare Him allow other women to call him at your home are at all. what happen to his voles he took to you when you were married. If he allows women to call him at home then I am sure he has also cheated on you. Do your self a favor . Find a man that really does love you and respects you. You deserve better.
Don't be a fool and think it will get better . Because if wont. It will only get worse and you will be the one hurt. If he really did love you , he would not do this . He sounds like a worthless man. And not all men are like this. Believe me . I have a wonderful husband and it took me years to find the right man. And i have had many husbands. But my last one is from Europe and European men are different from American men. They treat you much better than the American men. And I find him much more romantic than American men. I wish the best of luck to you my dear. Keep you head high and find some one who loves you.

Answer 4

why is women calling your home for him? is it a reason due to the type of work he does? If they are not his family or work related he should not have women calling your home. He is disrespecting you and the fact he is telling you, you are nagging is a red flag. You need to let him know that is not acceptable or you might need to consider the real reason those women are calling at any hour for him.

Answer 5

What women? Business colleagues? Sales ladies? or girl friends ?
If its the latter I would say you are a very strange lady to stand for it. He is obviously cheating and you are doing nothing about it.
I wouldn't be nagging at him, I would have his bags outside the door and the locks changed. Then lets see which of the callers come to get him now that he is out on his proverbial *****.

Answer 6

Even if your husband isn't cheating, he's having either emotional or verbally intimate relationships with these women. He needs to stop it or you need to get rid of him. It's NOT ok, and don't let him convince you it's 'just friendships'. That's hogwash. True test: do the same thing, and say the same things he says when he harrasses you about it.

Answer 7

Who are these women?

I would unplug the phone at night. And answer whenever i can, and explain to the woman that you dont know why your married husband is giving his number away to other women, because it hurts your feelings. THEN hand the phone to him. Never cover things like this with silence.

Answer 8

Your husband wishes that he could have open communication with you. All he wants deep down is to be able to talk about anything or everything with you and not hold back on whatever is on his mind, at anytime!

Sometimes, we feel that we have to choose our words carefully with you, the female sex, because sometimes you over react to things that we say that might be taken the wrong way. Have Patience, Have Faith, and give the poor guy a chance to talk !

When he encourages women to call, it makes him feel important and wanted. He doesn't have to be someone that he is not. He is able to talk to them about everything that is on his mind and he doesn't hold back either.

Answer 9

That is total disrespect for your feelings. Ask him what he talks about to these women who call at all hours and if he doesn't give you a straight answer then you know you need to take serious action immediately

Answer 10

FIRST OF ALL I WANT TO KNOW IS HETHE HEAD A PASTOR OF A CHURCH???? ARE A PAID
DOCTOR OF SOME SORT.. MAYBE THE BOSS OF HIS OWN COMPANY....IF THESE ANSWERS ARE NO!!!!!!!!! WHEN WHY IN THE HECK ARE THESE WOMEN DISRESPECTING YOU LIKE THAT... OKAY FOR THE LADIES THAT IS CALLING THIS WOMAN'S HOUSE STOP IT HAVE RESPECT FOR YOURSELF EVEN IF HE DO NOT.. AND IF THE ANSWER WAS YES TO ANY OF THESE
QUESTIONS... YOUR WIFE SHOULD BE NOTFIED AND YOU (THE HUSBAND) SHOULD
STILL SET UP A CALLING TIME...