I AM ACROSS COUNTRY NOW AND MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN ACTING STRANGE FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW. HE HAS BEEN DISTANT AND WHEN I CALL HIM FROM HERE HE IS QUICK WITH ME. I CHECKED VOICEMAIL AND THERE WERE 2 NEW MESSAGES FROM "LISA" SHOULD I BE CONCERNED??
2006-06-22 18:17:11 · 16 answers · asked by collegefreshmangirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we were arguing alot before i left and he told me 2 days ago he needed his space i called him around 11:45 p.m. his time and he answered the phone when i am at home he has the phone in the kitchen and he turns it off. should i call him tomorrow??
2006-06-22 18:45:41 · update #1
up until about a month ago i don't think he ever cheated on me but he just changed sooo fast.
2006-06-22 18:49:19 · update #2
He has cheated on you. He will blame you because you are across the country but it is him not you. There had to be something wrong with your relationship before you left for him to do this. Cut your losses and move on to a person who will love and respect you as the person you are.
2006-06-22 18:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Layla 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would definately be concerned about that.
Is there any way you can find out the phone number of this Lisa? If so call her and ask her if she is seeing your husband. Chances are that is if she is he gave her some line of crap to make her think you two are separated or getting a divorce.
If she is calling your number freely she must think that much, otherwise she would be more secretive.
2006-06-22 18:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by lovingfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lisa or no Lisa,i would say be concerned. Ask questions.You have a right to be informed. Are you just scared because he's away? If cheating is the object,distance isn't necessary.Prays to all involved. Peace.
2006-06-22 18:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie, it looks like he's probably cheating. I know how you feel, my hubby cheated on me too. Check out the website surviving infidelity. It's a message board for people who have been cheated on. It was my lifeline in the early stages of the whole mess my husband put me and our children through. Good luck!
2006-06-22 19:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Garden Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, It is good to be consicious but don't think as such before you checked everythings. Be open and talk to him who is Lisa and for what purpose has he had her. Try to get the necessary infromarmation from different angle just like policeman who justify some truth. Good luck and hope you to fix things easily.
2006-06-22 18:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by re 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been away?
How much longer will you be away?
Did he have a problem with going away?
There is more to this than we are reading. Maybe he is trying to worry you so you will come home, and maybe he had found interest in someone else.
You need to decide what is important to you. Maybe you can put back together with him, maybe not. You have to decide what you want, what you are willing to do for it, and move on with your life if he is no longer a part of your life.
2006-06-23 02:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Lisa who??Call him, talk to him, and be open.Lets face it....IF he is , theres nothing you can do to him.Its sad but true.But dont be in the dark because its not fair to you being in a one on one relationship if hes out betryaing ur trust.I am so sorry that you cant trust him.Its sad abd good luck.I hope its not anything.
2006-06-22 18:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him who LISA is. Be direct but not snyde, you'll hear it in his voice if he's not being truthful.
2006-06-22 18:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, he probably is cheating on you.
Or you just need a prozac refill.
2006-06-22 18:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Not The Stig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say trust your female intuition if your gut is trying to tell you something listen . and i if i we're you would confront him about this other girl you'll know in your heart if he is being truthful or not
2006-06-22 18:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋