this is for the women out the in answer land. If your bf or husband came to you one day and said he wasn't happy in the relationship and felt like he wasn't his true self, then asked for a divorce would you grant it to him. if so why, if not why.
2006-06-22 19:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by texmafia80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If absolutely all other means have been completely exhausted then yes. I would first make every effort possible to understand and rectify all the problems first.
But unfortunately, sometimes two people are just not right for eachother, sometimes they grow apart. As an absolute last resort, yes I would grant a divorce.
2006-06-22 19:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chryss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be hurt but i would have alot of respect for you coming to me and telling me how you felt .. sometimes on the outside everything seems okay but your dieing inside ..you gotta be honest with yourself ..I dont think i would want to try and work out my marriage if the husband came to me and told me that .. I would most definatly give you a divorce ..you cant try and love someone that dont really wanna love you back ..the truth hurts sometimes but its better to hurt for a lil while then to suffer thru a marriage you dont wanna be in.. just make sure thats what you want first .. and be real with her she deserves that much ..and i think she will respect you for that later ..you never know maybe she feels the same way.. Im kinda going thru some weird stuff myself . follow your heart you gotta be honest with yourself .. do what makes you happy _the truth will set you free! best wishes to you both
2006-06-23 03:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would not and here is why. First of all i would want to know why he did not feel he was his true self. I would ask for him to get counseling and i would offer to go to marriage counseling with him. I also would want to know why he was not happy in the relationship and marriage and what i could do to be a better wife and spouse to him. I would want to try and work on things with him to try and make it better and to try and save the marriage. If after i talked with him and we tried every effort to save the marriage and he still did not want to dwell with me and want to be married to me then I would let him go with divorce.
2006-06-23 06:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...because when small trouble start u know that bigger ones are going to appear...but this is not such a serious reason for a divorce!!!What would she write in the divorce papers..."not my true self"????????She has a bf!!!
2006-06-23 02:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I don't want a partner who can't be their true self with me and who wasn't happy. Why waste your life or someone elses in a miserable situation.
2006-06-23 03:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not before we tried couple's therapy! You should never just give up. At least try to work on it. If you can't fix the problems, move on, but you have to at least try.
2006-06-23 02:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sunny Christian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋