2006-06-20 22:37:57 · 22 answers · asked by hratzman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we at least need to know what you did, lol
2006-06-20 22:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Flowers and Chocolates may be his way of saying he is sorry for what ever he did because he may not have ever know how to do it right or when he tried before he messed up. My husban d refused to say he was sorry "For Anything" Then came the "Big Blow Up" and I said you aren't even man enough to say you're sorry and that's when he told me that when he tried with his xwife she always made fun of him. I reminded him I am not her and never will be and My emotions and Pain Can't be bought with flowers and candy. So it took alot of time but now he can say he is sorry, but sometimes it's too hard right then and he gives me something with a note that he drew a heart on and it has his name on it and it say is this OK till later. I never push the issue and in a hour or two he can say it and we enjoy the chocolates together and put the flowers in our bedroom to remind us that one fight won't destroy us. sometimes its 50/50 others its70/30, 90/10 Love is not all 50/50 and neither is life. We all have to understand that
2006-06-21 06:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by ikincukinucme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chocolates and Flowers symbolise Romance.
Women generally like romance..so..i guess a good way to say u'r sorry is to do something romantic.. a gesture that shows u went out of ur way to do something she likes. Being Sorry can move one to do that.
This doesnt necessarily mean he's sorry though(LOL)
2006-06-21 05:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by cookie_recipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. he/she had better show more regret than just tears and flowers. Flowers are a sweet jester, but has been my experience that the 'sorry' gets thrown away with the dead flowers...
2006-06-26 14:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me the word "sorry" means absolutely nothing. if you are really sorry you have to prove that you are sorry, and no, flowers and chocolate don't mean anything.
words are frivolous, actions say it all
2006-06-27 21:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by canadian_beaver_77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, chocolate is an aphradesiac..., and flowers are just pretty (most of the time).
2006-06-21 05:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases they might.It all depends on what you are sorry for and the lady's frame of mind.It wouldn't convince me.
2006-06-21 05:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by mamahunts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps a little bit. But what really helps is not to do same mistake again.
2006-06-21 05:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers gets me every time but everyone is different. I love gifts
send them to me!
2006-06-21 05:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure.. give me the flowers and chocolate and THEN get the **** out!!
2006-06-21 05:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont need any material things 2 forgive someone his mistake,but i need 2 b sure he really mean this "sorry" and he feel bad abt it &he understand his mistake.
2006-06-21 06:04:32 · answer #11 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋