what are the reasons for not having sex drive after only 5 months of being married?
2006-06-23 06:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by indiamor7956 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is both of us cuz I try to see if he initiates but never and that just makes me not want to do anything. I feel unwanted. Maybe he feels the same way. i have no idea. I do know that his job is very stressfull, but he used have a very high sex drive and now I dont know what is wrong.
2006-06-23 07:55:41 · update #1
There is a classic line from the movie "American Marriage" in which Eugene Levy's character tells his son:
"The longer you are married...
"The longer you can go....WITHOUT sex." :)
It's a great line.
If you didn't live together and have sex on a regular basis BEFORE you got married, don't dismay. You have just entered into what I like to call, "The (Emotional) Seasons of Marriage." And like the seasons, they come and go so that you and your spouse will start to develop character which will serve as the foundation of your marriage when things get rocky.
"Season to be intimate and a season to refrain from being intimate."
You should know start to invest in a good library of marriage books. (Here's a few to get you started:)
1. His Needs, Her Needs
2. The Five Love Languages
3. Making Love Last Forever
4. Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars.
5. Captivating
6. Wild at Heart
7. Passionate Marriage
2006-06-23 07:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by obiwanshu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be a hormonal imbalance or a medication which is affecting libido. I suggest you look into any medications you two are taking, find out if there is any sexual side affects, and speak with a doctor about this problem. Talk with each other, keep up the communication between the two of you, this is critical. Don't be embarressed as this will only hinder finding the problem and getting it taken care of. Communication is key in every successful long term relationship. What ever you do keep open the doors of communication. Good luck in finding out what is going on here. I suggest speaking with a proffessional.
2006-06-23 06:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're speaking approximately is a dedication rite, the place 2 human beings pledge to spend time mutually, devote to a minimum of one yet another, and stay mutually. They try this in front of acquaintances and kinfolk, and it rather is somewhat easy interior the Pagan religions, actual. people who try this oftentimes do no longer evaluate themselves married, yet mutually and devoted all the comparable, purely devoid of the place of work work. So back, this is stated as a dedication rite, no longer a marriage, and after this, you're mutually and devoted, no longer married. Edit: And some thing like this is often frowned upon in case you insist on doing it in a church. this is extra of a private place of abode, outdoors, sea coast, or different place element, no longer church.
2016-12-13 18:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by rivalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spice it up more, maybe you/partner is bored already. Go shopping together for sex toys! It's work well, i have been married for 15 years and let me tell you, its the best. Toys do the trick every time.
Dont give up now, try everything to keep it alive. Or the marriage will die slowly.
2006-06-23 07:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either your spouse is cheating,or he/she may just be tired from work or other strenuous activities in their life.Stress can also take away from your sex drive,medication,etc.Have u asked your partner about this ad does he/she give u an answer u can trust?
2006-06-23 07:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by bapalicious@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi my name is jamess, i agree with sony_19, please don't you let your relationship wither away(operative word) you/
you try to initiate the love making, and if he rejects you, or pushes, you away. then maybe it's time for a talk
me and my wife been married 5 years, and the sex is stronger now, than when we first met.
but everybody can't be me(smile)
james
2006-06-23 09:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by JAMES w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
husband is a jerk
husband is doing the secretary
husband is jerking off to porn
find a new one honey
2006-06-23 06:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But it is not healthy. Don't let your relationship wither away.
2006-06-23 07:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who lacks the libdo? You or your spouse?
2006-06-23 06:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by @J@Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it for you or it comes from him. who doesn't have sex drive?
2006-06-23 06:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by **B** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋