Who'd rather eat the yummy dinner that she cooks, watch t.v. on the recliner instead than eat with her at a table and listen to her blah-blah-blah stay-at-home mom boring life? If she didn't b@#%* so much about my lack of interest in her, well, ........ maybe I'd grace her w/ my presence....I dunno.
2006-06-22 17:00:39 · 22 answers · asked by whoremonger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
her stay at home boring life?.....well maybe you should stop being a ******* jerk off before she gets smart and divorces your ***...then who will cook your yummy food and clean up after your piggish self.....what exactly is your question?
2006-06-22 17:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you try being in her shoes for a week and lets see what you have to talk about. She just may feel the same way about your boring job. You married her and you did love to be with her at some time or another. Whatever happened it's taken a big tole on you. You sound bored and uninterrested in your own wife. How do you think she feels about you? from what I'm hearing she looks at you as her partner and friend or else she wouldn't say anything to you. What would you rather have a talkative wife or a whore who says nothing? At least with the talkative wife your informed of all things. Yet with a quiet whore you never know what you're getting (STD/ CRABS).
Take time to get to know your wife and let her know you. Don't push away the one who loves you or u may end up alone and loveless. Be her friend as she is yours and see if you too like each other. I know the love is there or you wouldn't be asking nor would you be confused. Talk to her and LISTEN that's the one thing you men have a problem with listening. It's not hard just give your marriage more than a try, give it a head start.
GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU AND YOURS
2006-06-23 00:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a well known fact that a woman can take alot from the man she loves, but no woman can tolerate complete indifference. No one likes being treated like a piece of the furniture. Its absolutely essential to a woman that her husband be aware of her - not as the cook - or the babysitter - or the housekeeper, but as a person. You should show more thoughtfulness to her needs and give her your attention instead of griping. Who do you think you are; " I'd grace her with MY PRESENCE "? Man, its funny she hasn't dropped you like a hot potato. It's true, she is right, you do have a lack of interest in her, maybe you should leave her, so she can find someone who will be interested in her!!
Oh Man. Think about it, when you married her you made a promise to Love, Honor, and to Cherish her, So what happened? Your wife needs to feel emotionally connected to her husband, without that connectivity, there is coldness thus bitterness and YES griping about everything from A to Z. When you first met your wife, there must have been some kind of interest for you to go so far as to get married, well how about it huh? I guess that interest in her then, doesn't hold any water now, by your simple statement of her " stay-at-home boring life". Tell me, does she listen to you when you tell her of your " at=work-boring life".
Mister, you need a CLONE!!!
2006-06-23 01:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my wife that when I come home from work I just need some time to relax and collect my thoughts and then I will be ready to listen to your entire day. I just cannot handle hearing it all the moment I walk through the door.
If you dont want to hear about her boring stay-at-home life then allow her to go out and get a job or do something other than stay at home so that she can develop herself as a person and have more to bring to the table.
2006-06-23 00:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Joe K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like you are giving her any love. Gosh, you are criticizing her on the internet. How awful!
Read about what love is about and learn to give instead of take for once...she is obviously starved for some attention. She has children with you and tries to do her best...and you can't give her a few minutes of devoted attention and listening?
You may be the provider financially...agreed. She may be tired and not able to give everything that you might want pronto...but she will be much worse if you are divorced and you are paying child support. Give a little now and reap the rewards of a happy relationship later.
2006-06-23 00:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are an idiot. She's obviously "Nagging" you because you don't pay any attention to her. She wants more attention. You are always watching T.V from what I can pick up. At least let her watch it with you. (Very, very close together.) If she's a mom then you have no right to wine about her! If she has id It's ALL YOUR fault. Oh, and if you hung out with your wife and your kid more then she wouldn't nag you so much. Your starving her of the attention she needs and so rightly deserves! NOW GO TO YOUR WIFE AND KID AND FREAKIN' SPEND SOME TIME WITH THEM!
2006-06-23 00:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by tigersmt334 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i suggest realizing what you just typed.
A stay-at-home mom right?
Ok, so other than you who does she talk to?
How often does she get out?
My partner is a mechanic, an hour away.
And due to finances i am a stay-at-home mom.
So, we compromise.
He plays xbox and i have food ready when he gets home.
And we sit on the couch and "chat" this way no one is left as a "shadow."
She's not nagging, nagging is "why didnt you do this?" or "you said you would do that." Sounds like, you need to say "hey, give me a minute to relax and then we will talk about it all afterwards."
Quick question....How do you know she has a "boring" life if your not listening?
2006-06-23 00:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by vkewl182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women feel that they have to ***** just to get there mans attention pry because it makes them mad that there man isn't giving them the attention that they want. She should be meeting you at the door naked if she really wants to get your attention, but hey maybe she is just so lonely from not being able to talk to another adult all day and from having all that time to think about you. So why not show her that you do care by spending a short 30 minutes to eat dinner with her?
2006-06-23 00:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ambiguous Gemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all a state of mind on your part. If you listen to what she has to say, you will hear that she cares for you and wants you around more. You need to hear her. I've gone through the same thing and it's not that she wants to nag, she just isn't getting the response that she needs from you. Take time to listen to her, really listen and you can make adjustments to make her feel better about your relationship with her.
2006-06-23 00:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grace her with your prescence? come on man thats your wife! You have to understand that her " boring stay home mom ****" isn't so boring to her! Thats her "job" and what she knows at thiis time in her life. You should be a little more understanding and talk to her sometimes, if you want to be left alone and im sure she will stop nagging and let you be. But you have to give a little to get a little!
2006-06-23 00:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making a date with her...like you did when you were dating. Go out to dinner, or do something that involves interaction with each other (no movies) and promise each other not to talk about negative things. For example...read up on current events, talk about those (weather, celebrity gossip, world news, local news, sports and so on) and be sure to agree to disagree on some things, rather than let opposing viewpoints cause a new thing to gripe about.
2006-06-23 00:05:05 · answer #11 · answered by scheiem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋