My husband works around 70 hours a week. All during the week. This is awful for sex I know but even on the weekends he's not interested. I just had a baby and not to brag but my body is beyond back. Yet ever since I got pregnant he has had no interest. We talked once and he said he just isn't that into sex. With anyone! I've thought about a supplement but maybe I should just do something different.
2006-06-20 09:54:00 · 12 answers · asked by kirkskitti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get him to stop banging the secretary...cuz if he don't want sex he's either gay or stupid.
2006-06-20 10:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by liquer_n_front_poker_in_rear69 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do you think that he may be scared about getting you pregnant again? I am sure he doesnt want to have to double his hours in a work week to support another lil guy! I would say, get a babysitter on one of his nights off, and maybe go out together to a resturant you used to like to go to...catch up on the way you were. Often times, when there is a new addition to the family, you guys forget about yourselves as a sexual couple, and start seeing yourselves as mommy and daddy. If anything, just give him a little more time, 70 hrs is a lot to work in a week, and he is probably pooped out!
2006-06-20 17:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by nellieb_959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to force anything on your husband. If he feels that he must perform then resentment will set in and you'll have more problems than just sex. Was he very interested in sex before you had your baby? Try getting interested in other things besides the sex part of your life. Don't make it the #1 issue.
2006-06-25 16:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often after a man has a child brought into the relationship he has a tendency to look upon the child bearer(you)as the child's mother and not the sexy wench that he use to bang.You need to reinstall that type of Passion and wonderment that was present before childbirth at a time when he is relaxed(week-end)and the child is away(grandparents)
2006-06-20 17:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by racquel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my belief that kids drain the energy from us adults. He is probably torn between being a provider, a husband, a lover, a father, etc. If you want a lover back, get rid of the kids for the night, go out and have some fun. In return his mood might just improve.
2006-06-20 17:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would encourage him to go to the doctor to rule out a physical problem. Viagra may do the trick but it sounds like he could use some therapy. The brain is our biggest sex organ and if he is overly tired his brain is not functioning at it's best. Maybe you guys could take some time off together to rekindle things.
2006-06-20 17:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by toosexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That don't sound good to me. 70 hrs a week will take the wind out of you. Can you get him to cut back to 40?
2006-06-20 17:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you sure he's not dead and just hasn't fallen down... Seriously, you need to have another long talk with him, and this time press for specifics... Why is he not intrested, not just with whom he's not... What dose he expect you to do, HANDLE things yourself... Or worse... If you are married, he really dose, have an obligation... If for some reason he can't, then HE needs to step up, and do some handling of his own...
2006-06-20 17:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by RIBMASTER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have the perfect body you say you do and shake it a lil maybe then he will be interested...... plus viagra
2006-06-20 17:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by jaysbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. If that doesn't work that do sexual things in front of him to get him turned on. Masturbate in front of him and see how he reacts!
2006-06-20 16:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear some seductive clothing and set the mood
2006-06-20 17:03:44 · answer #11 · answered by blueman2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋