How should i start this conversation and any technique advice would also be helpful.
2006-06-23 07:14:16 · 42 answers · asked by flaked_rice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can't because it does HURT!
2006-06-23 07:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by May 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Everything changed with this women/s lib-****. Maybe women should just do as they are told and do whatever their husbands say with a smile. Get in the kitchen and make dinner if your husband wants it, if your husband wants your butthole or any hole you have, you bend over and spread it open for him, love it, and say yes Daddy can I have some more? Maybe if we had more of this and less women talking the world would be better again. There would be less war 'cause women actually took care of their men, like they should. So the molar of this is girls should bend over and take it balls deep for their husband.
2015-04-15 06:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt, but not liek you would actually think. To me it didn't hurt like the first time I had sex. But it still hurt. And the next few days were torcher. I couldn't boo boo. That hurt so much. I won't do it again. Wait until she is fully ready to do that. If she is not be happy with what you got instead of what you don't got.
You can also let her do it to your booty with a toy and then that will prove to her that it won't hurt.
2006-06-23 07:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try it on yourself in front of her with some kind of sex-toy.If you really want to get your wife to try it then this will be a little sacrifice don't you think?
Try and pretend to be bored with your sex-life, in a manner that will make her ask "what's wrong?".You can then tell her and lead into a conversation on how to "spice" things up
2006-06-23 07:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by iw_newc84 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no convincing, IT HURTS! Let your wife know that you will take your time and make sure she is comfortable during the process. Once you get going and she is relaxed, she will be just fine.
2006-06-23 07:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by KCHottie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm for me anal is something that gets me very excited but when he does it it can be unbearable.
Tonnes and tonnes of lube, a little at a time and warm her up first with your finger(s).
The best thing you can do though is to play with her clit whilst you are doing it. It turns pain to pleasure and will drive her wild!
I have had a few occasions when there is enough lube and stimulation that I've had amasing orgasms.
Truth be told tho watching my boyf do it to himself would just make me feel sick and put me right off, don't do it!!
2006-06-23 11:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cara 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some women love it others don't and your answers will reflect that!
So, you need to be very sure she is as keen. If not lay off. If so then lub, slow and safe and STOP if it hurts your wife. After all you love her!
You can not "convince her". She has her own fantasies/needs so as usual, try talking!
2006-06-23 07:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to have wild sex.
It will hurt, but you can try this. Durn sex doggie style, take your tum an insert it in slowly, make sure she is relax, then have some K-Y, close by. put some on the spot so that your tum is lubricated. Then the back n forward motion, like sex. then increace to two fingures. The hole will become wide.
Note: keep fingures lubricatedAlso you D1CK.
Then slip it in..
2006-06-23 07:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
LOL well you cant that would be concincing her of a lie! It does hurt until you do it a few times and get use to it then its nice. Use A LOT A LOT A LOTTTTTTTTT of lube! I would also suggest using fingers or toys first to get her use to the idea...
2006-06-23 07:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mz_AmanDA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there a joke a man died and he had a hard on and they couldn't closed the casket so the call the wife they told her the bad new and they told her it would cost more she said cant something be done well i could cut its off but were should i put it they wife said up his *** so when they had the wake she look at her husband and he had a tear comming down his cheek she lean over and said ITS HURT DONT IT YOU SOB
2006-06-23 07:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude,speak to your wife about this anal sex procedure that worked for me, if she says yes then warn her that is going to hurt just a little. after a while she is going like it! #1- drink some vodka, and #2- hand cuff her. #3- play with her clitoris as you insert your penis in her anus and as your doing it , trust me after doing that a couple of times shes going to love anal sex. Remember she has to be drunk to able to like the pain, after her muscles stretch it wont hurt again. Very important that you play with her clitoris!
2006-06-23 08:10:56 · answer #11 · answered by skdfjasl 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋