Marriage & Divorce - 22 June 2006

2006-06-22 19:54:34 · 8 answers · asked by kb 4

My family doctor told me today that, at my age and maturity that I should not be looking at together forever anymore, I should thinking about just being together for a short time. I believe in happily ever after and I still believe in loving with all my heart. So I put it to you out there. What do you think??

2006-06-22 19:54:08 · 12 answers · asked by c_d_carrier 2

this is for the women out the in answer land. If your bf or husband came to you one day and said he wasn't happy in the relationship and felt like he wasn't his true self, then asked for a divorce would you grant it to him. if so why, if not why.

2006-06-22 19:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by texmafia80 1

He is bi polar can that cause not wanting sex? When we did have sex he came fast and that was that.

2006-06-22 19:32:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents have joined me after their retirement and after 10 years of my marital life. My mother repends for her decision to have joined me on petty kitchen issues with my wife. Similarly my wife. I want give a peaceful life to my parents and live with them as well as my wife. Most affected person on the show at home is my 10 year old son. My parents have to stay with at all costs. can any one tell me a way to make my house a happy home.

2006-06-22 19:29:26 · 14 answers · asked by chappani 2

im me if you think you can help

2006-06-22 19:27:20 · 14 answers · asked by Bobby D 2

We've been married about two years. He had a difficult time adjusting when we had our son. He missed his old life and blamed me for everything. We fought all the time and he drank all the time. He is in college and he developed a "crush". I found out because he was looking her up on the internet and calling her. When I asked him about it, he admitted that he seeked her out because I made him feel so bad about himself that it was nice to have someone to make him feel better. She was an "escape". I know he did not cheat, but only because this girl is very serious about her boyfriend. Since I found out he's been a perfect husband.

2006-06-22 19:25:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-22 19:11:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

You see, i had known that my husband had two girlfriends before we got married. THe other girl and me. But he chose me and we got married. THe problem is i dont know but sometimes the past is haunting me and i feel bad and i hate the other girl. We had a big fight with the other girl before my marriage through emails and call beacuse she accused me of ruining their relationship. THe thruth is i am the gf of 4 years and she for 2 years. This hapened because my bf now my husband works in manila before. My husband told me yes they became lovers but it never stops him from marrying me because it was me he wants to marry. what happen between them is just a fling. Of course i am hurt by that reality but i guess that's what life is all... Now we are married for two years but at times i feel jealous to the other girl when i remember the past. Help me.

2006-06-22 19:11:21 · 14 answers · asked by Sophia Beatrice 1

Here are questions they ask:

My husband beats me, calls me stupid and spends all our money on drugs..should I stay with him for the kids sake?

My husband came home with lipstick on his face and used condoms in his pocket..should I be worried?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 days and he hasn't asked me to marry him..WHY ARE GUYS SO SCARED to COMMIT??

I really want to get married but I want to sleep with other men..is this normal?

I told my boyfriend of 3 months he better ask me to marry him or find someone else..he hasn't called in 6 weeks, what's taking him so long?

My husband has been in jail 12 times and cheated on me 8 times. Does he still love me??

My husband hasn't kissed me or talked to me in 7 years. Does he still love me?

I've been married for 2 weeks. I just don't think it will work, should I get a divorce.

I have a great husband who is loving, caring, romantic, faithful...but I met this bad boy and I want to sleep with him. Should I?

2006-06-22 19:10:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 24yr girl who comes from a traditional catholic family. It turns out that im the 2% birth control did not work for. I am 7-9 weeks pregant and my family wants me to get married. My b/f and I care for eachother a whole lot, and we are moving in with eachother. The thing is he starts medical school in 1 month, and I dont want to rush.Since I have been a little girl I have dreamed of my wedding. I want to get married when we have the money and the time to plan. The last worry we should have is getting married, we need to be planning for our baby and for the both of us to finish school. Its way too much coming at us all at once, and our familes are throwing more at us. I think my family is embrassed b/c im pregant and not married. I hate to hurt my family, I proably should get married so I can make them happy.

2006-06-22 18:53:23 · 28 answers · asked by sarah_jane_bischof 1

The only thing we did was laugh about old times but for some reason I feel I was wrong and that I have something to hide from him.Incidently my mother-in-law lives right across the street so do you think I should go ahead and tell him I had a male visitor?

2006-06-22 18:49:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have to addmit that I LOVE SEX before my husband and i got married we did it anywhere anytime but we only really saw each other 3 maby 4 times a week once we got married it feels like i sorta have to beg for sex as soon as he hits the pillow he's asleep during the day i touch him caress him kiss him and give him little hints that i wanna get naughty but he just doesnt respond ive sat him down numerous amount of times and told him how i felt and how i want him to be more sexual BUT he does nothing to change his just NEVER horny and his only 23 yrs old whats wrong im not bad looking, his crazy inlove with me he does so much for me so i know for sure his not cheating he just wont be able to fit it in lol im good in bed and im willing to try anything once so what could the problem be???

2006-06-22 18:47:32 · 8 answers · asked by bellitarose 4

Guy friends of mine who are married say that their wives don't like to have sex as much as they did before marriage. I've heard the same thing from married women. This is featured alot on TV too... Is it really true? If so, why could this be? Will it likely happen to me too if I get married?

2006-06-22 18:40:29 · 22 answers · asked by Teagan 1

My husbands mother used to lie to him and tell me the truth. Maybe I shouldn't have, but I always told him what she said. He didn't believe me until he caught her lying to him then started taking it out on me, blaming me, etc. One day we were fighting about it and she came over and got in the middle. Since then he hasn't talked to her - I still do for the sake of our children. He has let up on me a real lot, but still says he cannot trust another woman and has not been happy since. He says he wants to "move past it" but doesn't know how and asked me for suggestions. He went to counseling, but says they don't give him any answers so he will not spend money on it. We both feel he cannot get closure from his mother because she won't be honest. Personally I feel if I got past the way he treated me over her then. . .and that we made it through should have brought us closer - he should be turning to me instead of away. Any advice I can give him would be greatly appreciated

2006-06-22 18:36:59 · 2 answers · asked by Jill M 3

I'm American 43 and never married. My fiance is Asian and 33 and never married. We have lived together for 4 years. We both enjoy being together but have seperate groups of friends and interests. Sex life has slowed down but OK.

I often travel to Asia on business for a month or more and sometimes have casual relationships with other women. I've told my fiance that I'm no angel on the road. She said it's OK as long as I'm carful.

I asked her to marry me recently. I've thought about it a long time and decided I do want to have a kid since everyone says its so great. She has always wanted one. I plan to continue to have outside women and, again, she said OK. Big wedding in the works.

It seems the perfect European solution - home, wife, kids, mistriss but my American holywood cultural background says this is not going to work.
Question - Can one have it all? Can I get married, have kids, fool around a little?

Or should I just break it off and be single?

2006-06-22 18:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 37 year old male who was born with Spinal Bifida. I've had my right leg amputated at 10 yrs. of age , then My left leg was broken beyond repair at 15. I am resigned to a chair for life. My mother told me to make up for what I lost in the physycal, with personality. I have done this and every since, my personality attacts people. Men and Women alike . NOW - I am married , My first marrige. I am married to a woman who has been hurt emotionally in 2 failed marriges and has trust issues. She knows that I am true to her but she feels that she is not enough for me due to the fact that I like the attention that I get from women. My question is this- Is it wrong for me to remain the way that I have always been, ( highly personable ). Or, should my wife understand that she's been hurt and should trust in the fact that I DO love her and am true to her and that MAYBE her past effects the way she sees things now and should be more trusting of ME? or is IT ME?

2006-06-22 18:36:12 · 3 answers · asked by wingnutter69 2

my best friend just asked me for advice and I don't know what to tell her....she's getting married next march and her and her fiance' just found out that his wages are about to be garnished b/c of something that happened back in 2000. She is very upset and questioning whether or not she wants to marry him b/c she says she doesn't want to suffer. Keep in mind that this guy had been working for years to get himself out of debt on minimum wage. He thought he was done and then all of a sudden he gets this notice in the mail. Also they have been together for about 7 years. What should I tell her?

2006-06-22 18:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by proudmommy1 2

My wife cheated on me before we were married and had a son......we been together since he was 2 months old....I adopted him and raised him till now( he is 15)

Once again my wife is cheating and I moved outa state and my son and daughter want to come with me.. Problem is my wife is threatening to tell him the truth to get him to stay with her... What do I do? I love him as if he was my own....check that....he is mine!

2006-06-22 18:35:26 · 21 answers · asked by DeeK 2

"lost your head, now you sleep on the floor. things we said, we don't mean anymore" Obscured.

2006-06-22 18:25:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I AM ACROSS COUNTRY NOW AND MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN ACTING STRANGE FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW. HE HAS BEEN DISTANT AND WHEN I CALL HIM FROM HERE HE IS QUICK WITH ME. I CHECKED VOICEMAIL AND THERE WERE 2 NEW MESSAGES FROM "LISA" SHOULD I BE CONCERNED??

2006-06-22 18:17:11 · 16 answers · asked by collegefreshmangirl 1

2006-06-22 17:56:54 · 21 answers · asked by dare_me 1

2006-06-22 17:50:39 · 11 answers · asked by Scared 1

2006-06-22 17:39:49 · 2 answers · asked by daud pathan 1

2006-06-22 17:32:32 · 11 answers · asked by ktterdfurguson 4

2006-06-22 17:10:44 · 37 answers · asked by Momincali 2

my wedding is fixed in few months time... n am quite upset with my in laws coz they are doing some of the things for the wedding as how they wan it to be not as how i liked. They are the kind of people who think what they think and do is the correct thing... so they don accept any ideas or advice. So how to maintain a good relationship with them after my wedding and at the same time i don wan them to make my marriage life misreable?? i don wan them to make decision or expect me to follow their rules after the wedding. I do respect them but at the same i don wan to be get hurt by pleasing them.

2006-06-22 17:08:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who'd rather eat the yummy dinner that she cooks, watch t.v. on the recliner instead than eat with her at a table and listen to her blah-blah-blah stay-at-home mom boring life? If she didn't b@#%* so much about my lack of interest in her, well, ........ maybe I'd grace her w/ my presence....I dunno.

2006-06-22 17:00:39 · 22 answers · asked by whoremonger 1

I love him so much, I am stuck. He is moving on with no problem and that is the last thing I want. We have joint custody of our girls. One week after recieving my papers I tried to commit suicude. That was also before rehab. I know he was planning this and has had more time to adjust and he basically has washed his hand of this. Actually he washed his hands right at the beginning. I never have gotten an opportunity to have a discussion with him with, whys, whens, and hows. We have always been with God, well of course I wasnt when I was behaving like a fool, but I have grown so much spiritually, (that's what keeps me going at the times when I feel I'm completely losing it again. I have faith, and really belief it was meant for me to go through with and to be for my good. He has a lot of bitterness towards me and says we will never be together again. In my heart I know we could so happy. I I'm not expecting miracles 2 day. Is my heart crazy. He is a great man. I am lost. HELP??????

2006-06-22 16:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by DG 2

Ok, here is the deal. My boyfriend is married. Now don't think that I'm a home wrecker or anything, cause I'm not. He is a good friend from high school. Him and his wife were dating and she got pregnant, and they ended up getting married. Well, she never could keep a relationship, so less than 2 years after they were married she had left him twice and ended up pregnant by someone else and then left him. He has been taking care of his son by himself for over 2 years now. We started dating 6 months ago after my daughter was born, which is not his, just to verify. Anyway, he has been trying to get a divorce and the state of Iowa won't give him one unless they go to marriage counseling. There is absolutely no way they would ever get back together. She just had her second child with her current boyfriend, which brings her up to 4 kids now. What kind of advice can I give him to help him figure out what to do? I'm stumped. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2006-06-22 16:37:23 · 10 answers · asked by Sassy Mom 2