I dont care anything and other people's perception. I just wanna get what i want.
what i want is: make him love me. and so much that either can make our relationship much longer---a keeper. or he wud give up his current marriage for me which hence pay money to his wife til she re-marry or dead.
2006-06-20 09:35:41 · 29 answers · asked by bunnyear06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
CONTROL DEAR: THINK WHAT IF SOME OTHER 22 YEAR OLD SAYS SAME THINGS ABOUT UR FATHER
2006-06-20 09:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by smashboy21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all what you are doing is wrong on so many levels - and very selfish. Second, statistically men do not leave their wives for women they have affairs with. So - the odds are that he isn't going to divorce his wife, especially if he is rich - because she will get a TON of whatever he has. You can't make him love you - it doesn't matter how pretty you are - whether or not he has an affair with you odds are he isn't going to leave his family for you.
Why not find an older rich man who is single - there are tons out there. Finding a married man who has a family and trying to break up his marriage isn't the best way to get a man.
2006-06-20 16:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship that starts by breaking other relationship is a bad omen and usualy have miserable ends.
You should re-consider your motive and your objection in life.
Also, when a 52 yr old man is willing to give up his family and go for a 22 yr old girl, there are probably factors other than love involves here...
Somtimes what you want now turns out to something you don't want later on.
2006-06-20 16:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is married apparently he doesn't have any intentions of leaving his wife. And if that's the case you should really back off. I mean how would you feel is you were married and someone was cheating with your husband? The age difference is a bit much but age is nothing but a number and it doesn't define love. If he were single it would be a different story and I would say go for whatever makes you happy but I think that you are setting yourself up for heartache if you think he is going to leave his wife for you. If he was going to really leave her then he would have left her before becoming involved with you!
2006-06-20 16:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i seriously think you have issues, you are what we like to call a home wrecker. you wont get what you want in the end. he wont leave his wife for a peice of azz. he wont leave her for you , he loves his wife and they have been thru so much, you seem like a materailistic person, because you meantioned he was successful. you need to leave him alone and let him live his life worry free, if he has a family and is to old to start all over again with a lil kid, yo uare a kid to him. he wont marry you if he divorces her, he will be free to do what he wants you think he want to settle down again.you will ruin your life and someone elses life if yu try to pursue this
oh and if you dont want anyones perception why would you even ask this question.
2006-06-20 16:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some serious help, not to mention that the fact that you clearly state you care nothing for anyone but yourself makes you an awful catch anyway and so if he is a good man why would he want anything to do with you...hang out at the prison and get yourself a guy you can relate to.
2006-06-20 16:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell ya, if I were that old man, and some 20 year old wants to make love to me day and night, I'm not going to say no. What a way to spend the rest of your life!!
2006-06-20 16:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by I'm all yours 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you can't always have what you want and how can you say you care for him when you don't give a damn about his feeling for his family? Obviously this man is doing alright. Lets say you forced him to do it. He will never give you everything because he is so upset about giving up his family. You need to talk to a counselor!
2006-06-20 17:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by kirkskitti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being a real selfish person about this.Have you ever stop to think about if he has kids how they would feel?Let me tell yeah being a home wrecker does not pay off in the long run...You will be destroying a lot of life's in the process.Think twice what comes around goes around....??????????
2006-06-20 16:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by LosinMyMind101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear one... You need serious mental help.
First... men seldom leave their wife for their mistress...
secondly... if you do "snag him" you only get like 8 good years.
You would make an effective PLAY THING... but he and you both need more!
Do yourself a favor... find a peer... don't be a home-wrecker.
You'll be 50 someday too. Karma is a curious thing.
2006-06-20 16:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a horrible selfish person. Your too young and stupid to realize it yet. If he leaves his wife for you I'm sure he will trade you in for a younger model in a few years. Watch out for the karma.
2006-06-20 16:44:09 · answer #11 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋